We recently connected with James & Lanae Nelson and have shared our conversation below.
James & Lanae, thanks for joining us, excited to have you contributing your stories and insights. Let’s kick things off with your mission – what is it and what’s the story behind why it’s your mission?
Realizing the transformative impact these conversations had on our relationship, we felt compelled to share our experience with others. We believed that amidst the turmoil of the world, there was an opportunity for couples to strengthen their bonds by engaging in similar dialogues of love and truth. Thus, the idea for “Balcony Talk with The Nelsons – Love & Truth Podcast” was born.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
Beyond the podcast, she brings light to those around her. Many seek her out for leadership, seeking her wise counsel, and looking to her as a shining example of a woman who courageously walks in her truth. She encourages others to be empowered to embrace vulnerability, communicate openly, and cultivate deeper personal connections.
She’s also a mentor, confidante, and advocate for love and truth in all its forms. Through her unwavering authenticity and compassion, she continues to touch the hearts of those who have the privilege of listening to her words of wisdom on “Balcony Talk w/ the Nelson’s – Love & Truth Podcast.”
Also, I have a profound understanding of the intricacies of relationships, having walked through the highs and lows of love, marriage, and family dynamics. As the co-host of “Balcony Talk w/ the Nelson’s – Love & Truth Podcast,” I offer and bring a wealth of personal experience and wisdom to the table, drawing from my own journey of growth and self-discovery.
Throughout my life, I have encountered my fair share of challenges, particularly in the realm of communication within relationships. From my own missteps and failures, I have gleaned invaluable lessons, recognizing the pivotal importance of effective communication, openness, vulnerability, and transparency in fostering healthy connections.
Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?
One of lessons we had to unlearn was staying in a situation too long to make everyone else happy. Walking in your truth in relationships is paramount for your own well-being and the health of the relationship itself. Below are some of the key lessons learned on the significance of being open and honest about your feelings, preferences, and knowing when it’s time to end a relationship:
1) Authenticity Breeds Trust: When you’re open and honest about how you feel, what you like, and what you don’t, you build a foundation of trust with your partner. Authenticity fosters genuine connections because it allows both parties to know each other on a deeper level.
2) Healthy Communication: Expressing your feelings openly promotes healthy communication in a relationship. It creates an environment where both partners feel safe to share their thoughts and emotions without fear of judgment or rejection. Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts and strengthening the bond between you and your partner.
3) Respect for Yourself and Others: Walking in your truth means honoring your own needs and boundaries while also respecting those of your partner. By being honest about your likes and dislikes, you demonstrate self-respect and encourage your partner to do the same. Respecting each other’s individuality is essential for maintaining a balanced and fulfilling relationship.
4) Avoiding Resentment: Bottling up your feelings or pretending to be someone you’re not can lead to resentment and frustration over time. When you’re honest about how you feel, you prevent negative emotions from building up and causing unnecessary conflict. Addressing issues as they arise allows you to find constructive solutions and move forward together.
5) Knowing When to Let Go: Despite your best efforts, not all relationships are meant to last forever. Walking in your truth also means recognizing when a relationship no longer serves your mutual growth and happiness. It takes courage to acknowledge when it’s time to let go, but prioritizing your well-being and authenticity ultimately leads to greater fulfillment in the long run.
In essence, walking in your truth in relationships is about being true to yourself while also being considerate and respectful of your partner. It’s about fostering open communication, setting healthy boundaries, and knowing when it’s time to move on for the sake of your own happiness and growth.
Can you tell us the story behind how you met your business partner?
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