We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Melissa Fisher a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Melissa , thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today Let’s kick things off with your mission – what is it and what’s the story behind why it’s your mission?
At SHE, we focus on empowering individuals to heal through spiritual connection, self-discovery, and practical tools that inspire transformation. Our offerings include tiered packages, personalized healing sessions, and intuitive services like dream interpretation and subconscious healing. Each is designed to meet people where they are on their path, whether they’re exploring spirituality for the first time or diving deeper into their self-mastery.
One of my favorite aspects of this work is creating a safe and supportive space where people can uncover their own inner wisdom. Healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about rediscovering the wholeness that’s always been within you. Whether it’s through guided rituals, reflective journaling, or one-on-one sessions, everything we do is rooted in helping others align with their truth.
Advice for Starting Out
Start Small and Be Gentle with Yourself
Healing can feel overwhelming at first. There’s no rush to dive into everything all at once. Begin with one practice that feels approachable—a simple meditation, journaling, or even just taking a moment to breathe deeply each day. The most important thing is to show up for yourself, even in small ways.
Trust the Process
Healing isn’t linear, and it’s okay to have moments of doubt, frustration, or even resistance. Trust that every step, no matter how small, is moving you closer to where you’re meant to be. Allow yourself to feel everything without judgment.
Find Your Community
Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Whether it’s a spiritual group, a trusted mentor, or a close friend, having a sense of community makes all the difference. At SHE, we offer access to a supportive network of like-minded souls who understand and celebrate your growth.
Listen to Your Intuition
Your inner voice is your greatest guide. Pay attention to what feels aligned and authentic for you. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to healing. Follow what resonates, and don’t be afraid to explore new tools and practices.
Celebrate Every Step Forward
Healing is hard work, and it’s important to acknowledge your progress. Celebrate the small wins, like choosing to prioritize yourself or breaking free from an old pattern. These moments are powerful and deserve recognition.
Starting your healing journey is one of the most courageous things you can do. My hope is that through SHE, you’ll find inspiration, guidance, and a reminder that you’re never alone. You have everything you need within you—it’s just a matter of uncovering it. And remember, healing isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress, grace, and starting again every day.
You’ve got this.
The road to creating SHE: Start Healing Everyday has been anything but smooth. Looking back, I see a journey filled with challenges, growth, and profound lessons that shaped both me and the mission of SHE.
One of the biggest hurdles was facing my own limiting beliefs. Before I could guide others, I had to confront the fears and doubts that held me back—fear of judgment, fear of failure, and even fear of my own potential. This meant doing the inner work first, which wasn’t easy. Healing from unprocessed trauma, navigating major life changes like divorce, and learning to trust my clairvoyant gifts were all deeply personal challenges I had to overcome.
Another challenge was balancing my roles as a mother and entrepreneur. Building a mission-driven company while raising two amazing kids has been rewarding but also demanding. It taught me the importance of setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and asking for support when I need it.
Launching a spiritually-focused business also came with unique challenges. Not everyone understands or values the kind of work we do, and early on, I had moments of doubt about whether the world was ready for SHE’s message. It required resilience and unwavering faith in the purpose behind this mission.
Financially, there were obstacles too. Transitioning from dreaming about SHE to building it meant learning how to manage resources, take strategic risks, and believe in the abundance that comes from aligning with your purpose.
Despite all this, I wouldn’t trade the road I’ve walked for anything. The struggles made me stronger, and they gave me the empathy and perspective I bring to my work today. They taught me that healing isn’t just for the easy days—it’s for the moments when you feel like giving up.
What kept me going was the unwavering belief that this work is needed. Every challenge I faced became a stepping stone, a lesson I could pass on to others. Now, when I guide clients through their healing journeys, I’m not just speaking from theory—I’m speaking from experience.
The road has been bumpy, but every twist and turn has brought me closer to my purpose. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that the most rewarding paths are often the hardest to walk.
Melissa , love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?
My name is Mel, and I’m the founder of SHE: Start Healing Everyday, a transformative platform designed to guide individuals on their spiritual journeys and empower them to heal from within. My work is deeply personal, born out of my own experiences with unhealed trauma, self-discovery, and spiritual growth.
How I Got Started
My spiritual awakening began when I was just 9 years old. I had a premonition dream that opened the door to a lifelong exploration of intuition, healing, and inner transformation. Over the years, I turned to various spiritual tools and practices to heal and break free from old wounds, creating a life that felt authentic and aligned with my soul’s purpose. These experiences inspired me to create SHE as a way to share the same tools and guidance that helped me transform my life.
What SHE Offers
SHE provides a variety of services and products designed to support healing, spiritual awakening, and self-mastery. My offerings include:
Tiered Membership Packages:
From weekly affirmations to immersive healing plans, each tier offers a unique journey of growth.
VIP members even gain access to 1-on-1 sessions, customized toolkits, and priority invitations to live events.
A-La-Carte Soul Services:
Dream Interpretation Sessions: Uncover the spiritual messages in your dreams.
Private Healing & Mastery Sessions: Tailored sessions that combine intuitive readings and subconscious healing techniques.
Special Events:
Full Moon and New Moon rituals delivered through transformative Zoom sessions that combine reflection, journaling, and spiritual exercises.
Problems I Solve
I help my clients reconnect with their inner light and break free from patterns of pain, stagnation, and limiting beliefs. Whether you’re seeking clarity, healing, or guidance, my services empower you to take charge of your spiritual journey and embrace your highest potential.
