We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Holly Gainsboro. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Holly below.
Holly, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. Let’s start with the story of your mission. What should we know?
We are all grievers, grieving something. I remember feeling lost after the death of my late husband, Steven, 13 years ago. While I was blessed to have friends who were supportive, there were others who gave advice and platitudes that felt very isolating. I knew that I wanted to be that person others could turn to during their most painful moments, and know that I would see them – truly see them. It was equally important to me to educate people about grief, and recognize their own grief stories so that they, too, can hold space for the grievers in their lives, workplaces, etc., as well as for themselves.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?
In February of 2009, my husband Steven was diagnosed with glioblastoma, an incurable brain tumor. I tell people that my grief began that day — known in the grief world as “anticipatory grief.” He was a truly amazing man and when his life ended 22 months later on December 11, 2010, my heart was shattered. Following his death I chose to honor him, and our journey, by living my life fully, passionately, purposefully, and lovingly. I realized that part of my purpose (my soul’s purpose) was pulling me to be present for others who were also grieving the death of a loved one. Three years later, I started my formal training by becoming a certified Grief Recovery Specialist, followed by additional certifications as a Grief Educator with world renowned grief expert, David Kessler, and a Grief Support Specialist through University of Wisconsin, Madison. I continue to learn regularly by attending webinars, classes, and workshops.
What’s been the best source of new clients for you?
Most of my clients are through referrals from past clients, friends, participants in grief support groups or my grief education workshops.
How about pivoting – can you share the story of a time you’ve had to pivot?
When the pandemic hit, I could no longer see clients in person or hold workshops in person. I needed to learn and get comfortable holding virtual sessions and programs. Making that shift has been a blessing because my reach goes so much further than my geographical location. I lead workshops and support groups with participants from all over the world, as well as my work with clients which is not something I would have considered possible before the pandemic.
Contact Info:
- Website: goldenheartgrief.com
- Instagram: @goldenheartgriefsupport
- Facebook: Golden Heart Grief Support & Education
- Linkedin: Holly Gainsboro
- Others: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/creating-space-for-grief-hope/id1642783207