We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Shari James. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Shari below.

Shari, appreciate you joining us today. Have you ever experienced a times when your entire field felt like it was taking a U-Turn?

The coaching industry has changed what it is to be a healer. Fifteen years ago, I could no longer ignore my healing gifts and stepped into being a healer as my business. Being a healer at that time was seen as noble work, which meant you did not make much money. The coaching industry came along and taught us how to package our work, create a niche, and charge according to value.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

Being a holistic sex coach and tantra teacher isn’t something I dreamed about as a little girl. I had innate intuitive abilities and was an empath, although that word was not known back then. I became a Registered Nurse specializing in diabetic care and post-open heart. I was simultaneously working as a stripper, so on some level, the road was being paved to become a sexual healer. In 2006 I had a full kundalini awaking. During my awakening, I received the transmission to be a Tantra teacher and sexual healer. I also became highly intuitive as a clairaudient, clairvoyant, claircognizant, and clairsentient. I learned to apply these gifts to my specialty of sexual healing. After the awakening, men, women, and couples showed up out of nowhere for sexual healing, and I intuitively knew how to help them.

Erectile dysfunction was the biggest issue for men, and I did not have the understanding or tools at that time to help them, so I turned to doctor friends to send me their incurable patients and worked with them until they were healed.

I specialize in working with men struggling with erectile dysfunction who do not want to take pills, have taken them and did not get results, or cannot take them because of side effects.

I take the mystery out of ED using a “root cause” holistic approach that targets the ten significant imbalances that cause impaired sexual function.

My work also enhances the results of injections, acoustic wave therapy, PRP, and pills for guys who want to stay on them.

I also have begun working with women around the issue of low libido. Low libido is the #1 complaint I hear from men, and it goes hand in hand with erectile dysfunction.

What set’s me apart from others is that I genuinely care and see it as a privilege to be on this journey with men and their partners. I derive immense emotional fulfillment from helping people and saving relationships.

Can you tell us about a time you’ve had to pivot?

I burned my business down to the ground in the past four months. I let go of fantastic employees, eliminated all of my technology other than my website, and eliminated marketing costs. I still work via Zoom, and now I work with people in person.

I did this because I was recessing too far back from the front of my business.
I spent 8O% of my time on my business and not “in “my business.
I didn’t feel like a healer.

Now I am rebuilding and finding balance as I go.

If you could go back in time, do you think you would have chosen a different profession or specialty?

For me being a sexual healer wasn’t a choice; it was a calling that I resisted and repeatedly surrendered to.

The biggest challenge in working with sexuality is societal judgment and projections. One has to achieve a high level of self-mastery and unwavering boundaries. I have to be sensitive and feeling to be an effective healer, yet deal with the frequent “beat downs” of putting my work out there.

I can’t just purchase ads on social media like everyone else, and social media posts must be watered down… generic sounding. A credit card merchant canceled me without warning and put me in the same category as felony drugs, firearms, and prostitution. I don’t touch anyone. Most of my work is virtual. I’m healing, teaching and coaching, but I get lumped into the sex category.

There are days when I see ads for handmade jewelry on Facebook, and I play out a fantasy scenario in my mind of how much fun and how much simpler my life would be. Jewelry designer.

Contact Info:

• Website: www.shari-james.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharijamestantra/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaRiJaMesPage/
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shari-james-rn-68382072/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi2sw2dE9Ra4BJEhkcir9Qg/videos

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