Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Myer Krah. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Alright, Myer thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. So, let’s start with trends – what are some of the largest or more impactful trends you are seeing in the industry?
One of the biggest trends I’m seeing in the fatherhood advocacy space is the growing emphasis on mental health and emotional intelligence among fathers. Traditionally, discussions around fatherhood have centered on providing and protecting, but there’s a noticeable shift towards encouraging dads to also nurture, express emotions, and seek help when needed.
To illustrate this, I’ll share a story from my podcast, where I interviewed a father who initially struggled with the emotional aspects of parenting. He was raised to believe that fathers should be stoic and strong, never showing vulnerability. But as his son grew older, he realized that his emotional distance was creating a gap in their relationship. His son wasn’t opening up to him, and he didn’t know how to break through the wall they had unintentionally built.
After hearing about a local fatherhood group focused on mental health, he decided to attend one of their meetings. There, he met other dads who shared similar struggles and began to learn about the importance of emotional intelligence. He started implementing what he learned at home, like actively listening to his son and sharing his own feelings more openly. The change was gradual, but over time, he noticed a significant improvement in their relationship. His son became more communicative, and they developed a bond that went beyond the traditional father-son dynamic.
This trend of prioritizing mental health in fatherhood is incredibly positive, as it creates opportunities for fathers to connect more deeply with their children and break down harmful stereotypes. However, it also comes with challenges. Many fathers still face societal pressure to conform to outdated norms, and there can be a lack of accessible resources tailored to fathers’ unique needs.
The opportunity here lies in expanding the conversation and resources available to fathers, particularly through platforms like podcasts, social media, and community groups. By sharing stories like the one I just mentioned, we can continue to push this trend forward, helping more fathers embrace a more holistic approach to parenting.
The concern, though, is ensuring that this trend reaches fathers from all walks of life. It’s essential that we don’t just preach to the choir but also find ways to engage those who may be resistant or unaware of the importance of emotional intelligence in fatherhood. This is where advocacy and outreach become critical, making sure that every father has the tools and support needed to be the best parent they can be.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
My brand is more than just a social media profile or podcast; it’s a movement that embodies the emerging trend of emotionally intelligent fatherhood. I’m creating a ripple effect, helping fathers everywhere to embrace this new paradigm and, in turn, leave a lasting impact on their families and communities.
What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?
Absolutely, Here 4 The Dads is truly about creating a movement. When I first started this journey, I knew I wanted to do more than just share content; I wanted to foster a community where fathers could feel seen, heard, and supported. The idea behind @here4thedads is to challenge the traditional, often outdated, notions of fatherhood and replace them with a more holistic and emotionally intelligent approach.
This movement is about recognizing that being a great dad isn’t just about providing for your family or being a disciplinarian—it’s about being present, empathetic, and engaged. It’s about fathers understanding that their emotional well-being is just as important as their physical or financial contributions to the family. When dads take care of their mental and emotional health, it has a profound impact on their children, partners, and the broader community.
One powerful example that comes to mind is a father who reached out to me after following for a few months. He shared how he had always struggled with expressing his emotions, feeling that it wasn’t his role as a father to show vulnerability. But after seeing posts and hearing podcast episodes that encouraged dads to embrace their emotions and connect more deeply with their kids, he started to change his approach.
He told me about a specific moment where he sat down with his teenage daughter and, for the first time, had an open conversation about how he was feeling and asked her about her feelings too. That simple act of vulnerability opened the door to a new level of connection in their relationship. She started coming to him with her problems more often, and they began to build a trust that hadn’t been there before.
This is the ripple effect I’m talking about. When fathers like him begin to embrace this new paradigm of emotionally intelligent fatherhood, it not only transforms their relationship with their children but also sets a powerful example for other dads. It challenges the stereotype that fathers have to be stoic and unfeeling and instead shows that true strength comes from being emotionally present and engaged.
The impact of this movement extends beyond individual families. As more fathers adopt this mindset, we’re seeing a shift in how communities view and support fatherhood. Schools, workplaces, and social institutions are beginning to recognize the importance of supporting fathers in their roles, which, in turn, benefits everyone—especially the next generation.
Any stories or insights that might help us understand how you’ve built such a strong reputation?
What helped me build my reputation in the fatherhood advocacy space is authenticity and a deep commitment to serving fathers. I’ve always been open about my own journey, sharing real experiences that resonate with other dads. Consistency in providing valuable, relatable content has also been key—I’m dedicated to offering insights and practical advice that fathers can apply in their daily lives.
Additionally, I’ve focused on building a genuine community through my social media where fathers can connect, share, and support one another. Collaborations with like-minded advocates have expanded my reach and credibility, and I continuously listen to my audience, adapting to their needs to ensure that this organization remains a trusted resource for fathers seeking to lead with love and intention.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: @here4thedads
- Youtube: https://youtube.com/@here4thedadspodcast?si=NP_PhpjA5hm89ad0
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