Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Monica Cox. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Alright, Monica thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. Can you recount a time when the advice you provided to a client was really spot on? (Please note this response is for education/entertainment purposes only and shouldn’t be construed as advice for the reader)
The best advice I give every sign one of my clients is to follow their intuition. While I pride myself on providing each client with the specific guidance and support they deserve, the truth is that they already have the answers inside of them, only if they take enough time to slow down and tap into their “gut feelings.” When my clients tap into what they are genuinely feeling [following their intuition] about some of the big decisions they need to make along their journey, they can release the external factors that are holding them in fear mood. Doing this will support them in making more heart-aligned decisions, which can be better for their mental, emotional & physical health in the long run.
I’ve had a client cancel her IVF round right in the middle of it all, even though they had already made substantial travel and financial commitments. Even though she wanted me to tell her what to do, she needed to make this decision for herself. During our time together, we talked about the different aspects you need to follow your intuition & when the time came, she was able to make the right decision for her. I was so proud and honestly shocked. Even when you know your intuition is telling you things aren’t right, it’s hard to walk away from big situations like that! She walked away from that experience with a newfound self-confidence she didn’t even know she was looking for.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
Monica Cox is a top Holistic Functional Fertility Coach and Infertility Warrior. Using the combination of her qualifications as a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner & Psych-K Facilitator, she supports women in finding the root cause of their fertility issues to become the conscious mama they were born to be! She dealt with years of unexplained infertility, failed IVF’s & survived several miscarriages before becoming an IVF mom & getting pregnant naturally, even though the doctors said there was nothing she could do to improve her situation. Author of the best-selling journal “Boost Your Embryos” and host of the highly popular podcast Finding Fertility, Monica is dedicated to inspiring women to look beyond their diagnosis and take control of their health. Her signature online program, The Fertility Formula & personal Fertility Focused Coaching, has helped 100’s of women increase their chances of creating the family of their dreams.
Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?
My entrepreneurial journey has almost been a mirror of my fertility journey. I spent too much time thinking I had to do it alone, that I was broken or that I wasn’t worthy enough to have what I wanted. On top of working on a lot of subconscious beliefs [that I didn’t even know I had], I took the two main lessons I learnt during the eight years it took me to create the family of my dreams and have applied them to my Business:
1. There’s never failure, only an opportunity to find the right way for you.
2. Patience. Rome wasn’t built in a day.
From the outside looking in, I have failed more times than society allows for. I’m not an overnight self-success story, and going viral [which I have been a few times] did not bring me millions. I don’t measure my success by $10,000 months. This journey [like my fertility journey] is now about so much more. I feel in alignment with what I’m doing. I’m learning, I’m growing, I’m creating, I’m paying the bills and I’m making big changes where change is needed most. I hope you feel the same in your business.
Have any books or other resources had a big impact on you?
If you really want to transform your business, it starts within side you. Digging into unknown subconscious beliefs, past traumas and getting out of your own head is a must to allow creativity to unfold. Stealing Fire by Steven Kotler & Jamie Wheal, The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Biology of Belief by Bruce H Lipton PhD & How We Change by Ross Ellenhorn are among my top book recommendations. The top two modalities I like to use to move through subconscious beliefs & past traumas are Emotional Freedom Tapping and Psych-k.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.findingfertility.co
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/findingfertility/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FindingFertility
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monica-cox-64ba0993/
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCARY6ftLoWk5-N9FHVYtzHw
- Other: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@findingfertility