We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Krisztina Konya. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Krisztina below.
Krisztina, thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today What’s the backstory behind how you came up with the idea for your business?
The story of how I came up with the idea for my coaching business is a journey filled with hardship, resilience, and unwavering determination. It all began in Romania, a country gripped by communism at the time of my birth. Life there was tough, and opportunities were scarce. But I always felt a burning desire, a deep conviction, that there was something more to life for me.
My path was far from smooth. I faced countless setbacks that would have crushed many. I found myself on my knees more times than I can count, but I never gave up. The relentless pursuit of my dreams kept me going. I knew, deep down, that I was meant for something greater than my circumstances.
This belief in a higher purpose and an unyielding faith in the face of adversity led me to make some radical choices. I ran away from home, experiencing the harsh reality of homelessness. I took on jobs that others would shun, just to make ends meet. I even found myself out on the streets not once, but twice. But every time life knocked me down, I found the strength to rise again.
Through this arduous journey, I discovered the power of faith and the belief in something larger than ourselves. It was this profound understanding that became the driving force behind my transformation. I realized that no matter the circumstances, with faith, we can achieve the extraordinary.
And so, the idea for my coaching business was born. I knew that I couldn’t keep this revelation to myself. I had to share it with the world. I wanted to be the guiding light for those who felt lost and helpless, just as I had once felt.
I became an international peace ambassador, a spiritual coach, and an empowerment coach. My unique journey, my ability to rise from the depths of despair, and my unwavering faith in the human spirit set me apart. I offered a different perspective, a unique approach to life’s challenges.
I knew this was a worthwhile endeavour because I had lived it. My logic was simple: if I could overcome the odds, so could others. I was solving a problem that many faced but didn’t know how to conquer. I was offering not just guidance but living proof that we can rise and shine, regardless of our circumstances.
What excited me the most about this idea was the prospect of transforming lives. I felt a deep calling to inspire and motivate others, to show them that they, too, could overcome, succeed, and achieve greatness. It was the very essence of my existence, my life’s purpose.
So, my coaching business is not just a venture; it is a mission. A mission to spread hope, faith, and the unshakable belief that we all have the potential to rise above our challenges and shine brilliantly. My story is a testament to the power of the human spirit, and I am committed to helping others uncover their own extraordinary potential.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
Absolutely, I’d be delighted to introduce myself and shed some light on what I do.
My journey into the world of coaching, spiritual leadership, and authentic leadership coaching was born from a deep well of personal experiences. I’m a Usui Reiki Master Teacher and an Ancient Crystal Healing Master Healer. These practices led me to explore the profound power of energy and its impact on our lives.
As a coach, I connect with my clients on a profound level, always seeing the radiant light within them. I firmly believe that every form of life is sacred, and this belief forms the foundation of my work. I offer a range of services to support personal growth and transformation, including one-on-one coaching sessions, group coaching, energy healing sessions, and guided meditations.
What sets me apart is my unwavering commitment to meeting individuals right where they are on their journey. We are all unique, and I approach each person as the beautifully distinct individual they are. It brings me immense joy and fulfilment to witness my clients rise above their circumstances, embrace their inner light, and share their voices with the world.
I’m incredibly proud of the transformative impact I’ve had on the lives of those I’ve worked with. The satisfaction of seeing people emerge from the shadows, empowered and confident, ready to make their mark on the world, is my greatest reward.
But I don’t do this work alone. Alongside my dear friend and business partner, Enolia, we organize spiritual retreats for women under the banner of the “Pillar of Light.” These retreats and speaking events provide a platform for women to express their truths and share their inspiring stories with the world. Together, we create a supportive community where women can lift each other and amplify their voices.
What I want you, as a potential client, follower, or fan, to know is that my work is deeply rooted in the belief that you have a brilliant light within you. I’m here to guide you in discovering it, to help you rise above your challenges, and to encourage you to let your authentic self shine brightly. I’m committed to helping you find your voice and transform your life. My purpose is to inspire and empower you to live your most extraordinary life, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?
