We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Madeline Charles. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Madeline below.
Madeline, appreciate you joining us today. Is there a heartwarming story from your career that you look back on?
As a woman’s love coach, there are breakthrough moments and big milestones along the path to partnership, that my clients experience every day. From finding the courage to open their hearts again, to applying new dating skills, and doing things that stretch their comfort zone in the name of becoming truly available for the right relationship, my clients inspire me daily with the ways in which they stay committed to what they really want.
One recent heartwarming story in particular, is from my client Rebecca* (name changed for privacy). Before working together Rebecca shared, “I struggled with anxiety, feeling desperate and hopeless, over-analyzing all my interactions with men, and wondering if I would ever be able to overcome what was “wrong” with me to find a man for a loving, committed relationship.”
We focused on releasing love blocks (that were hidden in how she thought, felt, and acted in her love life), helped her attract higher quality potential partners, and the tangible dating tools to release anxiety in dating so she could show up as your most confident, secure self.
Through our work together, Rebecca shared, “I learned to start trusting myself, that I can be radiant and big and goofy and fun and that the man for me will love me and cherish me for that. That even the not so great parts of me will be cared for and accepted and that I can give myself permission to feel pleasure! I know that things are happening for me right now and I don’t have to wait “until”!!”
Since working together, Rebecca went on to meet and get engaged to a wonderful man. She just posted photos from the proposal and it was so heartwarming to see someone I worked with very closely, for over a year, come full circle in her love life.
My company loves celebrating our clients for the big wins like this, as well as the moments that may seem smaller on the surface, but carry big transformational energy.
When you adopt the belief that everything is working in your favor and what you want is inevitably yours, as we promote in our company, it’s hard not to find heartwarming stories every day!
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers
If you’re new to Madeline Charles Coaching, welcome! I specialize in supporting high achieving women to release the anxiety associated with finding love, so they can avoid the common dating pitfalls and attract the right partner much easier and faster than if they were to keep endlessly swiping on apps, or waiting for Mr. Right to knock on their door.
Blending my professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist with intuitive guidance, I balance the practical and spiritual components of what it takes for women to create a secure, healthy partnership and make it last.
I’m best known for helping women uncover their Attraction Blueprint(™), which is the formula for releasing hidden anxious or avoidant dating patterns, so women can step forward with unshakable confidence, self-trust, and full self-expression in their ideal relationship.
Rather than learn shallow dating tactics or scripts, we focus on the things that truly move the needle in your love life; valuing all parts of yourself, increasing your capacity for intimacy, pleasure, and success, learning how to attract a truly compatible partner, and feeling deeply secure because you know how to create a solid bond that lasts a lifetime.
Women walk away from working together feeling a much greater level of permission – to be who they really are, to create the life they’ve always dreamed of, and to cultivate the kind of conscious partnership that can only be described as a spiritual assignment they’ve been feeling in their hearts all their lives.
Yes, you’ll learn how to ‘get the guy’ through our work together, and you’ll also come home to yourself in a way that fully liberates you to live and love at your highest potential.
Putting training and knowledge aside, what else do you think really matters in terms of succeeding in your field?
While I bring my expertise as a licensed therapist to my work as a love coach, and that provides a solid foundation of trauma-informed, attachment, and somatic focused training, what I find most helpful for succeeding as a love coach, are the things not found in a textbook. I am my own first client, and anything I teach comes from first adopting the processes I test and experiment with, until I have enough embodied wisdom and tangible evidence in my own life, to turn around and share with others.
When I focus on the things I’ve mastered, while continuing to lead myself to new levels of growth and expansion, I believe my current and future clients can feel that. You can sense when someone is regurgitating what they heard from somewhere else, versus a lived, real identity and experience.
I’ll often hear from clients something like “I can tell you walk your talk”, or “the way you live your life is a great example of what you’re teaching”.
To me, embodied wisdom through real life application is the most potent teaching of all, and I’m committed to constantly growing myself, so that I have new levels of internal resources to pull from for my work.
We’d love to hear a story of resilience from your journey.
When I first started sharing my work as a love coach, I think it was a bit surprising for some people because they’d known me as having had unsuccessful relationships in the past. To now tout myself as an expert when they’d seen me struggle in the dating world was a concern for some. I remember one person who I thought was a good friend, posted on my Facebook post that was promoting my work, and commented that I was a joke for what I was now doing.
Anyone who is in the ring, courageously showing up doing work in the world that not only makes a difference, but stems from one’s own personal trials, is going to be a magnet for people with very loud, opposing opinions. I’ve known this, and yet, the comment still stung.
I remember this was my first online ‘hater’ and in that moment, I made the choice not to let her, or anyone, get in my way. As someone who used to care a lot about what people thought of me, this was really challenging. Obviously I’m not immune to hurtful comments, but my confidence in who I am and why this work matters to me, keeps me going.
Keeping my eye on my north star – the bigger reason for everything I do professionally, helps tune out those who don’t agree.
I’ve got a big mission to accomplish, and making a commitment to myself to stay the course no matter what, helps me stay focused on what really matters: awakening, healing, and evolving the collective consciousness.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://madelinecharlescoaching.com
- Instagram: instagram.com/madelinecharlescoaching/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/madeline.charles.5
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