We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Kelly Reginella. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Kelly below.
Kelly, appreciate you joining us today. Was there a defining moment in your professional career? A moment that changed the trajectory of your career?
When I look back on my journey as a reiki master healer/teacher, psychic medium and my nursing career I would say that there were three defining moments as a daughter, healer and medium, but the one defining moment of fully understanding who I am and my purpose, was when I was 17 years old and my mom was in a coma. At 17,I understood about energy, not on as a deep level as now, I knew with all my being that she would be able to hear my prayer and wish despite being in a coma. I whispered to my mom inn her ear, just before leaving her at around 9 pm ” I love you mom. You’ve put up a good fight I will be alright if you choose to leave. I know that you will always be with me. I love you.” In that moment, as I looked at her, I saw a single tear come down her cheek and I knew in that moment that she was going to transition to the other side soon. With a myriad of emotions, I left the hospital that I had visited her almost every day from October to March, knowing that this would be the last time I would see her, understanding that she had heard me and knowing that she would be at peace after her 5 year journey with cancer. That as I was about to graduate from grade 12, her one wish was to see me have an education, she would be with me in spirit. After coming home, doing homework and praying to the angels and my relatives in spirit to assist my mom, at 3 am my mom”s spirit came to me to say good bye. She was radiant, glowing, happy, smiling, she gave me a kiss and a hug and said her goodbye to me, since she was leaving this earthly realm and would always be with and a part of me. In the morning as I was getting ready for school my dad said that he had something to tell me. Which intuitively, I knew was about my mom, he explained that he had been called to the hospital in the middle of the night and that she had passed away peacefully around 3 am. As a nurse I had many experiences working with energy, knowing when loved ones in spirits were present and that a person was close to transitioning. I learned to listen to my spirit guides when a patient who appeared stable, I was told by my guide Archangel Raphael to watch my patient closely since he had an abdominal aneurysm, upon coming on to afternoon shift and by around 10 pm the patient expressing that he kew he was dying, I held his hand and said he was not alone. It was not until around 9:30 pm that a diagnosis was given by a neurologist with portable X-ray that it was indeed an abdominal aneurysm. Learning to trust my gifts and sharing it with others really came to the forefront when in 2016 I went to see a well known psychic medium who was coming to my hometown. I went with a friend and so I told her Id like to it at the end of the row on right side of the room. Just as I was getting comfortable and sending reiki to the room I saw angels and loved ones in spirit all around us, holding space around us present, it was then that my guides asked me to move over 3 seats, so I did. It was in this moment that I was approached by a young 16 year old son in spirit who asked me to give his dad a message, who was sitting right beside me. Wow, I was amazed, grateful and startled all at the same time. Wanting me, when we were at a famous well known psychic medium event, to give his dad a message. So I struck up a conversation with his dad, asking him if he was waiting for his wife to come in. He answered, Yes. Are you hoping to hear from a specific loved one? Again he answered,Yes. Is it his son? Yes. So I gently explained that his son was with me, and asking for me to give him messages. Since his son had shared with me the cause of his death, and his messages of love that would bring healing. At the end of the night as we were leaving the man sitting beside me was waiting in the hall, as I was exiting the room. He approached me and thanked me so much for being present tonight and bringing through his son’s messages since other people had been given messages, but not them. I was the one who did for them. In that moment I realized that my gifts were meant to be shared. What if I had let my fear overtake giving these messages of love and hope to this son’s dad. There is one thing I know for sure, for I have seen it time and time again, that love transcends all space and time. It is the one emotion that always comes through and is the tie that binds us to our loved ones on the other side.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
I am a healer, an empath, a creative, an alchemist, psychic medium, a wife, a mother, grandmother, daughter, sister and friend.
I came to the healing industry first through my nursing that led me to ask and search for more to assist people with their journey with healing. As you may know healing happens in layers and on many levels of our being- body, mind, emotional and spiritual. I was introduced to the body-mind connection when I learned about meditation at the age of 12. It amazed me how our thoughts have the power to change what we are experiencing either through seeing things through a different lens or the ability to connect to new beliefs and possibilities. I remember as a nurse having a very compassionate moment with a women who was going for a procedure. that I knew intuitively, a sense of knowing, that she would possibly pass away during the procedure. I sat with her for about 20 minutes letting her express to me how she felt, voicing her fears etc since she was preparing for this procedure on her own, she was so fearful and hesitant. I asked her if she was aware of the risks, that she had a right to change her mind if she felt she needed more time to decide. I told her I was there for her and would be waiting for her to come back. She did not return, she had passed away, and I was filled with a deep feeling of sadness infused with peace, since I was so very grateful that I had spent the time with her, so she knew that she wasn’t alone, and that someone was there to hold space for her and her feelings. In that moment I understood that I wanted people to know that they are not alone on their journey to wellness and striving to live their best life, I wanted to give people the awareness and ability to know that they can choose…to feel empowered about the decisions and choices available to them..
