Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Robin Breckenridge. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Alright, Robin thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. We’d love to hear about the best advice you’ve ever given to a client? (Please note this response is for education/entertainment purposes only and shouldn’t be construed as advice for the reader)

One of the most impactful pieces of advice I gave a client was, “You can’t control what you think and feel, but you can control what you do with what you think and feel.” This client was constantly overwhelmed by their emotions, feeling out of control and reacting impulsively in moments of stress. They believed that their feelings dictated their actions and felt stuck in cycles of regret.

We worked together to shift that perspective, focusing on the idea that while thoughts and emotions come and go, they don’t have to drive our decisions. The real power lies in how we respond. Over time, this client began pausing to reflect on their reactions, creating space to choose actions that aligned with their values, not just their immediate emotional state. This shift empowered them to feel more in control of their life, more aligned in their decisions, and far more resilient in managing difficult situations.

As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?

I became a life and relationship coach because I’ve always been passionate about helping others navigate their emotional worlds. My journey started from my own experiences of hardship and healing, using the very tools I now teach to improve my life and relationships. Over time, I realized that the challenges I had faced—and overcome—were what connected me to my purpose: guiding others through their own personal growth and healing.

Through my coaching sessions, workshops, and retreats, I guide clients to set boundaries, heal past wounds, and reconnect with their authentic selves. I’ve developed a system called The Boundary Pyramid, which simplifies the concept of boundaries and empowers my clients to use them effectively in their relationships and lives. My approach stands apart because I integrate healing, emotional regulation, attachment styles, and self-trust. I focus not only on the intellectual understanding of these concepts but on embodiment—helping people live their truth.

What sets me apart is the deep empathy and understanding I bring, having personally navigated similar challenges. I don’t believe in cookie-cutter solutions; I meet my clients where they are, offering individualized support. I’m most proud when I see my clients break free from limiting patterns, form healthier relationships, and step into their full potential. For anyone looking to work with me, I want them to know that this is a safe, non-judgmental space to explore, heal, and grow.

The work I do is designed to help you reclaim your personal power, build healthier relationships, and live more authentically.

Have you ever had to pivot?

One story that stands out is when I left a coaching company I admired, believing it would be my path to making a significant impact. The CEO was someone I looked up to, and I genuinely believed we would change the world together. But over time, I realized the organization didn’t align with the values it preached—boundaries, ethical power, and relational dynamics. I witnessed manipulation and toxicity that contradicted everything I believed in.

Leaving that organization was incredibly challenging. I feared it would be my only opportunity to help people on a larger scale. But I knew I had to stay true to my values and principles. So, I took the leap of faith, started my own company, and began to build something aligned with my ethical beliefs.

It wasn’t easy—starting from scratch required tremendous effort and resilience. Yet, this decision led me to create an ethical and successful coaching practice, attracting aligned clients and opportunities. It was a profound lesson in staying true to oneself, even when it means taking a difficult and uncertain path.

Let’s talk about resilience next – do you have a story you can share with us?

At 22, I was stuck in an abusive situation, feeling lost and frustrated with myself. During a therapy session, my therapist told me, “You need to love yourself.” I immediately asked, “How do I do that? I’m willing to do anything.” Unfortunately, I didn’t get a clear answer, which left me determined to find the tools for self-love on my own.

I was desperate to escape the pain and “not enough” feeling that I was running from daily. I wanted to live authentically and break free from the patterns that made me unhappy. This journey led me to understand that self-love isn’t automatic—it’s a skill we can learn. It involves building self-trust, practicing self-compassion, setting boundaries, and recognizing and changing unhelpful patterns.

I developed a roadmap to self-love that helps guide people through these processes, and I’m committed to sharing it with as many people as I can. My journey from feeling lost to helping others find their way has been transformative, and I’m passionate about making these tools accessible to everyone who needs them.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.robinbreckenridge.com
• Instagram: @coachwithrobin
• Other: tiktok- @robinbreckenridge

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Cassie Tackett