We recently connected with Nakiea Alexander and have shared our conversation below.
Alright, Nakiea thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. Let’s kick things off with a hypothetical question – if it were up to you, what would you change about the school or education system to better prepare students for a more fulfilling life and career?
I volunteer in the state of NJ for the detention center for underage youth. If I could change the education system, I would start putting an emphasis on mindset & trauma at a VERY early age. We are programmed from ages 0-8 and if anything happened traumatically in our lives that we did not heal from, we will be experiencing life according to that particular program. Children are not taught the power of their thoughts and how they actually create your reality. I would emphasize the importance of what I like to call, your “creative tools”-which are your thinking, speaking, actions and emotions. If children could learn how to implement these tolls intentionally and properly, their world would be quite magnificent and they will feel much more empowered!
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
I struggled with heavy anxiety as a young adult and was provided a medication instead of a resolution by a psychiatrist at age 19. I went on to discover how to master my own mind, instead of allowing the thoughts to master me (anxiety). It took about 6 years to get them under control and then I discovered manifestation. I became consumed with it-as it was during a time when the book and movie “The Secret” was just starting to get really popular. I became consumed with mindset and manifestation and I have been ever since. Now I dissect peoples lives mentally when I meet them without even trying-it’s like my mind must trace back to the root of their issue/tribulation. I’ve always needed someone to show me “step-by-step” exactly how to manifest and I never had that in all of my studies, so I decided to provide that resolution to people. People think manifestation is some magical weird stuff, but you actually do it all day everyday. The reason why I teach mindset FIRST is bc you need to know what could be getting in the way of your success-overthinking, depression, anxiety, etc. If your mind is stuck on the past, you will continue to manifest this into your current reality, since of course, two of your creative tools is your “thinking” and your “emotions” (which is in alignment with depression). I have began consulting and mentoring people of all ages (my youngest client has been 15, oldest, 80) and I have SO many people through social media start to CHANGE THEIR LIVES simply by being able to simplify manifestation. I have written ebooks, workshops, taught hundreds of people in masterclasses, consulted people in the public eye, created audio courses, and currently the founder of two thriving communities-WOMANFEST, a sacred space for women committed to healing and growing mentally, and Dreams-N-Action Mastermind for Entrepreneurs. I have grown my following to over 45k in just 1.5 years on tiktok and am continuously striving to grow. I’ve enhanced my own life and transformed my own struggles with the same teachings that I pass along to others. I’ve worked on my mindset, my self-worth and self-love and healed my fears around love, to now being in a happy, healthy marriage. I’ve been able to leave the corporate world in jobs that were not fulfilling and been able to a manifest being a full time entrepreneur since 2019. I now make money from home, in my robe and I have the flexibility to be home for my children and family. My lifestyle has improved-living situation, healthier friendships, healthier boundaries and I even teach my children this stuff. At the age of 7, my son wanted to manifest getting out of school early, so I helped him. He is now 15, has already finished two college courses and is now completely done with high school classes. He will graduate in two years with his high school diploma and associates college degree. My website is www.weareallwinning.com bc I GENUINELY have the deisre for EVERYONE to win, which is why i spend HOURS on tiktok daily pouring into people so they can get that life is honestly like a game. Everyone doesn’t know the rules, and that’s why I’m here. :)
Any insights you can share with us about how you built up your social media presence?
I actually did NOT want to get onto social media bc I am a very private person. I do understand the power of social media which is why I started looking into TIktok. Nov of 2022, I decided to join bc I was hearing of people making money on there, but just wasn’t sure how. I started doing my research and set a goal to post until I reached enough followers to go live. I knew I wanted to talk about manifestation, so I went to “tiktok school.” I just researched a lot of the trends, hashtags, competitors, etc and posted approx 2-3x a day until I reached my goal in Jan of 2023. At the same time, I was working on and idea of an ebook/workshop to have available to offer. I ended up going live at the end of Jan, and made my first sale on my digital product at the beginning of Feb. So here’s what I did and these would also be MY tips if you were just starting out in social media. 1. So I do what you call organic marketing on tiktok. I organically attract people that would like my resources, by simply bringing value to them through my videos and teachings via live. 2. The only way to successfully do this, is to DECIDE that you ARE IN FACT a social media content creator and then be consistent. I think it’s so important that people understand that you actually have to see yourself living this lifestyle. I was SO private at first, but the more I get to know my followers every single day, the more they become a part of my life and the more they want to know as well. I had to become ok with this. If not, being consistent and showing up every single day would not be possible. You would CONSTANTLY be giving up, starting again, etc. 3.research competitors-what can you do better, etc 4. I lead them to my website and collect their email with my free lead magnet. 5.Then I have resources available at all price ranges. That is super important for me-to have things that are accessible to everyone, but also have those 6. high ticket items that makes being an entrepreneur’s life that much easier bc you simply have to sell less of them. 7. build a community-give them a community name, remember their names and engage with them etc.
These are all tips for someone who wants to know how to build your audience and who want to make a business out of it. :)
Let’s talk about resilience next – do you have a story you can share with us?
I think my current story is showing my resilience because I am actually manifesting being one of the most influential speakers of this time. Right now, I am on my journey to this and it is taking me being patient-trusting in the Divine, diligence from me, lots of tears, lots of repetition, lots of sacrifice, etc and then some. I have hundreds and hundreds of screenshots of people telling me how much I’ve helped them and my goal is to help millions…. “We Are ALL Winning”
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.weareallwinning.com
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_oCAZysdzYm7gzX1a94XgA
- Other: [email protected]
