We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Milon V Parker a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Milon, thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today What sort of legacy are you hoping to build. What do you think people will say about you after you are gone, what do you hope to be remembered for?

I hope my legacy will show the world that it’s okay to be exactly who you are, even if you’re different or don’t fit into society’s expectations. I want to challenge what people traditionally do and prove that being gay or different doesn’t stop you from motivating and inspiring others to chase their dreams. Through my movies, I’m telling the authentic stories of what the LGBTQ+ community goes through, giving a voice to those often misunderstood or overlooked. I want to help people who don’t understand us realize that we’re human, too, and that our worth isn’t defined by our sexual orientation. Just because someone doesn’t approve of who we love doesn’t mean we’re bad people. My hope is that people will learn to love and value their loved ones more than just focusing on what they do or who they love. We all mean so much more than that, and turning your back on someone because they’re different not only causes unnecessary hurt but also closes the door to understanding, growth, and deeper love. Instead of creating distance, we should embrace each other’s differences and strengthen the bonds that truly matter.

Milon, love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?

I’ve been a filmmaker since 2011, wearing many hats as a writer, producer, director, and actress.

My journey started in 2009, when I acted in the play *Bois Don’t Cry* by Laurinda D. Brown, and shortly after, my first movie role in 2011, *My Mama Said Yo Mama’s a Dyke* by Coquie Hughes.

What really sets me apart is my dedication to involving the LGBTQ+ community in my work, showcasing our real life experiences in ways that are raw and authentic.

But it hasn’t been easy. I’ve faced a lot of challenges, particularly dealing with men in the industry who don’t respect me the way they would a male counterpart. Sometimes, it feels like they try to take advantage of me, underestimating my strength and resilience.

Despite that, I’m proud of the unwavering loyalty from my fans. Some have been with me since my modeling days in 2005, and they’ve stayed loyal throughout my career, especially with *The Lies We Tell but The Secrets We Keep* series. Knowing that over 35 of my fans have tattooed the MVP logo or the title of my movies on their skin is a testament to the impact my work has had.

What I want people to understand is that this journey isn’t as easy as I may make it seem. Every film I create comes with its own set of challenges, and there are moments when it feels overwhelmingly discouraging. But I have this inner strength that keeps pushing me forward, even when it’s really tough and I feel like giving up. That strong will has been my driving force, keeping me going when all I want to stop at times.

What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?

One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn in this industry is that not everyone will take my projects as seriously as I do.

Early on, I had to deal with unprofessional cast and crew members showing up late or under the influence, and it put me in tough situations. We were often running out of time or losing access to locations, and I had no choice but to keep pushing forward and shoot the movie, even when it felt chaotic.

But it didn’t stop there. I’ve also had to deal with people who would prioritize other clients over my work, even though they’d already been paid for the job. They’d string me along, pushing my deadlines further until I finally had to speak up. By then, I was forced to hire others to come in and fix or finish what they had started.

The experience taught me to be more assertive and to set clearer boundaries and expectations from the beginning. It wasn’t easy, but it showed me that my work deserves the same respect and professionalism that I bring to the table. Now, I surround myself with people who understand the value of my time, energy, and passion for my projects.

What do you think helped you build your reputation within your market?

What helped me build my reputation within my market is staying authentic, especially when it comes to storytelling for the LGBTQ+ community. I make it a priority to represent real life experiences in my films, giving a voice to stories that aren’t often told. On top of that, I’ve always been open and connected with my fans on social media. By sharing behind-the-scenes moments, posting pictures, and showing videos of my life on set, I’ve allowed them to be part of my journey. That connection has helped me create a loyal fanbase that appreciates both my work and my authenticity.

Contact Info:

• Website: https;//MilonVparker.com
• Instagram: @AmilonVparkerFilm
• Facebook: Milon V. Parker
• Linkedin: Milon V. Parker
• Twitter: MVP PRODUCTIONS
• Youtube: @MilonVparker1

Image Credits

Milon V. Parker
Chan C. Smith