We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Khristin Isley. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Khristin below.

Khristin, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. What’s the backstory behind how you came up with the idea for your business?

There have been several life situations that’s taken place to help formulate my current foundation. As a first-generation college student, college seemed to be more of a dream than a reality. Given my socioeconomic background, It felt as if I had several odds against me. Examples include economic hardships, a sense of not belonging, and even support and resources. I was devastated and discouraged after being told by my high school guidance counselor: I did not meet “the average student’s profile” of students accepted into a university such as N.C. State or UNC-Chapel Hill. I was lost and a bit depressed as friends brought up colleges they were applying to in hopes of acceptance. I no longer felt I belonged, and my identity became questionable and embarrassed to even discuss my options.  My grandparents were unfamiliar with the college process, and it made it difficult to navigate the admissions process. However, I eventually began researching to learn the opportunities I had. Whether to attend a two-year year or spend the following year exploring to determine what would make an excellent fit for my interests. I began reviewing my credentials, strengths, and vital items as I made a decision about college. I had terrific grades, challenged myself in the classroom by taking rigorous subjects, presented a robust extra-activity background, and was also the product of a three sport-varsity athlete. I knew this would not end, and I was determined to find another route. After thorough research, I applied to over 15 schools and was accepted unanimously. The icing on the cake included receiving some academic and/or athletic scholarship between D1-D2 Universities.  Who ever knew colleges would provide scholarships to make a dream more affordable? This may be obvious but not to first generation families.  I gathered all my offers and decided on a university that fit best and made more sense financially. I decided on a small private University outside of Charlotte, NC; the rest is history. Since graduating Magna cum laude from Pfeiffer University with a bachelor’s in psychology and communication, I’ve accomplished goals that are unheard of in my family. To list a few:

• Traveled to over 8 different countries speaking to students and families about college/career readiness.
• Completed my Master of Science in Leadership, pursuing my second master’s in clinical Mental Health Counseling with plans to become a Licensed Professional Counselor
• the owner of two different businesses (N&K On Customs & I.C.E.Y. Organization)
• been a feature on several radio stations within and outside of the US.
• presented as guest speakers at conferences and college fairs all over the world.
• landed jobs within higher education institutions-working in admissions and have had the pleasure of helping thousands of students turn their college dream into a reality.
• Published scholar.
• Helped over 15,000 students through the college admissions process (12,000+ of those have graduated college

This leads me to my next point: my business Implementing a Capable and Exceptional You (I.C.E.Y. Organization) originated because my high school counselor told me I was not good enough to be accepted into a university of my interests. Being from a small town, we needed more resources and knowledge of this information, or those who had access were products of individuals whose parents’ attended college. This is an issue several individuals of my background may face due to the need for more resources. I wanted to create an organization that helps others with the same dream and turns them into reality. First-generation college students are more likely to have firsthand experience with the challenges of navigating the educational system. They may have had to figure things out independently, learn how to navigate financial aid and overcome barriers to success. My personal experience makes me well-suited to help others facing similar challenges. I advocate for college/career readiness and believe it necessary not only to understand this process but also to develop essential life skills to help you succeed as a college graduate or within one’s profession. Educational consultants/advocates can provide valuable support to first-generation college students. With my company, I help students understand their options, navigate financial aid processes, and find the resources they need to succeed. This is my way of paying it forward by providing it to others. One of my ultimate lifegoals is to help pave the way for others.

Furthermore, since launching the I.C.E.Y. Organization, I have developed a passion for education due to my experiences. I recognize the transformative power of education and want to help others access educational opportunities and achieve their goals. I have now channeled my passion into a meaningful career.

As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?

Growing up, I wasn’t always the most confident due to constantly comparing myself to others. At times it felt as if I was never good enough or if anything I did went unnoticed. This was an uneasy feeling that I couldn’t shake. With this, I forced myself to take the time to self-reflect and find my own awareness. It wasn’t an easy process, but it was a much-needed function. My motto in life became that there are two things we control: attitude and effort. I drilled into my values that anything I do, I will put 100% effort and keep a positive attitude. There are times when challenges arise, but I am confident to overcome them through my faith, attitude, and intentional actions. So whenever someone asks me, what do you want your legacy to be? I want them to tell you that Khristin Isley-Jackson is one of the most well-respected, hard-working women of faith, a living testimony, and a woman who knows her purpose. She is different. I have been placed into this life to help others fulfill their purpose in life and to help them gain the confidence to do so, which leads me to my small businesses.

