We recently connected with Sandra Pelley and have shared our conversation below.
Alright, Sandra thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. Can you open up about a risk you’ve taken – what it was like taking that risk, why you took the risk and how it turned out?
For years I’ve been known as an inner peace mentor, then dragons started to make an appearance. The inner peace mentor side of me has helped many people discover their limiting beliefs, expectations and childhood traumas that had been holding each of them back. Such an individual journey!
The similarities with my own path through life is the main reason I was able to help others. I went through a radical change in who I am, when I discovered it was me causing most of my problems. That is what I have helped others see for themselves too. Look at what you think others are doing to you, then ask where you are doing this to yourself. Yes, read that sentence again…
I could go off on a fairly large tangent around this topic. Suffice it to say that if you know what I am talking about, you have done or are doing the work. Way to go. If you have no idea what I am talking about when I say go within, that’s okay. It may not be the right timing for you yet. Or you could make the decision to look for answers around what I may mean. So begins your journey.
Anyway the big shift, the big risk that has been presented to me is to do with this dragon energy. This is an ongoing process that I am currently in the thick of. In a recent conversation I said that I felt like Dragon was yanking me into the future. Can you imagine what that might feel like? Everything is being tossed around in my life.
As well as questioning who my clients are now, what is my new role due to dragon energy, and why is this happening at a point in my life when both of my parents’ health is going sideways, I had a sense of a personal powerful expansion. As one parent was choosing to live, the other was choosing to give up. In the middle of this turmoil all kinds of dragons kept popping in.
My first encounter with a dragon was in 2017. Please take a moment to let your imagination run wild when I say my first encounter. In the metaphysical spiritual side of things, all things are possible. Dragons were popping into my thoughts. Last year as I led a Medicine Wheel program other dragons showed up often. This year I asked that my spiritual journey be accelerated. You may know what I mean by a different phrase, I asked to 10x my life in a specific area.
The underlying current of this has been first reclaiming my feminine side. Since I was very young I have been somewhat of a tomboy. This was instilled in me when I was 12 years old with a sprained ankle. Oh, she’s tough she’ll be fine was what I heard and then adapted to. By reuniting with my girly side in November 2022 it paved the way for the dragons to come in even more easily. I was in balance and they recognized my abilities had grown with this balance.
Now dragons are showing me many things. In a world where times are changing and we are being asked to take a step in a new direction, a new way of thinking, some of us, myself included, are going way out there. I am in discovery mode with dragon energy. At present I am claiming I am the Dragon Ally. I am in a state of awareness with what dragon may want to help me see and understand.
Throughout my journey I continue to help others understand clearly the messages from their spirit guides in whatever form they appear. This is the bridge between who I have been and who I am becoming. It helps keep me grounded. An ever evolving journey through life and mystical magical realms.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
I help spiritual people get clear messages from their spirit guides. It began with my understanding my own needs and with that two powerful mantras came in. The I am Love mantra and the I am Open mantra. The underlying theme in who I am and what I do has been to learn how to love oneself and to be open to the possibilities.
Humans have created roadblocks along the way. Some of these have been learned in this lifetime and others have come generational through the DNA. It is simply amazing what is stored within the genetic makeup of the body.
Through my own ‘awakening’ I found that many of the underlying pieces were what everyone was experiencing. That is how my holistic metaphysical business began. A number of courses that involved healing modalities, as I was also healing a dislocated pelvis injury. These introduced the concept of energy as well as power versus force. There is power in love.
My clients and students are open to learning about themselves, finding the expectations, limiting beliefs and traumas that have affected their every day lives. This may begin with …
1. a simple conversation with me. It’s amazing what your own way of speaking reveals to me. A 20 to 30 minute conversation can begin true life changing habits
2. the Soul Reading – an in depth conversation with your soul using oracle / tarot cards – this can be as long as two hours, includes photos and audio recordings. Using eight main chakras, answers are given for either a general reading or to specific question(s) you may have
3. the 7-week program Chase the Dragonfly – follow the dragonfly through 8 main chakras healing childhood events – similar to our inner child evolving into an adult, the dragonfly evolves into a dragon. Limiting beliefs and expectations are often revealed as we work through topics like money, relationships, your physical body, your gifts or talents and your spiritual journey. As each topic is covered you will discover underlying beliefs, you will learn how to rewrite those beliefs into new ones and adapt to an improved version of yourself.
4. a deeper dive occurs with group work in the Dragon Wheel of Life – a 3-month or yearly program. This really brings you together with your own guides. It is a journey of creating the life you never dreamed possible. It enhances the magic already in your life or brings it in to your day to day life. It is almost impossible to tell you what this program is about as each individual that goes through it has their own results. It will change how you look at the world, how you look at yourself and strengthen your connection to your spirit guides and so much more.
5. and finally 1:1 work in a Vision Quest – a 3 to 6-month discovery of YOU… I see the incredible u. I help you to find that person within yourself that wants to come out and be a part of your life.
What do you think helped you build your reputation within your market?
One of the main things I have done during my years as a business owner is kept showing up. I kept showing up for myself and for my community, clients and business. There is a phrase ‘when the going gets tough the tough get going’. That is what it takes. Just keep showing up.
That also means keep showing up everywhere, As I use social media as my main platform, I hop on all kinds of things. I make positive heartfelt comments everywhere and if there is a space to share me, I do. There are also areas that have the ability to schedule posts and I take full advantage of this. When sharing posts I share ME… my community and clients are not bombarded by sales talk. Yes I sell myself, what I offer AND I create posts that show other sides of who I am. It has been beautiful to watch the response to the everyday posts.
The other part to this is how I show up. Authentically! I have shared my story of trials and celebrations while helping others go through their journey to the other side. Everything I do is for the highest good, the most benevolent reasons and the greatest good of all. There are no ulterior motives.
I see the Incredible U… I help you discover that part of yourself so you see the Incredible U too.
Other than training/knowledge, what do you think is most helpful for succeeding in your field?
Sometimes there is no training for what I do. Sometimes it is about just stepping in and believing. This comes back to one of the two mantras, the I am Open, with no expectations, no limitations, being okay with the outcome and I am the outcome.
One of the things I realized is that it was really easy to develop ‘comparitis’ – when you compare yourself to others. In the beginning I was constantly seeing what others were capable of and wished I could be like them. By continually breathing my way through the I am open mantra I discovered I could be me. This opened up a whole world of possibilities. In fact by having no limitations my options became limitless. That’s where my truth growth began and continues.
Listening to podcasts that are relevant to all aspects of my life and reading both fictional and non-fictional books has been giving me confirmations as well as next tiny steps.
And the final thing that has helped me in my business is the self care practices I have in place. I choose to walk 7500 steps plus a day and am an avid mountain biker. My husband and I have camperized our third van. This one is a keeper so far. We love traveling and mountain biking all over North America. I literally run my business where ever I am.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.sandrapelley.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesandinisandra/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sandrapelley.thesandini/
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-pelley-the-sandini/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSandini
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SandraPelleyTheSandini
- Other: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soulfulempowerment
Image Credits
Sandra Pelley Paul Pelley Karen Davis