Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Jermesha Striblet-Holmes. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Jermesha , thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today Are you happier as a business owner? Do you sometimes think about what it would be like to just have a regular job?

I’ve had so many “jobs” since I was a teenager. I was a freelance makeup artist and hairstylist, I worked for a non-profit for a few years and worked in retail for a few years. But throughout all of these years, I’ve only been a true entrepreneur for about eight of them EVEN while working other jobs. Working a 9-5 brought me a sense of stability that entrepreneurship couldn’t and all while not enjoying the environment of some of those places, I definitely enjoyed the money. But, I was always happier to clock out and focus on my dreams and the things that really got my spirit moving, I just needed the bi-weekly checks to help me see those dreams become reality. I would walk into work most days with such a low battery just knowing that I had to do something I hated in order to do something I love and it would sometimes spill out into my tasks. I’d be so irritable and silent and unenthused. I’d be so sad until I saw those checks at the end of every other week and I was able to invest in an event, resources, etc. It wasn’t a happy time. So, ultimately yes, I am happier as a business owner even when it’s cloudy.

Jermesha , love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?

I am a serial entrepreneur and community connector from Chicago. I have owned and run a creative hub for young African-American women who want to make the most of their stories and talents. This creative hub, BrownGirlProverb, was started in 2018 after publishing my first book and since then it’s birthed citywide events and major connections. I create spaces for individuals like me, with purposes and dreams, and drive like me. I even host an annual networking mixer called The Busy Brown Girl Brunch, where I highlight women who have the answers and the questions regarding entrepreneurship. It’s been a hit for the last 3 years and I’ll be coming up on the 4th one this year.

How did you build your audience on social media?

It helps that I’m so well-rounded because I have the ability to connect with so many people, especially on social media. I’m myself on and off of social media. I’m also very vulnerable about both my personal and professional struggles so that I don’t give off this facade that just because I’m a business owner I’ve reached some sort of paradise. Not to mention I interact with those that interact with me and it doesn’t hurt that I’m charismatic. The goals are authenticity and intentionality. Be yourself but be strategic because it’s all still a business.

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

I had to understand that I’m not entitled to support. Just because I have the success I can’t always expect my friends, family, and all those closest to me to support it… even if it’s good! Even if it’s quality content and highly praised, there’s a chance that not everyone is going to clap. Even when you need them most and you’re in need of a retweet, like, comment, subscription, share, referral, etc. – they are not obligated to give it to you.

…and you have to be okay with that and focus on those that show you love without you even expecting it.

Contact Info:

• Website: browngirlproverb.com
• Other: TikTok : @officialbusybrowngirl

Image Credits
Sterling Gilmore Julia Shardae