My vision is more significant than mine. God has given me this vision; I know he will not lead me astray. There are multiple reasons why black and brown graduates are not as numerous as white graduates. These reasons include systemic racism in the education system, financial barriers faced by black and brown families, a lack of representation and cultural differences, and limited access to academic resources.

Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?

According to my background, I should have been a statistic, and living check to check, with multiple children, living below the poverty means barely surviving and living off government assistance. This is no knock to anyone currently doing so because I am a product of a government-assistance family. My entire family is. I just wanted to create a better life and be proud of my hard work while building generational wealth for myself and my future family. However, with a village of support, I was able to turn one of my wishes into a reality. I have now graduated with a bachelor’s and master’s degree. I am also completing my second master’s degree for FREE with the blessing of my career path of working in higher education. I help adolescents understand all the opportunities this world has provided us while assisting them to know how to utilize their resources. I.C.E.Y. Organization offers independent educational consulting services, free financial aid seminars, and other informational services to guide families throughout the college and career readiness process. We are still young, but I have a larger vision for this company. I want to make this not only Nationally known but internationally as well. One of my highest accomplishments is being hired as a guest speaker for several international college fairs this year. I plan to travel worldwide to educate school systems, high schools, counselors, ministries of education, and families about these critical topics.

L.E.G.A.C.Y. to me means- Leadership Empowerment and Growth Achievement that comes from within yourself. If you had asked me ten years ago how I want to be remembered, I would have said something as shallow as fitting in or being rich. I am now living in my truth, being my authentic self, and leaving an impact in this world. For those who know me, I am quick to share positive aspirations through Bible verses, motivational quotes, or a simple, I’m proud of you. I have lived my days investing in everyone around me, and now it’s time to invest in myself and pour that same love I have had the fortunate of receiving back into the community. The impact we leave in this world starts with us. We create our canvas, and every day we wake up is a new opportunity. I walk with intention and broadcast my faith, knowing my savior placed me on this earth for a purpose. I must fulfill that purpose by utilizing every day as a new opportunity. So, how will you use that opportunity to get one step closer to achieving your dreams? I will also create a brand within my business called U.N.I.K. (Unique Naturally, Invaluable Knowingly). Life is temporary, and it’s essential to embrace that. So that is what I want people to remember about me: Khristin Isley has left her L.E.G.A.C.Y. and assumes her UNIKness.

In addition, building resilience is about developing the ability to cope with and overcome challenges, setbacks, and difficult situations. Here are some strategies to help you build strength:

1. Practice Self-Care: Taking care of yourself physically and mentally can help you feel more resilient. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and practicing stress-reducing activities like meditation or yoga.
2. Build Strong Relationships: A support network of family and friends can help you build resilience. Having someone to talk to or lean on during difficult times can make a big difference in your ability to navigate challenges.
3. Cultivate a Growth Mindset: A growth mindset involves viewing challenges as opportunities for learning and growth. This can help you maintain a positive attitude and believe in your ability to overcome obstacles.
4. Find Purpose and Meaning: Having a sense of purpose and meaning in your life can help you stay focused on your goals and maintain a sense of perspective during difficult times.
5. Practice Problem-Solving: Developing solid problem-solving skills can help you feel more confident in navigating challenging situations. When faced with a problem, take a step back, assess the case, and come up with a plan to address it.
6. Practice Gratitude: Gratitude can help you maintain perspective and stay positive during difficult times. Practicing gratitude can be as simple as taking time each day to reflect on what you are thankful for.

Remember, resilience does not happen overnight; patience is your best friend. Over time, you can develop the skills and attitudes that will help you build strength and thrive in adversity.

Are there any books, videos or other content that you feel have meaningfully impacted your thinking?

I listen to many podcasts, especially Tom Bilyeu’s Impact Theory. This is a great wealth of knowledge and great for those pushing to be one of the best.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://linktr.ee/khristinisley?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=90e03f3b-40dd-40f5-8afb-a36dc18b0293
• Instagram: @Khristinj22 and @nandkoncustoms and @mrsjacksonthcounselor and @iceyorganization and @nandkonchill
• Other: https://shoutoutatlanta.com/meet-khristin-isley-educational-consultant-and-designer-content-creator/ https://voyageatl.com/interview/check-out-khristin-isleys-story/