We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Stacey J. Gholar. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Stacey below.
Stacey, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. Let’s start with the story of your mission. What should we know?
The story behind my mission is deeply rooted in my personal beliefs, experiences, and outlook on life. From a young age, I’ve always been an optimistic individual, seeing the potential for growth and happiness even in the face of challenges. This optimistic perspective has shaped not only my personal life but also my approach to business and creating organizations with a purpose.
Throughout my entrepreneurial journey, I realized that my true calling was to empower and educate others to overcome adversity and lead a purposeful life. This realization became the foundation of every business or service I ventured into, including The Bounce Back Social Club and my skincare company under LIVE365 Empowerment.
With The Bounce Back Social Club, I aimed to create a space where individuals could find the strength and support to navigate life’s setbacks. I wanted to foster a community that embraced resilience and encouraged one another to rise above difficulties. Having experienced challenges and overcome them through resilience and a positive outlook, I knew the immense value of such a community.
Similarly, my skincare company was born out of a desire to empower women, particularly as they age. I wanted to promote self-care and self-love by helping women feel beautiful and confident in their own skin, sans makeup. Aging is a natural process, and I sought to show that embracing it can be empowering and beautiful. This mission was driven by my belief in the importance of self-confidence and the transformative power it can have on a person’s life.
In every endeavor, my driving force has been the conviction that there’s a better way to live and thrive, even in the face of challenges. Empowerment, education, and resilience are the cornerstones of my mission, and I strive to infuse these values into every aspect of my work. Seeing individuals embrace their potential and find strength in the face of adversity is the ultimate fulfillment of my mission, and it continues to drive me forward in all my business ventures.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
Hailing from the vibrant city of Chicago, also known as the Windy City. My journey into the world of entrepreneurship began within the walls of corporate America. However, I quickly realized that my true passion lay in utilizing my talents to benefit others beyond those corporate confines.
Driven by the desire to provide valuable services independently, I embarked on a path that led me to establish a personal assistance company. My very first client was my dear cousin, the incredible Lisaraye McCoy, and this marked the beginning of my journey working with celebrities and VIP professionals.
My fervor for supporting and empowering others has always been deeply ingrained in my purpose. Over time, this passion has blossomed into the creation of several businesses that share a common foundation – the principle of support and empowerment.
Presently, I am immensely proud to head the Bounce Back Social Club, an organization close to my heart. At its core, this club serves as a beacon of resilience and emotional intelligence, imparting strategies to women, helping them bounce back from life’s adversities. It’s about fostering self-awareness and understanding the art of minimizing problems while maximizing solutions, operating from a space of reality rather than emotion.
To further extend the club’s reach and impact, I launched the Bounce Back Podcast, sharing our beliefs and insights with a broader audience. Through this platform, we delve into real stories, offering practical tips and strategies to empower others in their journey of bouncing back. It’s about connecting with people, letting them know they are not alone, and providing a roadmap for them to navigate life’s challenges.
What sets me apart and what I aspire to leave as my legacy is a genuine dedication to transforming lives. I strive to be the catalyst that ignites a flame of hope and determination in others. My work isn’t just a service; it’s a purpose-driven commitment to make a positive impact on individuals, encouraging them to rise above adversity and find their strength within.
One of my proudest accomplishments is building Skin Life Skincare, a brand that not only nourishes the skin but also embodies the ethos of rejuvenation and self-care. It’s a testament to my belief that caring for oneself goes hand-in-hand with bouncing back and excelling in life.
In all my endeavors, I aim to leave a legacy of empowerment, resilience, and kindness. I want people to connect with me, not just as a businessperson, but as a fellow human being with a genuine passion for supporting and uplifting others. I invite you to join me in this journey, to bounce back together, and to create a world where we all thrive.
Any stories or insights that might help us understand how you’ve built such a strong reputation?
Building a strong reputation within a market is a multifaceted endeavor that requires a blend of authenticity, honesty, empowerment, and a genuine desire to connect with and uplift others. Your unique qualities, characterized by your genuine personality and realness, have played a significant role in shaping this reputation.
Authenticity and Genuine Personality:
Being authentic and true to yourself is a cornerstone of building a positive reputation. When you present your genuine personality to the world, people can relate to you on a deeper level. Your authenticity shines through in your actions, communication, and relationships. People appreciate and gravitate towards individuals who are transparent and unapologetically themselves.
