We recently connected with Jenelle Simpson and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Jenelle, thanks for joining us today. Before we get into specifics, let’s talk about success more generally. What do you think it takes to be successful?

I firmly believe that genuine success originates from within oneself. It all begins with self-awareness – understanding who you are, recognizing your abilities, aligning with your purpose and dreams, and navigating with a blend of humility, bold self-love, and self-assurance. Acknowledging that your path is exclusively yours is the key to embracing and sticking to your own journey without comparing it to others.

Attaining success demands a multitude of qualities such as patience, determination, self-awareness, passion, creativity, adaptability, and a courageous willingness to take risks, regardless of external judgments or current circumstances. It necessitates unwavering effort, difficult choices, and a willingness to push through obstacles.

You must be prepared to stand strong, even if you have to stand alone, and endure every stage of growth to reach greater heights. Success is a personal expedition that calls for dedication, resilience, and a steadfast commitment to continuous growth and improvement.

I have always nurtured a desire to become a writer and author, yet I never truly believed it could materialize. However, a shift occurred within me during the COVID era, prompting me to commence writing my debut book, “Commitment To A Deceitful Liar.” Throughout the writing process, I struggled with imposter syndrome, constantly revisiting and revising my words out of fear of criticism. External voices attempting to deter me and casting doubt on my abilities only added to my insecurity.

Despite the uncertainties and skeptics, I consciously chose to silence the noise, disregard the doubts, and pursue my aspirations with unwavering confidence. Upon releasing the book, I received messages and feedback, even from those who had initially discouraged me. This experience taught me a valuable lesson – individuals may project their own insecurities onto you, but it is crucial to have faith in yourself and your capabilities.

Have faith in your potential and remain determined in your objectives, even when confronted with skepticism. Your journey is distinctive and legitimate, and your perseverance will ultimately quell the uncertainties and validate your aspirations.

Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.

I have surpassed all my self-expectations and achieved what many deemed impossible – a Jamaican native raised in Canada. By day, I excel as a Senior Law Clerk, specializing in condominium development and commercial transactions. Beyond my legal career, I have established myself as an award-winning author on platforms like Amazon, a writer, a public figure, a transformational speaker, and a coach. My vision extends beyond personal success to the establishment of the Roots of Jenerational Legacy Foundation. This foundation is committed to breaking harmful generational cycles and promoting healing, growth, and purpose. Giving support and funding to others to help on their journey to success.

As the host of the Life’s Deceit Podcast, I have created a platform that delves deep into life’s complexities, with the goal of breaking generational patterns, dismantling stigma, addressing trauma recovery, and overcoming obstacles. My podcast acts as a safe haven for survivors to share their stories, find support, and access resources for healing. My dedication extends to empowering vulnerable women, men, and children, guiding them towards self-sufficiency, self-love, and the resilience to not just survive, but thrive authentically through my coaching services.

My life hasn’t been a straight drive, I’ve experienced a lot of flat tires, speed bumps, broken lights, road blocks, detours and burn out, but it was all necessary. Despite my childhood dream of becoming a lawyer and working in the legal field for over a decade, I eventually discovered my true calling as an author and transformational speaker during a time I felt empty and purposeless. Embracing this new path was a journey in itself, as I initially doubted my abilities and questioned if I was making a mistake by pursuing this dream. I fought with the feelings of inadequacy and insecurity, believing that I lacked the necessary qualities to succeed in these roles. However, resisting my true purpose only led to more challenges and obstacles, reaffirming that this was the path meant for me.

There was a time in my life when I battled deep doubts about my self-worth and struggled with feelings of isolation and insignificance. I realized that most of these feelings stemmed from experiences the trauma of rape, physical and mental abuse which left me feeling confused and alone, rejected, with a bitter sense of emptiness and a lack of self-love. Despite seeking validation and acceptance in relationships, I refused to let my past define me or hinder me from pursuing my calling. Through introspection and healing, I came to understand the importance of surrender and placing my trust in God.

In my darkest moments, I found solace in the power of faith and the significance of self-discovery and healing. The journey of self-realization, acknowledging, and acceptance has been transformative, guiding me towards fulfilling my true purpose as an author and transformational speaker.

I firmly believe that each individual holds a unique and impactful purpose that is solely theirs. Our individual paths and callings may differ, but they are all meaningful and purposeful. Drawing from my personal experiences, which have encompassed both challenges and moments of joy, I strive to serve as a beacon of awakening and motivation for others. My aim is to assist individuals in navigating their own life journeys and healing processes with grace and empathy.

My aspiration is to provide the support that I once sought for myself. By sharing my personal story, I aim to forge deep connections with others, offering transformation, inspiration, and a shared journey towards self-discovery.

I take pride in not allowing my past experiences to define my narrative. As a mother, I am proud of breaking the cycle of unhealthy patterns and instead creating new, positive dynamics with my children. I challenge myself to exceed expectations, avoiding excuses and settling for the bare minimum. Transparency and open communication are key in my interactions, as I believe in showing others that their past does not dictate their future, but rather shapes them into their best selves.

I aim to awaken individuals’ spirits, inspiring them to pursue the endeavors they have put off and yearned to achieve. However, before embarking on these goals and dreams, it is essential for individuals to introspect and address any lingering issues that may be holding them back. I aim to guide them in understanding that healing is not merely an action but a profound experience and journey that is necessary for personal growth and fulfillment.

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

An important lesson I’ve had to unlearn is the idea that I must accept things that don’t serve me in order to maintain others’ comfort. I’ve come to realize that genuine growth and transformation often necessitate stepping out of comfort zones, even if it means unsettling others. In the past, I tended to prioritize avoiding conflict and ensuring the happiness of those around me, even at the expense of my own fulfillment and happiness. However, I now understand the significance of setting boundaries and focusing on my own needs and aspirations, even if it results in disagreement or discomfort for others.

Previously, I had a habit of seeking approval and validation from others before sharing my writing or podcast content to ensure their satisfaction. I distinctly recall a situation where I sought feedback from an old friend on a specific topic related to my podcast. However, her response was not only biased but also filled with anger. Initially, I was perplexed by her reaction, but upon reflection, I realized that her feedback was influenced by unresolved issues within herself, hindering her from providing impartial advice. This moment was pivotal for me in recognizing that seeking approval from others can sometimes lead to misguided feedback based on their own experiences and emotions.

I’ve had to relinquish the inclination to constantly please others and instead concentrate on serving and honoring myself first. By shifting my mindset in this manner, I can strive towards becoming the best version of myself and dedicating time and effort to my personal growth and accomplishments. Success often involves challenging the existing norms and being prepared to make others uncomfortable in the process.

Is there mission driving your creative journey?

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.jenellesimpson.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifes_deceit?igsh=NnY2Mzlkc3ltemQ0
• Youtube: https://youtube.com/@LifesDeceitPod?si=_swc5_0rWrAPBWUb