We recently connected with Myesha Chaney and have shared our conversation below.

Myesha , thanks for joining us, excited to have you contributing your stories and insights. We’d love to hear about the things you feel your parents did right and how those things have impacted your career and life.

My parents instilled in me the values of hard work, discipline, and an unwavering commitment to excellence. In our household, there was no such thing as failure—only opportunities to push harder, improve, and get the job done right. Punctuality, responsibility, and delivering beyond expectations weren’t just encouraged; they were required.

One lesson that has stuck with me over the years comes from my dad’s approach to accountability. When I was about twelve, I had a nightly chore of cleaning the kitchen. To me, that meant wiping down the counters, sweeping the floor, and making sure everything looked presentable. But to my dad, “clean” meant spotless—down to the smallest details, like polishing the sink faucet with Windex. One night, I went to bed thinking I had completed my chores, only to be woken up in the middle of the night because I had forgotten that one detail. Half-asleep and groggy, I stumbled into the kitchen and did what I had missed. At the time, it felt a bit harsh, but looking back, I realized the lesson he was teaching me: excellence is in the details, and doing something halfway is the same as not doing it at all.

That mindset has had a profound impact on my life and career. Whether it’s meeting deadlines, delivering high-quality work, or going the extra mile in any task, I’ve learned to push myself beyond the bare minimum. I don’t cut corners, and I take pride in the work I produce. More importantly, I’ve developed the resilience to keep going even when things get tough, knowing that the effort I put in now will pay off in the long run.

My parents’ emphasis on hard work and accountability shaped me into someone who doesn’t just finish the job—I finish it well. That drive has been one of my greatest assets in both my personal and professional journey.

As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?

I’m Myesha Chaney—a multifaceted thought leader, speaker, author, life coach, and worship artist dedicated to helping individuals lead happier, healthier, and more purpose-driven lives. My passion is empowering people to embrace transformation, overcome challenges, and step into the best version of themselves. My approach is bold, authentic, and deeply personal, driven by one simple yet powerful question: “How can I help?”

My Journey & What Sets Me Apart
From an early age, I knew I was called to inspire and uplift others. My path has taken me through ministry, coaching, writing, music, and entrepreneurship—all of which have allowed me to touch lives in meaningful ways. Whether through my books, coaching programs, or fast-growing YouTube channel, I create spaces where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to take charge of their growth and healing.

What sets me apart is my willingness to ask hard questions and guide people through self-discovery with both compassion and truth. My journey has been shaped by my own struggles and triumphs, and I openly share those experiences to help others find peace, strength, and joy. I believe that resilience is built through life’s challenges, and my mantra—**”We are stronger than we think”**—reminds us all of the incredible potential within us.

My Work & Impact

I provide transformational tools through multiple avenues:
Author & Speaker: My book, Hiding Behind the Lipstick: Discovering the Beauty of Your True Self, combines powerful storytelling with practical strategies to help readers break through fear, embrace change, and live authentically. I also speak at conferences, workshops, and events, covering topics like personal growth, faith, leadership, and relationships.
Life Coach & Mentor: I work with individuals navigating major life transitions, offering guidance on self-discovery, resilience, and personal empowerment. My coaching programs provide the support and clarity needed to create lasting change.
YouTube & Digital Content: My rapidly growing YouTube channel blends inspiration, motivation, and candid conversations, offering a fresh perspective on life’s highs and lows. Through engaging videos, I connect with my audience in a real and relatable way.
Worship Artist: Music is another way I reach people. My debut album, *Take Him to the World* (2011), reflects my passion for worship and my deep-rooted faith. My music serves as a source of encouragement and spiritual connection.
Philanthropy & Leadership: Beyond my personal brand, I have raised substantial funds for various causes, worked as a Licensed RN, excelled in real estate, and served as an executive pastor. My diverse experiences give me a unique perspective on leadership and service.

Looking Ahead
The future is filled with exciting projects, including:
– Podcast Launch of the Myesha Podcast (January 2025): A new platform for deep, transformative conversations.
– New Book Release (2025): Expanding on themes of healing, purpose, and personal growth.
– International Wellness Retreats (June 2025): Creating spaces for renewal, self-discovery, and empowerment.

What I Want You to Know
At the core of everything I do is a deep belief in the power of transformation. Life’s hardships don’t define us—they refine us. My mission is to help others navigate those defining moments with hope, courage, and resilience. No matter where you are in your journey, there is peace on the other side of life’s heartbreaking moments.

If you’re looking for guidance, inspiration, or simply a space where you can grow and heal, I invite you to connect with me—through my books, coaching, YouTube videos, events, or upcoming podcasts. Let’s do the work together because your best life is waiting for you.

Have you ever had to pivot?

Life often presents us with defining moments—times when we must choose between staying stuck in pain or stepping forward into something new. One of the most significant pivots in my life came after my divorce. For years, I had built not just a marriage but a shared vision, a business, and a life intertwined with my partner. When the marriage ended, it felt as if everything I had invested in—my dreams, my hopes, my contributions—was suddenly stripped away.

At that moment, I had a choice. I could allow the loss to consume me, sinking into grief and uncertainty, or I could rise, redefine my path, and create something even more meaningful. I chose the latter.

Rebuilding wasn’t easy. I had to rediscover my identity outside of what I had built with someone else. I had to do the inner work—confronting my fears, healing from the pain, and reclaiming my confidence. I leaned into my faith, my passion for helping others, and my belief that there is always purpose on the other side of pain.

That season of transition became the foundation for a new chapter in my life. I poured myself into writing, speaking, and coaching, using my experiences to empower others facing their own crossroads. I expanded my voice through my YouTube channel, started developing new projects, and embraced opportunities that aligned with my true purpose.

Looking back, I realize that the pivot wasn’t just about rebuilding my career or business—it was about reinventing myself. I discovered that we are far stronger than we think and that even after loss, we can create something even more beautiful than before.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: your greatest challenges can become your greatest transformation. When life forces you to pivot, don’t be afraid to step forward—you just might be walking into something extraordinary.

Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?

One of the most important lessons I had to unlearn was prioritizing everyone else’s needs above my own.

For much of my life, I found deep purpose in serving others—whether it was my family, my community, or the people I worked with. I wore my ability to show up for others as a badge of honor, believing that selflessness was the ultimate virtue. I poured my energy into making sure everyone around me was okay, often at the expense of my well-being. I thought I was doing the right thing. After all, isn’t love about sacrifice?

But over time, I started to feel the weight of it all. I was exhausted, emotionally depleted, and losing touch with my desires, dreams, and even my identity. I realized that while giving to others is beautiful, it becomes unhealthy when it leaves you empty. I had to confront the hard truth: I was so focused on showing up for everyone else that I wasn’t showing up for myself.

The turning point came during a season of transition in my life, where I was forced to rebuild from the ground up. It became clear that if I wanted to create a fulfilling, joyful life, I had to start prioritizing myself—not in a selfish way, but in a way that honored my own needs, boundaries, and purpose. I had to learn that my well-being mattered just as much as anyone else’s.

Now, I embrace balance. I still serve, love, and give, but I do it from a place of fullness rather than depletion. I’ve learned that taking care of myself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Because when I am whole, I can show up for others in a way that is even more powerful and sustainable.

To anyone struggling with this, know that prioritizing yourself doesn’t mean neglecting others. It means ensuring that you are thriving, so that everything you give comes from a place of abundance, not exhaustion.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://xomyesha.com
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• Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/myeshachaney.com
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