We were lucky to catch up with Rebecca Cuje recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Rebecca, thanks for joining us today. We’d love to hear the backstory behind a risk you’ve taken – whether big or small, walk us through what it was like and how it ultimately turned out.

At 26, I seemingly had it all. Working a six-figure job in one of the most iconic buildings in the world—the Empire State Building—my life was a blend of success, security, and the fast-paced “work hard, play hard” culture that often defines corporate America. I ate out at trendy spots multiple times a week, attended exclusive events, and had a career that many dream of. But what no one saw was the growing discomfort inside me, a nagging feeling that there was something missing.

Over the years, I’d built a life that checked all the right boxes—a stable job, an impressive salary, a charming boyfriend, and an exciting social life. But along the way, it just started to feel like something was off. I couldn’t pinpoint what was wrong, but deep down, I knew there was something more out there for me. Yet, instead of facing that feeling, I did what I’d always done: I minimized it. I was an expert at suppressing emotions, so I threw myself into my work, climbed the corporate ladder, partied hard, and made sure to please everyone around me – convincing myself that this was the life I was supposed to live. But in quiet moments, when the distractions fell away, the same thought kept creeping back: “Is this all there is?”

Eventually, I couldn’t ignore the feeling any longer. One day, without a clear plan, I took a huge risk. I walked away from it all—the stability, the prestige, the paycheck—and I stepped into the unknown. Friends and colleagues questioned what I’d do next. And truthfully, I didn’t have much of an answer. All I knew was that I needed to find out what was on the other side of the discomfort I’d been avoiding for so long. It was terrifying, liberating, and ultimately, the best decision I could have made. I started listening to myself and my intuition more than I’d ever done in my life. I took time off, traveled to Europe and India, discovered new passions, created space for things that truly mattered to me, and started to build a life that was more aligned with my values.

What I’d come to learn is that leaving that six-figure job wasn’t about giving up success; it was about redefining it. Today, my life looks completely different, living a much slower, intentional lifestyle, on the other side of the country, doing things I only once dreamed of, and it’s far better than I ever imagined.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

For most of my life, tough and truthful conversations were often swept under the rug. Vulnerability—sharing your deepest feelings, raw emotions, and sensitivities—was seen as weakness, so I felt selfish or self-centered letting people know what was truly going on in my mind and heart. As a result, I became accustomed to avoiding uncomfortable emotions. I turned to food, partying, people-pleasing, and saying “yes” when I meant “no,” all in an effort to seek external validation instead of trusting my own inner voice.

The turning point came when I received Reiki for the first time. In that moment, I heard my intuition clearly for the first time in my life, and it told me something I wasn’t ready to face—that I needed to break up with my then-boyfriend. It took me another year and a half to act on that inner guidance, and by the time I did, I discovered he had been cheating on me with multiple women. That experience, painful as it was, sparked a transformation. It helped me realize the importance of trusting myself, using my voice, and living in alignment with my truth – even when it didn’t make sense to anyone else.

This journey of personal healing inspired my mission to help other women do the same. I now coach individuals using energy and somatic tools to reconnect them with their intuition, empowering them to express their truth and step into their fullest potential. My work creates safe spaces for people to release limiting beliefs, express their emotions, and grow into their highest selves.

What sets me apart is the blend of emotional support and action-oriented guidance I provide. My clients don’t just feel heard and held—they also feel motivated and empowered to make real, lasting changes. My approach is rooted in compassion, empathy, and a deep commitment to helping others transform.

I’ve guided hundreds of students through coaching containers, women’s circles, yoga classes, and curated retreats, and my goal is always to foster a community where everyone feels safe to express themselves and fully embody their potential. This is what I’m most proud of—the ripple effect of empowerment and healing that comes from helping others discover their inner strength.

If there’s one thing I want people to know about my work, it’s that it’s not just about healing; it’s about expansion—expanding into who you truly are, unapologetically, and finding joy in that process.

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

A lesson I had to unlearn was the belief that showing less emotion made me “cool” and that my sensitivities were weaknesses. For a long time, I thought if I fit in, behaved like others, and sought approval from the outside world—whether in relationships, friendships, or work—I would find acceptance and fulfillment. And on the surface, it worked. I had a successful career, a long-term relationship, and the outward signs of a happy life.

But inside, I felt disconnected and was still searching for something more. I came to realize that our external world mirrors our internal state. If I wanted true love, acceptance, and approval, I had to find it within myself first. This meant learning to embrace my emotions, valuing my inner voice, and understanding what I truly desired. Now, I believe that self-love, authenticity, and trusting our intuition are the real keys to fulfillment.

Any advice for growing your clientele? What’s been most effective for you?

The most effective way that I have found to grow my business and clientele has been through building authentic, meaningful connections with people.

Networking and events have been instrumental in creating these connections and expanding my reach. By actively participating in various communities and hosting events, I’m able to connect with people on a deeper level. Additionally, social media has been a creative outlet for me to consistently share valuable content, inspire others, and give people a sense of my approach before we work together. This combination of authentic connection and visibility has helped me attract clients who resonate with my approach and mission.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.rebeccacuje.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebecca.cuje/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.cuje/
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-cuje-40000740/
• Other: https://insighttimer.com/rebeccacuje

Image Credits

Jamuna Rosner (images 1-4) Bridget Farhat (images 5-8)