What Sets SHE Apart
SHE is not just a business—it’s a reflection of my own transformative journey. What sets me apart is the deeply personal nature of my work. Every offering is rooted in methods and practices that I’ve personally used to overcome adversity and transform my life. I’ve walked the path my clients are on, and I know the power of blending compassion, intuition, and practical tools to create lasting change.
Another aspect that sets SHE apart is my ability to bring intuitive insights into sessions. I’ve often felt like the West Coast version of Theresa Caputo, combining spiritual gifts with a down-to-earth approach that resonates with those I work with.
What I’m Most Proud Of
I’m incredibly proud of the community I’ve built through SHE. Watching clients step into their power, heal past wounds, and create lives they’re excited about fills me with immense gratitude. I’m also proud of taking a leap to start SHE and sharing my gifts openly, despite the fear of letting others down.
What I Want You to Know
SHE: Start Healing Everyday is more than a service—it’s an invitation to explore your inner world and discover the limitless possibilities that await when you align with your authentic self. Whether you’re just beginning your spiritual journey or seeking deeper mastery, SHE offers the tools, insights, and support to help you thrive.
To my followers, clients, and future collaborators: thank you for trusting me to be part of your journey. Healing begins with one step, and I’m here to walk that path with you every day.
Let’s start healing together.
Let’s talk about resilience next – do you have a story you can share with us?
Music has been a lifeline for me since I was three years old, dancing in a ballet studio. Even then, I felt a deep connection to melodies and lyrics—they were more than just sounds; they were emotions, stories, and safe spaces. As I grew, music remained my sanctuary, helping me process life’s joys and struggles. It’s been my constant companion, a place where I could land when the world felt overwhelming.
One of the most pivotal moments in my journey came when I was faced with the terrifying decision to leave my marriage of 16 years. The idea of walking away from a life I had built was daunting, especially with children to consider and the unknown stretching before me. I felt paralyzed by fear and uncertainty, questioning whether I could truly navigate this next chapter on my own.
Then one day, as I was listening to my favorite band, a single lyric pierced through the chaos in my mind:
“Use your own light when you need a guide.”
It was as if those words were written just for me. They reminded me of something I had forgotten—that the answers I was seeking were already within me. I didn’t need external validation or permission to take control of my life. I just needed to trust myself, to reconnect with the inner light that had always been there, waiting to guide me.
That lyric became my mantra, empowering me to take the leap and leave a situation that no longer served my growth or happiness. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary. And it was through that decision that I discovered the depth of my resilience. I found strength I didn’t know I had, and I began to rebuild my life in a way that aligned with my true self.
Music didn’t just support me during that time—it saved me. It reminded me to go within, to listen to my intuition, and to trust the light that’s always been there, even in my darkest moments. That experience is a big part of why I founded SHE: Start Healing Everyday. I want others to know that they, too, have a light within them—a light they can trust, even when life feels uncertain.
To this day, that lyric reminds me to stay connected to myself. It’s a simple yet profound truth: our own light is our greatest guide. I hope my story inspires others to tune into their inner wisdom and find their safe spaces, whether it’s through music, movement, or the quiet moments within.
Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?
A Lesson I Had to Unlearn: Letting Go of Fear as a Survival Tool
One of the most profound lessons I’ve had to unlearn is the belief that living in fear keeps me safe. This lesson was rooted in a childhood experience that shaped my entire perspective on life and safety.
When I was nine years old, I had a premonition dream so vivid it felt like a warning. A year later, that dream came to fruition in a way that left me deeply shaken. The events that unfolded were traumatic, and as a child, I internalized the belief that being hyper-vigilant and always prepared for the worst was the only way to protect myself. This belief stayed with me for years, shaping how I approached life, relationships, and even my spirituality.
Through adulthood, I carried this fear like armor, believing it was keeping me safe. But the truth was, it was holding me back—keeping me in survival mode rather than allowing me to thrive. It wasn’t until I began deep meditation and connected with my inner child and higher self that I started to understand the toll this belief was taking on me.
In meditation, I would revisit that nine-year-old version of myself—the little girl who was scared and felt powerless. Through these moments of connection, I learned to hold her with compassion and remind her that while the fear she felt was valid, it didn’t have to define her future. My higher self began to show me a different perspective: that preparation doesn’t have to come from fear but from empowerment.
Unlearning this belief meant rewriting my narrative. I realized that I couldn’t change the past, but I could take control of how I responded to its impact. Instead of living in fear of what might happen, I started living in a way that allowed me to prepare from a place of love and strength. This shift was transformative—it freed me to embrace life fully without the weight of constant anxiety.
This lesson has become a cornerstone of my work with SHE: Start Healing Everyday. I now guide others through similar journeys, helping them identify and unlearn the limiting beliefs they’ve carried and step into a space of empowerment. My own healing process taught me that fear may knock on the door, but it doesn’t have to take up residence in our lives.
By reconnecting with my inner child and higher self, I learned that true protection comes not from living in fear but from trusting in my ability to navigate life with resilience, grace, and faith. And that’s the gift I now share with others through SHE—because unlearning fear has not only changed my life but also allowed me to help others change theirs.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.starthealingeveryday.com
- Instagram: @starthealingeveryday
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/starthealingeveryday/
- Other: SHE: Start Healing Everyday Podcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/4KE5KTljc9RANJpM5Ddou0?si=7307fcdbbc984f84
Image Credits
Ashleigh Carpenter