Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Shuni. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Shuni, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. Risking taking is a huge part of most people’s story but too often society overlooks those risks and only focuses on where you are today. Can you talk to us about a risk you’ve taken – it could be a big risk or a small one – but walk us through the backstory.
Taking a risk to evaluate myself. My past version of my self I was partying in the club and drinking with so called friends. Back to back to back. Thinking that I was honestly missing out on something. Wanting to be seen. Wanting attention and wanted eyes all on me because mentally I didn’t want to be alone. Mentally I didn’t understand the meaning of life. I wanted to be around people to feel safe. But In reality moving with that mindset only made things worse. From friends setting you up. To almost getting kidnapped at a house party with a man pretending to be a guest. I remember I stepped outside just to take a break from all the chaos from the night life and loud music. A man picked me up on his back and threw me in a red charger. The funny part is that it was a few people watching. Minding their business. But luckily a group of men was shouting my name saying my sister was looking for me and I remember yelling and the man trying to hurry to close the door and I just remembered fighting my way out and the guys fought him ….that night went on…and just feeling like I was disconnected with myself. Feeling lost with who I really am. Who am I ? I’m starting at myself in the mirror..screaming and crying..yes dramatic as it was but I had to because later on I learn that is a way of healing. Started connecting with trauma bonding women and it didn’t heal me it kept me stuck in a cycle of searching with my heart wide open in the need trying to feel safe and loved. One day Covid happen. Months of learning of connecting deeply with myself and my family falling ill I had to step up. My mother with breast cancer , my grandparents with Covid and I’m a mother at that I had to fully step up. That took a mindset change. A spiritual change. A body change. A environment change. So much work was involved to be where I am today. Taking that risk to be that version of myself I seen as a child. That I see in my dream calling out to me to meet me here. To cut off the people who had to much access to me. The fake love romance when it was only about sex. The fake friends when it was only to drink. The fake environment to take your money and have people out there minds and away from there family. Learning that the real love starts and ends with you. That melts into your family dynamic. Connecting to the hoodies you truly enjoy. Gardening ,Hiking , DIY projects with the children painting in my garden and laughing and meeting like minded and core valued people like me and learning what I truly what in my life. Not what I want in other people lives. Taking that risk and step everyday to just be the best version. By being present and enjoying the smallest and largest thing in life. Do you know that a lot of people don’t even take a risk to just discover what they really enjoy ? Know who they are ? What do you enjoy doing by yourself ? Who are you? Asking deeper questions to know themselves or take that action. End this present moment I’m still going I’m so grateful for the experiences I have had in my past and where I am now. So many stories to tell to inspire others but to say how it turned out hahaha I’m still living so I would have to tell you all in a book when it’s time.
Thank you so much for taking the time out to read. May you keep taking that risk on yourself because it’s other people that’s looking up to you and guest what the main one is you.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
Insahyt is a Luxury Decor travel company. Where we create experience of lifelong happiness when you enter a room. The purpose of it the experience you have when you see the room set up and don’t have to worry about anything when it comes to your perfect getaway. Literally a one stop shop. Which you can see on our website . They key is the joy and happiness when we all put this together for you. The ingredients of love , passion and happiness is how we attract our guest. That’s what they are looking for. Long lasting memories they can share and show generations before and after them. That has them light up with happiness and a peace of mind walking into there experience.
Any insights you can share with us about how you built up your social media presence?
The best way to grow your audience is Networking on all social media platforms. Facebook , YouTube , Twitter , Pinterest Linkin. Joining Facebook groups and there groups on all platforms you just have to step out and take that change and type in what you are looking for and you’ll find like minded people like you but also you have to watch out for those who are just being selfish for there own gains.
Another thing is Networking in person and attending social events or maybe just speaking to people at the park and getting yourself out there. You will never know who you’ll meet.
Another thing is putting yourself on social media and promoting yourself and your business. Making content that is authenticity you. People can feel when it isn’t real and true so stick to being you at all times. What’s done in the dark will come to the light. So work hard and people will see when it’s your time.
Are there any books, videos or other content that you feel have meaningfully impacted your thinking?
We have Osho about spiritual personal development he has many books.
-The cashflow quadrant by robert kiyosaki
( THE CASHFLOW IS A MUST READ FOR ALL BUSINESS OWNERS AND PEOPLE LOOKING TO START ONE READ ASAP )
The art of loving – learning to love yourself and forgive
The human design – about your body and so much more.
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