So my soul searching lead me to various healing modalities. Therapeutic touch was my first modality, where I felt at HOME. It has 3 levels which I am certified. In the first level I had been called upon and had to express what I had seen and witnessed during a session with a partner. When I described what had happened my teacher told me that I was already at level 3. My logical brain could not understand this, since I had not been taught all 3 levels. After taking my third level, I then understood more fully that yes I had in fact been doing this all my life, but I just did not have a name or framework in order to explain my innate gift that had been more fully awakened in me at this time. As I felt whole. All parts of me loved, giving me more awareness of who I was more fully and let my love and light shine to help others be who they are. This led me to embrace how others are afraid to share their gifts and give themselves the permission be who they truly are. This ah-ha moment made me realize the impact others thoughts and opinions of us can hold us back from expressing our true nature. I started my business with my learning and healing journey to assist and support others. For me, my truth and what I have witnessed in my clients, is that healing is a deep remembering that the medicine we seek lies within meeting our-self more fully. This is how I facilitate my clients and act as a conduit for the Divine and Universal energy with my client’s healing, giving channeled messages from spirit- spirit guides, angels and loved ones to bring in the healing, clarity and guidance needed at that time, for my clients. My mission is to help lead my clients to a purposeful and empowered life. drawing on their strengths, gifts and desires. Thus I draw upon my toolbox of modalities to tailor a unique integrated session for my client. We are not defined by our wounding and struggles or even our illnesses, we find ourselves within these, what we want and achieve by editing out things that no longer align with what we want and based on an old belief systems. My toolbox of healing modalities include Certified Reiki master Teacher, Theta healing (level 1) and am also certified in these following areas: Akashic Records Practitioner, an Angel Alchemist, an Anahata Codes Practitioner, as well as certifications as a Crystal Energy Guide, Angel card mastery and Angel guide, an Aura Reader, and Moonoly.
As a healer and teacher, I assist in a client’s gateway to transformation. By assisting and supporting a client on their journey with guidance and energy healing, so they can to let go of worry, anxiety, guilt, anger and burdens, so that the client can release these, to be fully present and engaged in, enabling my client to create a life that they have been longing for by opening to new opportunities in their life, to feel more lighter and have clarity to find the freedom in living an empowered and fulfilling life. That is my mantra- “Freedom through Empowerment” That is why alchemy is a key word, since it has to do with “transmutation” for transformation.
By tuning in to the universe I can listen to the “whispers” of your soul. This allows me to gently obtain insight that will assist a client. I also help to empower a client that choosing to be happy is possible and to find what brings them joy in their life, by helping them to gently release the deep-rooted insecurities, fears, trauma and grief to heal in all aspects of a client’s healing. By releasing the past situations and hurts with forgiveness, and love for yourself, a client can come into the present moment, to feel whole and realize their potential and gifts so they can stay in flow with their desires. During a session I focus on your energetic field and chakras, since these tell a client’s story, by understanding the story of the chakras, with grace, the process of healing helps to heal the painful emotions and trauma, that can get stuck in a negative, self-sabotaging thought looping pattern and cause dis-ease in the body. This is what alchemy is, transmutation for transformation. I gently guide my client to clear and release these non-beneficial patterns of thought, insecurities (where they started and are rooted presently, insecurities and fears so that they can be healed and transmuted with the divine light. So that by releasing these lower vibrational energies, I assist a client to embrace the higher vibrations of lightness and balance.This results in a client to become more centred and more in flow with their vitality, creativity and desires which empowers a client to have more awareness and clarity as they journey on their life path. As I psychic medium, I love to be the messenger of love and light!And that LOVE is the frequency that ties us all together, through this loving connection with a client’s loved ones. I receive guidance and help from a client’s loved ones, as a way to heal, find understanding and closure, as well as a clients higher purpose.
On my journey as a healer and teacher, I am so grateful to assist others to learn about Reiki, and become practitioners. As a healer to see the transformation in my clients, from a girl struggling with mental illness, who felt safe and opened up to heal the shadow aspect of pain and be able to graduate and flourish, to see the world and all the possibilities available to her. To a women who had went to counselling for years and after a mediumship and healing session, she said that I was able to give her the understanding and answers and connection she was looking for in all her years of therapy, she was astounded and so deeply grateful. To see a client with anxiety and pain after a breakup heal, explore more of what she wanted, get in tune with her intuition and is now in a beautiful relationship and happy in her career. As a teacher, to help clients understand their spiritual gifts and use them in their lives, and for some in their healing businesses. There is one very special moment when I got a message from a preteen boy’s mother, whose parents were going through a separation and after the session he said that his “heart felt whole’ and no longer felt broken. These are the moments that bring me such joy and fulfillment, and why I do what I do. My passion is to assist my clients in feeling lighter and more energetic in helping bring them into alignment, with the mind and body, by clearing things that can impact their energy, sleep, stress levels, to gain a sense of peace and a new found sense of vitality, and self confidence with more fulfilling relationships. Freeing themselves from the need to be a “people-pleaser by freeing themselves from the opinions of others, to break free from old patterns that repeat by understanding the root of these patterns, to set healthy boundaries, to trust in themselves and their choices to unlock their full potential by moving from a place of chaos and confusion to clarity.. My clients healing, through releasing of heavier emotions and the feeling of being stuck, to come alive again and embrace life with enthusiasm and awe.
