We were lucky to catch up with Kim And Roger recently and have shared our conversation below.
Kim and Roger, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. We’re complete cheeseballs and so we love asking folks to share the most heartwarming moment from their career – do you have a touching moment you can share with us?
Our most treasured story is how we found each other during one of the world’s darkest moments. Both single and in our fifties—an age when many believe their chance at true love has passed them by—we proved that soul-deep connections can bloom at any stage of life. As the Covid lockdown descended and uncertainty gripped everyone, we were both quietly searching for something extraordinary. After years of being single, we hadn’t just been waiting—we’d been growing, reflecting on our past relationships, and crystallizing what truly mattered to us in a life partner. We weren’t interested in temporary connections or settling for “good enough.” Despite society’s whispers that finding ‘the one’ gets harder with age, we held onto our belief that real love was definitely out there, and worth waiting for.
Then fate played its hand through an unlikely matchmaker: a global pandemic. Meeting online during lockdown could have felt limiting, but for us it was a gift in disguise. Instead of rushing into traditional dating, we embraced the slow dance of getting to know each other through words alone. For five magical months, we exchanged letters daily, sharing our thoughts, dreams, and stories. Our connection deepened in a way that might never have happened in the rushed world of normal dating. When we finally met face-to-face, it was like reuniting with someone we’d known forever—yet with all the flutter and excitement of a first date. Covid may have kept the world apart, but it brought our hearts together in the most unexpected and perfect way, proving that love doesn’t have an expiration date. And this is what launched our business, kimandroger.com, to help others write their own inspiring love stories.
Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.
We’re Kim and Roger, and our story proves that finding extraordinary love is possible at any age. Meeting in our fifties wasn’t just a lucky accident—it was the result of intentional inner work and personal growth that prepared us for a connection deeper than we’d ever imagined.
Before finding each other, we each walked a path of self-discovery and transformation. We didn’t just wait for love to find us; we actively worked on becoming our best selves. We challenged our limiting beliefs, examined old patterns that no longer served us, and got absolutely clear about what we wanted in a partnership. We weren’t interested in settling—we were seeking a profound connection that would enrich every aspect of our lives.
When our paths finally crossed, we discovered something remarkable: we had both been doing nearly identical inner work, independently preparing ourselves for this level of love. This shared journey of personal growth wasn’t just coincidence—it was the very foundation that made our connection possible.
Now, we’re passionate about sharing what we’ve learned with others who are seeking meaningful love, especially later in life. We understand the unique challenges of dating in our fifties and beyond. It’s easy to feel like time has passed us by or that the opportunities for real connection have diminished. But we’re living proof that age is just a number when it comes to finding deep, fulfilling love.
Our approach isn’t about traditional dating strategies or rules. Instead, we focus on holistic transformation—becoming the kind of person who naturally attracts the love we desire. Through our coaching, blog posts, and upcoming courses, we guide others on a magical journey of transformation and discovery. We share practical tools and insights that helped to manifest our ideal relationship, while addressing the specific challenges and opportunities of finding love in midlife and beyond.
Remember: you are never too old, too wounded, or too anything to find extraordinary love. When you align your highest self with clarity and your deepest desires for partnership, magic happens. Whether you’re ready to start this journey or just beginning to consider the possibility of love again, we’re here to support and inspire you. The love you dream of is possible—we know because we’re living it.
If you could go back in time, do you think you would have chosen a different profession or specialty?
Our journey into relationship coaching emerged organically, almost as if the universe had planned it all along. Kim’s diverse background spans professional photography and life coaching, while Roger combines his career in design and marketing with his gift for intuitive guidance. Yet even with these experiences in helping others, becoming relationship coaches wasn’t anywhere on our radar. But sometimes life has bigger plans than we do.
As we shared our stories with each other, we discovered something remarkable: independently, we had both developed similar approaches to preparing ourselves for love. We had each done the deep work of reflecting on past relationships, consciously defining what we wanted in a partner, and committing to personal growth. What started as casual conversations about our parallel journeys revealed something profound—we had stumbled upon a process that actually works.
The more we shared our story, the more we felt drawn to a greater purpose. People in their fifties and beyond would ask us how we found such a deep connection at this stage of life. Their questions resonated with us because we understood their challenges firsthand. We realized we had been given not just the gift of finding each other, but the responsibility to show others that extraordinary love is possible at any age. This wasn’t a career choice—it was a calling. Our backgrounds in helping others through coaching, creativity, and intuitive work had unknowingly prepared us for this role. Our own love story had become a beacon of hope, and we knew we had to share our pathway to love with others who might think their chance at true love had passed them by.
To answer the question, we wouldn’t change a thing.
Other than training/knowledge, what do you think is most helpful for succeeding in your field?
Our most valuable credentials don’t come from traditional education or certifications—they come from having lived the very journey we teach. While we both hold formal degrees and have extensive professional training in our respective fields, what truly qualifies us to guide others toward extraordinary love is that we’ve walked the path ourselves. We’ve done the deep inner work, faced the challenges, gained clarity and discovered what actually works in manifesting genuine, lasting love later in life.
Think of it this way: we’re astronauts, not astronomers. While astronomers study the stars from afar, astronauts have actually journeyed through space. We’ve navigated the very territory our clients want to explore—the challenging but rewarding path to finding remarkable love after 50. We’ve individually mapped the steps, confronted the fears, broken through the limiting beliefs, and emerged successful. Our shared discovery—that we had independently followed nearly identical paths to prepare ourselves for love—wasn’t just a coincidence. It was validation of a process that genuinely works.
When people come to us they’re not getting theory or book knowledge; they’re getting real-world wisdom from two people who have actually achieved what they’re seeking. We believe this lived experience, this practical understanding of the journey, resonates far more deeply than any academic credentials could. After all, who better to guide you to your destination than someone who has successfully made the same journey?
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.kimandroger.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kim_and_roger
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimandrogermanifestationship
- Other: email: [email protected]
Image Credits
Kim Bajorek Photography