Today we’d like to introduce you to Tammy Shaklee
Hi Tammy, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
After my parents divorced when I was young, I found myself enjoying the best of both worlds. I was a city girl with my mom and a farm girl in Oklahoma with my dad during high school. My passion for connecting people began early, evolving from a career in broadcast journalism to roles in politics and philanthropy. After a career break, I discovered my true calling: helping people find love. I now interview some of the most eligible and impressive singles across the US, serving as a matchmaker to help them meet their special someone.
Having divorced and with no children, I moved to Austin, Texas to start anew and took on the role of CEO at the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Although I never tried online dating myself, I opted to hire a matchmaker. This time, I hoped to find a compatible partner who could love me in return, and I found that—and more.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
When I launched my gay and lesbian matchmaking company, I spent months conducting focus group interviews with singles from the community. I became a certified matchmaker, developed a detailed business plan, and created a pitch deck for potential investors. Despite receiving lots of encouragement and praise, I struggled to secure any investors or partners. Everything changed when a final group of LGBTQ angel investors advised me to “Become the Oprah of gay matchmaking.” This advice led me to pivot and bootstrap the entire company. The initial years were challenging, but looking back after 12 years, I realize it was the best thing that could have happened. Operating independently allowed me to concentrate on client satisfaction without the pressure of external partners or investors. It compelled me to build a highly effective and efficient operation driven by hard work and passion. The nickname Tenacious Tammy, which I’ve carried for 30 years, still perfectly describes me.
Alright, so let’s switch gears a bit and talk business. What should we know?
H4M Matchmaking is a leading LGBTQ-certified matchmaking company dedicated to helping LGBTQ professionals find lasting, meaningful relationships through personalized, offline matchmaking services. Founded by certified matchmaker Tammy Shaklee, our mission is to help LGBTQ professionals find fulfilling, long-term relationships through personalized, offline matchmaking services. With a focus on traditional introductions and dating, we eliminate the guesswork and uncertainty associated with blind dates, meet-ups, and dating apps. Tammy and her team conduct personalized interviews and in-depth background checks to ensure safety and tailor their matchmaking process to individuals who genuinely align with one another. As an LGBTQ ally and advocate, Tammy understands the challenges faced by singles and provides a supportive environment and coaching for her clients. With H4M Matchmaking, you can trust that your dating experience will be enjoyable, worry-free, and tailored to your preferences, as we connect you with like-minded singles who share your interests, standards, and lifestyle.
What makes you happy?
For 15 years, my husband and I have often told others, “We wake up happy every day.” And it’s true. Even during challenging times, we’re grateful to have each other to share life’s journey with.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.h4m.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/h4mmatchmaking/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/H4MMatchmaking
- Twitter: https://x.com/h4mmatchmaking