The lesson I had to unlearn, and it was a pivotal moment in my journey towards empowerment and spirituality, was the idea that I should lead from my head rather than my heart. For the longest time, I believed that logic, reason, and cold calculation were the keys to success and happiness (I am a Capricorn on top of that). This belief had been ingrained in me, passed down from society and those around me.
The backstory to this lesson was a life filled with striving for conventional success, chasing external markers of achievement, and ignoring the yearning of my heart. I was following a path that I thought I should, not one that resonated with my true self. It was a path marked by societal expectations and the pressure to conform to a predetermined definition of success. Very simple examples: I had to be the first in my class, no matter what. I had to be the leader of the team, no matter what. On top of that I was expected to be a boy, therefore, raised as one by my grandparents. My masculine side was dominant for a long time, completely ignoring the feminine part of me.
But as I embarked on my journey of self-discovery and spirituality, I realized that my heart held the wisdom and guidance I needed. I had to unlearn the idea that leading with my head, disconnected from my heart, was the way to go. It was like breaking free from a mental prison I had unknowingly built for myself.
Once I learned to lead from my heart, everything around me began to transform for the better. I started making decisions based on what truly resonated with my authentic self, and the results were remarkable. My relationships deepened, my sense of purpose blossomed, and a profound sense of fulfilment washed over me.
I also began to unravel the beliefs that weren’t truly mine. I understood that many of the ideas I had about myself and the world had been imposed on me by external influences. Beliefs like being irreparably damaged by the past, thinking that financial scarcity was my fate, or that success only came through relentless hard work, were all notions I had to unlearn.
My journey taught me that our past doesn’t define us, and our potential for growth and transformation is limitless. We can rewrite our stories, release ourselves from limiting beliefs, and embrace the extraordinary power within us. As I unlearned these old beliefs, I started to connect with my true self, and that’s when my authentic journey to empowerment truly began. It’s a journey I’m passionate about sharing with others, inspiring them to unlearn and rediscover their own beautiful authenticity.
Have you ever had to pivot?
Certainly, I’d be happy to share a pivotal moment in my life, a time when I had to make a significant pivot. It was the year 2014, and it marked a profound turning point in my journey.
In 2011, my world transformed when my daughter was born. Her arrival was a beautiful blessing, but it also brought with it a storm of challenges that I hadn’t anticipated. The first few years were incredibly tough. I found myself sinking into depression, overwhelmed with worry, and riddled with self-doubt. I questioned whether I was a good mother, and fear grasped me.
During this trying period, my partner, a faithful source of support, grew increasingly concerned about my well-being. We both recognized that something had to change, or I risked losing my sanity. I cherished my daughter deeply, and I was grateful she had chosen me as her mother, but I was trapped in a cycle of fear and insecurity.
Her birth forced me to confront my own limitations and redefine my path in life. It was a profound awakening, a call to action. I took a leap of faith, and in less than a week, I made a life-altering decision. I left behind my home in Budapest, Hungary, and embarked on a radical change by moving to the bustling metropolis of London in 2014. I arrived with nothing more than a backpack and a fierce determination to create a new life.
This pivotal moment was a turning point that demanded courage, resilience, and adaptability. I had to let go of everything I had known and step into the unknown. It was an intimidating leap, but it was also liberating.
In London, I faced numerous challenges and crossed many hurdles. Yet, with time, I not only survived but thrived. This pivot in my life allowed me to rediscover my strength, find a sense of purpose, and cultivate a deeper understanding of myself. It was a transformation that led me to the path I walk today, one filled with purpose, empowerment, and the desire to inspire others.
This story serves as a reminder that sometimes, we must be willing to pivot, to leave our comfort zones and embrace the unknown, in order to find our true selves and create a life that aligns with our deepest aspirations. It’s a testament to the power of resilience and faith in our own capacity to adapt and grow, even in the face of uncertainty.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.krisztinakonya.com / www.pillaroflight.live / www.visionafricdevelopment.org / www.easystepgroup.co.uk / www.expresshumanity.org
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krisztina.konya1/
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Image Credits
Professional photos by Herman Chow (photos in the garden)