We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Deedra Spencer. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Deedra below.

Hi Deedra, thanks for joining us today. Let’s kick things off with your mission – what is it and what’s the story behind why it’s your mission?

Hello good morning everyone… The mission driven purpose of my company would be focused around overcoming narcissistic abuse & recognizing the power within one’s self to overcome the challenges & adversities you face in your life because ultimately at the end of each & every one’s journey in life you want to make a impact for yourself your name & anyone coming after you…A lot of us as humans have lost our way as a individual & succumbed to the normal ways of living internally feeling down on ourselves so we have no goals no mission no drive which also shows our kids not to have no goals dreams mission or drive….As humans a lot of us have grew a crowd of supports based off of the material things we have in life so we make risky choices & decisions for material possessions to show the people hey look at me but when you return home or to your basic environment of living your internal self is dying in the inside which can cause some people to switch energy & be this cold malicious person inside but people wouldn’t know till they get close because of all the money & status you have…which leads back to narcissistic abuse a lot of us have been through growing up in families with outdated values & no sense of self worth so that energy is submerged into your subconscious with you unknowingly having no soul purpose but people think you do by your material possessions at the end of the day I blame no one because it’s all due to the family line of conditioning & training but my mission is to inspire the people to believe again that they are somebody & you have the power to change the narrative in 2023 & become exactly who you want to be chase that dream chase that goal inspire the world tell your story but the main principle of all it takes you believing in self healing old wounds & knowing the day you came into this world you are somebody the choice is ultimately yours no one else’s!

Deedra, before we move on to more of these sorts of questions, can you take some time to bring our readers up to speed on you and what you do?

My name is Deedra Spencer I am 35 yrs old & I basically got into the content creator industry after I came home from doing 3 years in prison which would be the beginning of 2020 but I didn’t actually go full time with my content until 2021 I actually started to look around me & notice a lot of people were internally struggling within themselves me included no emotional intelligence skills the lack of self worth & the need for love at such a high rate we were damaging ourselves to obtain it being in situations that no longer served us because of our lack of self worth & feeling capable along to accomplish things we wanted for ourselves the main one being in unhealthy relationships just to find that sense of love & peace within ourselves. Constant discipline because I couldn’t wake up & not see what I was seeing so it really pushed me to change my ways bad habits harming my health & mind & also encouraging others to do the same while also putting that same content out to my YouTube page to get the information more out the public a lot of us don’t want to feel a lack of self worth if you already feel that so watching my content helps behind closed doors as well so not giving up & keep pushing the content takes a lot of discipline while also still living daily life. I provide a service of self service to each & every human being of believing in the power of god & yourself that would be my main service because a lot of us have lost our way due to constant verbal abuse or just not feeling worthy so a lot of us lost ambition & the power to create because of our lack of self worth so letting the people know they are worthy & capable of so much more then maybe your environment or how you grew up. I am not problem solver but I can give you the tools you can use to help you heal the things that made you feel like you don’t have a purpose because every single person in life has a purpose for themselves but a lot of us grew up not getting our soul fulfilled so you lost sight of your purpose & the pain is buried so deep it comes out in ways that people ignore because the pain hurts too much let’s change that. What I think sets me apart is the fact that I am not perfect I have faced a ton of obstacles in life low self worth addictions & also prison but I overcame those obstacles & continuously pushed forward with the love inside my heart to show others they can do the same a lot of people the pain so deep they turn into people that subconsciously hurt others because someone or something hurt them the way is to show others no matter what yes my story hurt me but I grew from it and maybe I can help another person grow from theirs as well let’s help each other to form peace in the world you are not the only one with a story I promise. I am most proud of the chance to influence my daughter to become the best person she can be & chase her dreams be creative because I am just your mom here to protect you from the outside world but encourage you as I heal myself I heal you to & we both can become peace creative people no matter any of the obstacles we came across in life the kids are the future feed their soul by healing yours. The main thing I want the people to know is please go check out my content on my YouTube page each one teach one I know you have some type of project skill or dream that can change the world just have to believe in god yourself & don’t give up no matter what people will judge you no matter what but ultimately it’s up to you and the dream you want to chase keep going after it no matter what anyone says & god will see you through have integrity principles & morals on top of that project you won’t fail.

Let’s talk about resilience next – do you have a story you can share with us?

One story in particular would be me being sentenced to 3 years in state prison in 2017 first time ever doing any length of time that long I was already living in a prison in my mind way before I got there so I had lost a lot of things in my life the main one not having custody of my daughter that really broke my heart because for a lot of people having a child as a mother helps look at things like never before so being the fact I had to this mandatory time away from her at first I couldn’t deal but honestly now I look at it as the best thing that has happened to me because I got a chance to focus on my self worth so anyway once I was released in 2020 I turned my whole life around for myself but as well as for her she needed her mom period. It took me a little time but I got off parole no violations no dirty urine test I already had a job thanks to the prison release programs already had money saved & just continued to push threw the first year then the next year I got my own apartment got full custody back of my daughter my own car got a better paying job as a felon so don’t discredit yourself because of being a felon & just continued to excel no matter what anyone said about my past my intention was to have my daughter with me while not letting anyone hold my past against me people make mistakes I am not perfect of trying to be but I learned fro it & got it right you can to.

What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?

A lesson I had to unlearn and relearn from my grandmother is history will always repeat itself & put you through lessons until you learn from the lesson if you continue to go through the same thing without learning the lesson god will continue to put you through that same thing until you ultimately learn the lesson you need to learn otherwise you will keep getting certain karma from those experiences once you learn what you need to learn from it you will grow & move on to the next steps in life the choice is yours it will hurt a little but ignoring the lesson hurts more.

Contact Info:

• Instagram: I’m on Instagram as avibeallsololifelong. Install the app to follow my photos and videos. https://www.instagram.com/invites/contact/?i=1bmkqose49h61&utm_content=cluavp5
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deedra.spencer?mibextid=LQQJ4d
• Twitter: https://x.com/suchahbossylady/status/1719434257880482016?s=46&t=G9NGFhk8Xk_3fnUSoYHQAg
• Youtube: https://youtube.com/@TellItLikeItIzLifeGame?si=s_aJF8n9ffBGyq5I