Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Vicki Murphy. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Vicki, thanks for joining us, excited to have you contributing your stories and insights. To kick things off, we’d love to hear about things you or your brand do that diverge from the industry standard

As a psychic medium, I was frustrated with the results of just looking into future potential with clients. They would return with the same problems over and over. That is when I determined that accountability would help. I offered a program for them to follow, but that wasn’t enough. I then created a “healing” method that helps clients clear what is keeping them stuck in painful relationship and work patterns and keeping them broke and out of alignment with abundance. This method is what I offer that is different from what others in my industry offer. But, here’s the real difference…
I accelerate their healing and manifesting process using my intuitive insights. They spend less time trying to “figure out” what is really in the way so they can find the love that they want, make the money that they desire doing what they love and find what their true purpose is.
My clients are living their dreams! And my unique perspective helps them see a “block” as a positive life tool, a vehicle to get exactly what they want.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

Following my bliss and creating 2 highly successful 6 figure + soul based business was not an easy challenge! I found myself on a psych couch, struggling for my life.

I had to learn to walk through my fears, bust patterns of shame, guilt, resistance and more in order to leave my old life behind (although that is not always necessary!). I waited until I was in so much pain that it deeply impacted my wellbeing, stealing my happiness and mental and physical health.

I healed. It took me so much time and effort, but I did it.

And as I struggled, I vowed that I would not allow another person to go through this in the hard way that I had, I created a program so other beautiful souls didn’t have to struggle, so they could get happier & healthier faster and easier.

My methods work! And I have been blessed to have helped hundreds break through what has kept them stuck and hurting, kept them in fear based jobs and relationships, even after years of trying other things, including more traditional methods.

“One session changed my entire life!” I hear over and over again. Why? Because I use my intuition to get to what’s really keeping you stuck, “seeing” hidden energy and past life Akashic challenges.

I help you clear the energy – that is one of the biggest keys to my success, and how I differ from those in this industry.

Why just look at what you could create if you continued in challenging patterns when I can help you manifest what you really want – happiness and success?!

That was the very question that I asked myself which led me to create my methods and program that is helping so many.

I use methods that actually transduce the energy within your body, mind, and soul. Change must happen there first in order for you to manifest something different in your life. And you must “see” it before you can change it.

Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?

I remember the most impactful information that I received intuitively that has kept me resilient for my entire life. Whenever I stumble into a life challenge, I remember that each challenge is really a tool for my growth. That each challenge, is specifically “showing us” some important information that we may need to move forward.

When you look at your challenges this way, you can use them to help you instead of using them to victimize yourself and to stay stuck.

Here’s a great example of a challenge that will illustrate how they can work for you. I was driving to LA to speak, when all of a sudden my car struck something in the road and I blew a tire. As I pulled over to the side of the road, there were several cars (over 15!) that had struck the same object and blown their tires.

I began to panic, thinking, “I don’t know how to change the tire on this car”, and allowed lots of other negative fear based thoughts to surface.

I walked up to the car behind me, a mom and two sons, and began blathering about how I didn’t know how to change my tire. All of a sudden I noticed that they had two flat tires.

I only had one. They were calm. That’s when the irony hit me.

I had been wondering what I was going to speak about. I was headed up to LA to talk about “How not to let your fears impact your life”!

Hilarious, Universe, hilarious, I thought to myself.

The lesson for me was a reflection of how easy it is to step back in to old habits and to forget all that you know about how to manifest solutions! I could have chosen to stay stuck in fear, but the outcome that you are about to read probably would have changed.

As soon as I let go of my fear and actually began to laugh, yes, I probably appeared a little crazy as I went from panic to laughter within seconds, a police officer appeared on the spot and helped me change my tire.

On top of that, it gave me my topic for my speech.

All was well, and I have use that story to remind myself to not allow fear to “drive my bus” as I like to say. As well, it’s a great reminder regarding your challenges serving you – it’s up to you to figure out what the message is and how to use it to heal and grow. Which is a choice!

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

Most of us learn how to stay safe and develop what I call “safety mechanisms”. A great example, and one that I used as a child and young adult was people pleasing. This came easy as it was super easy for me to read the energy of others and figure out what to do to make them happy, or at the very least what to do to avoid their angst.

As I grew and healed, this mechanism no longer served me. I had over given for most of my early life, saying yes, when my body, mind and soul wanted to say no., ignoring my own needs and wants to fulfill those of others, making them and their feelings more important than my own, and depleting my energy to the point of making myself sick.

I credit this safety mechanism with teaching me to value myself.

As I became depleted, and resentful of those who were “asking too much” from me, I realized that this was me victimizing myself!

I realized through healing that it was up to me to set healthy boundaries. It was up to me to figure out how and why I didn’t have healthy boundaries in the first place.
And had I not gotten depleted to the point of being sick, I never would have been forced to look at this painful pattern. I wouldn’t have gifted myself with the insight and healing that allowed me to give to others in a healthy way, a way that was truly beneficial to them.

Over giving is something that we may learn from watching others as we grow up. We may pick it up through words, or actions toward us or others. We may learn that it’s a way to avoid conflict, a way to get more love from those who may not be able to give it for their own karmic reasons and soul wounds, a way to avoid conflict that may put us in danger of someone yelling or over reacting.

As we heal those deep wounds we are able to set up healthy boundaries and “unlearn” unhealthy behaviors that keep us depleted and possibly in subservient roles that don’t allow for us to manifest in the way we truly want.

Contact Info:

• Website: www.vickimurphy.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifecoachvicki/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/westcoastmedium
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vicki-murphy-855b7a38/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/angelmessages71
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOBwAXTrO6KjmB2-Pgf2F2A
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professional photos by Tara Emerson Photography