We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Isabelle Kirsch a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Isabelle, thanks for joining us today. What is a defining moment that impacted you in your life and career?

One of the most powerful moments in my career as a sexologist happened many years ago when I was refining a program I created to help women reconnect with their sexual desire.

It was during a session with a client who felt completely disconnected from her desire. She loved her partner, but intimacy had become something she avoided. “I just don’t feel anything anymore,” she told me. “Maybe I’m just not a sexual person and that’s just how it is now.” She was really coming to see me as a last resort and without much hope.

As a sexologist, I knew that sexual desire isn’t something we either have or don’t—it’s influenced by stress, emotions, past experiences, and the way we relate to our bodies. But hearing the hopelessness in her voice reminded me why so many people struggle in silence. They assume that when they don’t have that spontaneous sexual urge anymore (often after the honeymoon phase!), something is wrong with them, that their desire is gone forever.

Through our work together, exploring the mental and emotional blocks that had built up over time, something shifted. One day, after less than six sessions together, she returned and said, “I felt something. For the first time in years, I was aroused – I actually wanted to touch and be touched.” That moment solidified why I do what I do and confirmed that my approach to reigniting desire worked.

Desire can be cultivated, reignited, and redefined at any stage of life. That’s the foundation of my practice The Trusted Journey—helping people move beyond shame, performance anxiety, mismatched libidos, and limiting beliefs about intimacy. My role is to be a guide, offering not just understanding but real, actionable tools to help people reconnect with themselves and their relationships.

Seeing someone go from feeling numb and disconnected to rediscovering pleasure is what fuels my passion every day. That breakthrough moment was not just transformative for her—it was deeply rewarding for me as well. A year later, she reached out to share that she and her partner had found a level of intimacy and fulfillment they had never experienced before, and more importantly, they had learned how to sustain it. Knowing that our work together created lasting change is exactly why I do what I do.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

I’m Isabelle Kirsch, a Sexologist who integrates Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy, and mind-body techniques to help individuals and couples navigate intimacy, desire, and connection. I was drawn to this work after seeing how many people feel stuck in their sex lives, even when everything else in their lives seems to be going well. Despite thriving in their careers, relationships, and personal growth, they often feel disconnected from their bodies, ashamed of their desires, or overwhelmed by intimacy struggles. These challenges can overshadow the joy in other areas of life, making it hard to fully experience confidence and fulfillment.

I created The Trusted Journey as a safe, supportive space where people can explore their desires, heal from past experiences, and rediscover pleasure in a way that feels natural and empowering. My approach is about removing shame, rebuilding confidence, and helping people reconnect with themselves and their partners in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling.

Many of my clients come to me feeling frustrated, lost, or questioning what’s wrong with them. Some struggle with low desire and feel guilty about not wanting sex as much as they think they should. Others deal with performance anxiety, making intimacy feel more like a test than something enjoyable. Some have fears around intimacy, feeling emotionally or physically blocked from letting someone in. Others experience difficulty reaching orgasm and believe pleasure is out of reach. These struggles can feel isolating, but the truth is—they are incredibly common, and they don’t have to define your relationship with intimacy.

Why The Trusted Journey?
I chose this name because sexuality and intimacy are lifelong explorations—and trust is at the heart of that process. Trust in yourself, in your body, in your desires, and in the possibility of change. Many of my clients come to me feeling disconnected, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward, and my mission is to help them rebuild that trust, both within themselves and in their relationships.

What I Offer & The Problems I Solve

I work with women, couples, and men who feel stuck in their sex lives, whether it’s due to performance anxiety, mismatched libidos, past experiences, or struggles with self-confidence and intimacy. I offer 1:1 sessions, online courses, workshops, and hypnotherapy, designed to help clients break through barriers and build a more fulfilling relationship with their sexuality.

We always say that our biggest sex organ is the brain and the thoughts we create around it. But it’s also deeply connected to how we experience our bodies. What sets my approach apart is that it’s not just about talking—it’s about providing my clients tools to create real, lasting change. My sessions are solution-focused, meaning clients leave with exercises, strategies, intimacy-building activities, and mindset shifts that they can start implementing right away.
My role is to be their guide, helping them understand the root cause of the problem and their barriers, shift their beliefs, reconnect mind and body and take actionable steps toward confidence and connection.

I want all my client learn to reconnect with sensation, and cultivate a deeper sense of pleasure.

What I’m Most Proud Of
I’m incredibly proud of the transformations my clients experience. Seeing them go from feeling disconnected, frustrated, or ashamed to feeling confident, at ease, and fully present in their intimate lives is deeply rewarding. Whether it’s a woman rediscovering her desire, a man overcoming performance anxiety, or a couple reigniting their connection, these breakthroughs remind me why I do this work.

I’m also proud of the safe and supportive space I’ve created through The Trusted Journey—a place where people can explore their desires, work through challenges, and redefine intimacy on their own terms. Watching my clients heal, grow, and step into a more fulfilling relationship with themselves and their partners is what drives me every day.

What I Want You to Know

Sexuality isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom—it’s about how you see yourself, how you communicate, and how you allow yourself to experience pleasure. If you’re struggling with desire, confidence, or intimacy, you are not broken. You just need the right tools and guidance.

It’s all about rewriting your story around intimacy, reconnect with your body, and experience deeper, more fulfilling relationships. No matter where you are in your journey, change is possible—and I’m here to help you get there.

Do you think you’d choose a different profession or specialty if you were starting now?

Absolutely—though technically, I already did!

I started in sexology, drawn to the psychology of intimacy and human connection. But somewhere along the way, I took a slight detour—into law school. Maybe I wanted a new challenge, maybe I thought a more structured path would be the right move. Either way, I found myself deep in legal texts, tackling humanitarian law. But no matter how fascinating it was, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was missing.

I realized that what truly drives me isn’t just understanding human behavior—it’s helping people navigate their most intimate, vulnerable challenges. So, I came full circle, returning to sexology, but this time with an even deeper appreciation for how complex and layered relationships, desire, and connection really are.

So yes, I’d choose this path again—though next time, I might save myself the extra law degree and just trust that my first instinct was right all along!

Putting training and knowledge aside, what else do you think really matters in terms of succeeding in your field?

Other than training and knowledge, deep empathy, non-judgment, and the ability to create a safe space are essential for succeeding in my field. People come to me feeling vulnerable—whether they’re struggling with desire, performance anxiety, or intimacy challenges, they often carry shame, fear, or frustration. If they don’t feel truly heard and understood, no amount of expertise will help them open up.

Another crucial skill is adaptability. Every client is different—what works for one person won’t necessarily work for another. Some need science-backed education, others need mindset shifts, while some need hands-on exercises to reconnect with their body. Being able to read between the lines, adjust my approach, and meet people where they are is key to guiding them toward real change.

And finally—a sense of humor helps! Talking about sex, intimacy, and vulnerability doesn’t have to feel heavy or clinical. A little lightness, warmth, and reassurance can make all the difference in helping people feel at ease, which is often the first step toward transformation.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.thetrustedjourney.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trustedjourney
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachisabellekirsch
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/isabellekirsch