We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Ra’Nesha Taylor a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Ra’Nesha, appreciate you joining us today. Can you open up about a risk you’ve taken – what it was like taking that risk, why you took the risk and how it turned out?
One of the most significant risks I’ve taken in my life occurred a few years ago during a tumultuous period. I found myself in a job that was draining both my mental and physical health, despite it being initially temporary. As an Executive Assistant juggling multiple roles, I was stretched thin, giving all my energy to others and neglecting myself. Eventually, my body reached a breaking point, leading to a doctor-ordered medical leave. During this time of reflection, I realized I was deeply unsatisfied and unfulfilled, living a life that didn’t align with my true purpose. Past emotional traumas resurfaced, intensifying my inner turmoil.
When I was terminated from my job, it was a pivotal moment. I had to decide between perpetuating the cycle of misery or embarking on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Despite the uncertainty and sacrifices involved—such as financial security and career growth—I chose the latter. It was a daunting risk, but I refused to live with regret. Over the past few years, I’ve delved into every dimension of myself, healed from past traumas, and rediscovered my true essence. This journey has not only led me to become a Transformation & Spiritual Life Coach but has also empowered me to guide other women on their path to self-discovery and evolution.
Ra’Nesha, before we move on to more of these sorts of questions, can you take some time to bring our readers up to speed on you and what you do?
My journey into transformation and empowerment began amidst a backdrop of feeling unseen and unheard for much of my life. Battling feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness, I harbored dreams of greatness but lacked the confidence to pursue them fully. As a result, I found myself coasting through life, burdened by the weight of untapped potential just waiting to be unleashed.
However, everything changed with my spiritual awakening. In the midst of my darkest moments, I experienced a profound shift in consciousness that ignited a calling within me. It was a calling to break free from the shackles of self-doubt and societal expectations, to embrace my true essence, and to step boldly into my power.
This awakening wasn’t just a personal revelation; it was a transformational journey that lit a fire within me to guide other women along the path to liberation. I realized that my struggles, though painful, had equipped me with a unique empathy and insight that I could use to support others on their journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
Now, as a Transformation & Spiritual Life Coach, I am deeply passionate about helping women reclaim their power, rediscover their worth, and unleash their brilliance upon the world. It’s a journey that transcends individual growth—it’s a movement towards collective empowerment and liberation. And I am honored to walk alongside each woman who chooses to take that courageous leap of faith and bet on herself.
What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?
One of the most significant lessons I had to unlearn was equating loss with failure. Throughout my life, whenever faced with setbacks or disappointments, I would internalize them as personal shortcomings. For instance, in 2019, I experienced a major setback when the spa I worked at relocated, abruptly ending my career as an esthetician. Despite my dedication and efforts, I found myself without a job and my career aspirations were put on hold. This loss was compounded by subsequent challenges, including failed attempts at starting my own business and unexpected career shifts. Each setback left me feeling like a failure, questioning my abilities and choices.
However, through introspection and growth, I came to realize that every setback was a valuable lesson in disguise. Instead of viewing them as failures, I began to see them as opportunities for growth and resilience. Each experience, whether successful or not, equipped me with valuable skills and insights that ultimately propelled me forward on my journey. Now, I embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, understanding that every setback is a stepping stone toward greater success and fulfillment.
Are there any books, videos or other content that you feel have meaningfully impacted your thinking?
One of the most transformative resources that significantly impacted my entrepreneurial journey is Arlan Hamilton’s book, “Your First Million: Why You Don’t Have to Be Born into a Legacy of Wealth to Leave One Behind” Arlan’s remarkable story, chronicled in her book, mirrors my journey of overcoming adversity and defying the odds. As a Black, gay woman from the South, Arlan faced numerous obstacles in the predominantly white, male-dominated world of venture capital. Her journey from homelessness to becoming a trailblazer in the venture capital landscape is a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and radical self-belief.
In “Your First Million,” Arlan shares invaluable insights and strategies for underestimated founders, empowering them to navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship and wealth creation. I had the privilege of being part of Arlan’s private book club and getting an early release of the book, where I found myself deeply inspired by her candid wisdom and unwavering commitment to fostering inclusive entrepreneurship.
Arlan’s narrative not only resonated with my own experiences but also provided practical guidance for overcoming obstacles and realizing one’s entrepreneurial aspirations. Through her words, I learned to view setbacks as opportunities for growth and to cultivate radical self-belief in pursuing my goals.
Furthermore, Arlan’s vision of creating 1,000 more millionaires in the next decade resonated deeply with me. Her belief in the transformative power of entrepreneurship as a path to generational wealth aligns with my mission of empowering others to unlock their full potential and thrive. By sharing her journey and insights in “Your First Million,” Arlan has not only inspired me but also equipped me with the tools and mindset to pursue my entrepreneurial endeavors with confidence and conviction.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://helloranesha.life/
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- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/helloranesha/
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