Honesty and Transparency:
Honesty is a vital component of any solid reputation. Your commitment to being honest in your interactions, whether it’s with clients, customers, or colleagues, builds trust and credibility. When people know they can rely on your word and trust your intentions, it fosters long-term relationships and a positive reputation.
Keeping it Real:
“Keeping it real” implies staying true to your values and beliefs, even in challenging situations. This trait is a reflection of your integrity and reliability. When people observe your consistency in standing by what you believe in and sticking to your principles, they perceive you as trustworthy and dependable.
Openness and Approachability:
Your openness to new ideas, feedback, and collaboration fosters an environment of inclusivity. This inclusivity makes people feel comfortable approaching you with their thoughts and concerns. Being approachable is key to forming meaningful connections and gaining insights that can help you grow both personally and professionally.
Empowerment and Uplifting Others:
One of the most admirable traits is the desire to empower and uplift those around you. When you genuinely care about the success and well-being of others, it shows in your actions. Providing support, encouragement, and guidance demonstrates that you’re invested in the growth and success of the people you interact with, creating a positive reputation as a mentor and leader.
Demonstration of True Self:
Being unafraid to show your true self, vulnerabilities and strengths alike, resonates with people. It humanizes you and makes others feel they can relate to you on a personal level. Sharing your experiences and lessons learned allows others to connect with you and gain valuable insights from your journey.
Consistency and Reliability:
Consistency in embodying these qualities is crucial. Over time, your consistent display of honesty, authenticity, openness, and empowerment builds a reputation that people can rely on. They know what to expect from you and can trust that your actions align with your values.
Your reputation in the market has been shaped by your commitment to being genuine, honest, empowering, and approachable. These qualities not only define your character but also create a lasting positive impact on the people you interact with, fostering strong relationships and a solid reputation within your market.
Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?
2020 was a year of me bouncing back from a much needed breakup. It launched my path to healing and self-discovery in the midst of a pandemic. Through my healing I was led to start an e-book and program called How to Bounce Back from a breakup. After doing a lot of work and soul searching, I realized that the way we sometimes look at a break up wasn’t healthy and often was led by our emotions. Needless to say, I got started but didn’t finish.
Fast forward to January 2023, life took an unexpected turn. When my mother’s health unexpectedly plummeted, I was thrust into a role I hadn’t anticipated, nor was I prepared for. Physical space, healthcare knowledge, and emotional strength were all lacking. The bounce back that was supposed to begin in 2020 remember? Or so I thought.
The responsibility of caregiving weighed heavily, and my emotions fluctuated between frustration, sadness, and helplessness. Learning the intricacies of the healthcare system while providing compassionate care was a daunting task. It felt like juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, each demanding my attention and energy.
Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months. Every moment presented new hurdles, but it also provided opportunities to learn, adapt, and grow. Immersed in understanding my mother’s condition, researching treatments, and seeking guidance from professionals and support groups, I underwent a trial by fire that forged my resilience.
The resilience that emerged from this unexpected caregiving journey was fueled by love, compassion, and a desire to be there for my mother. It uncovered an inner strength I didn’t know I possessed, pushing me to rise above my own limitations and fulfill the caregiver role she needed.
Throughout these months, I realized this unexpected path had illuminated my purpose and provided the strength to begin my intended bounce back, albeit delayed. After three years, in August 2023, I was able to initiate my journey of resilience and self-discovery, transforming adversity into an opportunity for growth.
Through the challenges, frustrations, and even moments of depression, I found solace in being there for my mom and making a difference in her life. This journey isn’t over but has taught me invaluable life lessons about empathy, patience, and the resilience of the human spirit. It showed me that even in the face of unexpected trials, we have the capacity to rise above and become stronger than we ever imagined.
The resilience born from this journey has not only shaped me into a more compassionate and understanding individual, but it has also propelled me to embrace life’s uncertainties and transform them into opportunities for growth and love, initiating my intended bounce back in early 2023 through the caregiving role I undertook for my mother.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.skinlife.me
- Instagram: @bouncebackwithstaceyj
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealstaceyj
- Twitter: www.twitter.com/therealstaceyj
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Girard Hale Timeless Imaging Atlanta