Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Jaqualyn Fleming. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Hi Jaqualyn, thanks for joining us today. Can you talk to us about a risk you’ve taken – walk us through the story?
I have had my fights with life, I can say that I’m a strong soldier. I’ve taken a lot of losses , but I can say I never once truly gave up on myself. I was that kid that dreamed of being this singer of the family and giving back to my community. I found it hard to actually put myself out there and actually show the world what I’m made of. My sexuality played a big part in my decision. There are a lot of people that are against my lifestyle but who are they to judge . I had to learn that self love it the best love. Nobody could ever love or understand me the way I do. So I took that and ran with it ,Literally. Yes I still have my doubts but I no longer walk in fear. I am comfortable enough to share my life on social media without feeling judged. April 27, 2020 definitely did a major turn for me. For those who are close to me you all know what I had to go through. I thought my life was over , instead my old life was over and I was beginning another life. Meaning the things I used to do I don’t do anymore. My actions speak for themselves. I’m so blessed to still be living to tell my testimonies and help the next person. I can’t do nothing but praise God with this one. I know with the God I serve “NOBODY” can mess with me . One thing for sure and two things for certain, My God doesn’t play about his kids. I’ve let multiple people use me , take advantage of me, tell me they love me when they really don’t . I stand today and say I am stronger and wiser then before. Doors have been swinging wide open for me every since I have learned to be my true self and not care about others opinions. What you see is what you get , I am Jaysingzz
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
I am very authentic and genuine with everything I say and do. All I want to do is be able to spread knowledge upon the next person. We all have a goal and is trying to make it in this society we deal with today. I refuse to keep quiet about something I know could possible save someone’s life. We all have to find that something that pushes us to do better. Someone can’t want something for us more than we would want it for ourselves. I get it ! taking risks can be very scary, you never know if you don’t atleast try. On all My socials I express myself whether it’s singing ,dancing , vlogging etc. That is what I love to do and that’s what gets me through my days. Now the questions I want to ask you all reading this, I want you to take a moment . What is your “WHY”? What pushes you to want better for yourself ? Why haven’t you given up ? What is your goal?
Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?
I’ve always been the person that would shut down when upset, no one would be able to get me to open up. I never was the type to quickly voice my feelings, out of respect of others . I have struggled with loving to hard or giving people my last, leaving me to struggle. As many times as I wanted to say no I couldn’t. I felt when people asked me for help it was a reason I was asked. Deep down I felt that saying no was not even an option. I was so heavy on putting others before myself, and that’s where I hit a brick wall every time. I fell into depression , felt like I had no one to talk to , because I knew they wouldn’t understand. Later on I discovered, it’s something deep within I have to fix . I had to revisit my past and see the reason why I was doing what I was doing. I was seeking love in the wrong places and people. That’s one of the biggest mistakes I can say I have made in my life. Through it all I still never lost faith or hope in myself. I used to always say it was weird for people to talk to themselves. Now I do it all the time , I have a friend in me and I love it !
How did you build your audience on social media?
I’m still In the works of building my social audience, It takes time . Drive and consistency is what you have to have when working with social media. They are going to be trolls, haters , no believer. That should push you to prove that you are strong and reach your goal. There will always be someone who doesn’t like you. But the question is will you let that stop you . There are millions of people in this world, a few haters won’t hurt anything. Are they benefiting you in anyway? No! You know your doing something right when you have somebody talking about you. Stay true to yourself, you owe it to yourself if anything.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: Jaysingzz__
- Facebook: Jaysingzz Fleming
- Youtube: Jaysingzz