Let’s talk about resilience next – do you have a story you can share with us?
In 2018, I was going to a Summer Solstice Gathering with some other angel alchemist graduates and had the opportunity to receive my Theta Healing level 1 certification. There was such an intense pull and draw to go. My rational brain kept telling me that this was impossible and that I would not be able to get the time off work, have the money to travel and pay for my trip, as well as dealing with the fear of travelling alone and giving myself the permission to do what I wanted to do. I felt with all of my being that this trip was so important to me and part of my purpose. If I had not gone on that trip, I would not have had the courage to step out further from just my friends and family and community, to helping and being of service to people internationally, since my sessions are done online via zoom, reaching people was not a problem during the pandemic. So as I said, I first had to have the courage to talk to my husband about wanting to go to California for this training, and special gathering of people who understood who I was and my gifts. The next hurdle was to ask my boss, for time off since it was bridging students writing exams. He did not fully understand what I did as a healer and medium but he encouraged me to go, which totally surprised me. So I sent an email to HR department asking for the 3 days off and then looked up flights for dates, time, non-stop flights and costs. I asked my guides to assist me, then I thought about finding my passport. As I was walking upstairs to my cabinet, while my husband was researching the best flight, I prayed to my angels that if this was meant to be, then the flight would be a certain amount and I would find my passport. As I came downstairs beaming with my passport in hand, I knew that I was receiving signs and manifesting this to be, my husband said I don’t know what you did but I found a nonstop flight during the day at the price you wanted. With a dance in my step, I purchased the flight and paid for my accommodations and training knowing that this was a defining moment of me living a life with joy and adventure. About two weeks later, which was the timeframe that my boss said I should receive and ok for my request to take my leave, my guides said for me to send an email to follow up with HR re my request for a leave.. At first I did not understand why and then understood the importance of listening to my intuition and following up, since later that day I received an email in response saying that it was a good thing I messaged them since my request file had been buried and would not have been seen in the timeframe needed. Therefore due to the date coming within a week to expect a call from an HR employee about this request. Near the end of the work day I received a call, the HR assistant explained to me that it would be given to the superintendent for approval, but not to get my hopes up since this was occurring during exams and would probably be denied. In the past this may have deflated my spirits, but not this time. With confidence I told her, thank you for your opinion, but I am entitled to make this request for my continuing education, since working within the school system should be honoured and recognized that education is important. I continued to tell her as well , that I believed it would happen, since I already had my flight and reservations for accommodations booked. She was shocked and asked me, well why did you do that, what if you can’t go? I told her, I believe that I am for it is already happening. That no was not an option to me. The next day I received an approval for my leave, I had an amazing flight and such a memorial trip with beautiful friendships and a having sense of belonging- one where want I had been searching for, to feel fully alive, sharing my gifts freely and without hesitation to assist others. An accumulation of all the things that had brought me to this moment, being me and loving myself unconditionally without worrying about others judgement of me. to see the light and gifts in others. For all of us are a reflection for each other, to see the value and beautiful ways we support and learn and heal from one another. The learning and resilience is that it is not enough to want something, that your wish needs for you to take action and to trust that the universe has your back when you make a leap of faith. In doing this there is obstacles and resistance that you will bump up against and can present themselves, some by you and some from other peoples beliefs and viewpoints. It is when we are able to open up, trust and believe with all of our senses that something is possible, that is where the magic happens. The miracle of growth and the magic of manifestation.
Training and knowledge matter of course, but beyond that what do you think matters most in terms of succeeding in your field?
The trainings, knowledge and certifications are important. since that is how clients can see the areas of your expertise and areas in which you can assist them. In saying this, being confident in your abilities, your area of expertise and speaking to their needs and pain points bridges to a vibrational match, meaning your client can see, hear and understand you. Doing this by being real and authentic is also most helpful because that is how your clients can connect with you. Your stories of struggle, healing, getting unstuck, listening to your purpose and having the courage to do so. to meet people where they are at, without judgement in a safe and compassionate environment while holding space for healing and ah-ha moments to occur.
Contact Info:
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