We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Daisy Montez a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Daisy, thanks for joining us today. Let’s kick things off with your mission – what is it and what’s the story behind why it’s your mission?
Growing up in an environment where discussions about female sexuality were either ignored, taboo, or ridiculed, I found myself navigating the complexities of adolescence mainly on my own. The lack of open dialogue and guidance left me feeling isolated, grappling with unanswered questions and a disconnect. With no one to turn to for answers or understanding, I embarked on a journey of self-education and exploration, piecing together information and insights wherever I could find them. As I navigated through adulthood, a realization dawned upon me – the portrayal of women’s lingerie and sexuality was predominantly through the lens of men. Lingerie was often depicted in a manner that accentuated objectification rather than empowerment of women, giving rise to deep-seated insecurities and shame within our societal fabric. The avenues for embracing our self-pleasure were also crafted and marketed in a way that perpetuated the objectification of women, lacking in spaces that felt truly safe and inclusive.
In response to this pressing need for a nurturing environment, I took it upon myself to host sex education gatherings in the comfort of my own home, inviting the women in my circle to join and extend the invitation to their friends. Together, we reveled in the simple joys of camaraderie, enveloped by the warmth of shared laughter and learning. In this secure haven, we felt free to explore, question, and grow without fear of judgment, fostering a space where genuine curiosity and self-discovery flourished.
Twenty years have passed since those initial gatherings that have transformed into what defines The Red Foxxx today. At The Red Foxxx, my mission lies in reshaping the perception of women’s sexuality. My mission extends far beyond business and sales. Our thoughtfully curated array of lingerie, sleepwear, and sexual wellness products establishes a sanctuary where empowerment, self-discovery, and beauty coalesce seamlessly. This space caters not only to women seeking to rekindle their sensuality but also to enthusiasts of life’s pleasures and beauty. Here, empowerment transcends mere words—it becomes a way of life.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
My name is Daisy, and I am the proud owner of The Red Foxxx, a distinguished lingerie boutique nestled in Woodstock, NY. Before stepping into the world of lingerie and sexual wellness, my journey began in Riverside, California. Despite marrying at a young age and pursuing a career in banking, I soon realized that I was leading a life based on societal conditioning rather than authenticity and courage. Determined to chart my own path, I made the bold decision to depart from my marriage and job, embarking on a quest to unearth my true aspirations. This journey led me to New York City. Here, I initiated my journey toward a career as a mental health therapist. However, a profound life-altering experience, marked by a serious illness and a near-death encounter, compelled me to reevaluate my professional trajectory. I was resolute in my desire to empower and support women, which ultimately culminated in the establishment of The Red Foxxx.
At The Red Foxxx, we offer a thoughtfully curated selection of lingerie, sleepwear, and sexual wellness products from independent female-owned brands and trusted industry leaders. Our products embody values such as environmental sustainability, size inclusivity, ethical practices, and exquisite craftsmanship.
In addition to our exquisite product range, we provide personalized bra fittings, appointment-only shopping, and tailored consultations for beginners navigating the world of lingerie and/or sexual wellness. We believe in offering a warm and supportive experience that caters to the unique needs of every individual.
What truly distinguishes The Red Foxxx is our unwavering commitment to creating a holistic and supportive experience for each customer. We prioritize building genuine connections, fostering open dialogue, and providing expert guidance to instill confidence in every decision made.
Furthermore, we collaborate with esteemed female health professionals to bring their expertise to The Red Foxxx, ensuring that our customers receive comprehensive education on selecting and using sexual wellness products effectively. We firmly believe that sexual health is just as vital as other aspects of well-being and strive to promote knowledge and empowerment in this important area.
I take great pride in the positive impact that The Red Foxxx has had on the lives of women who have discovered strength, confidence, and empowerment through their experiences with us. The heartwarming feedback we receive from our valued customers is a testament to the meaningful connections we have forged.
Looking ahead, my vision for The Red Foxxx is to expand our reach and create more opportunities for women to embrace their sensuality, celebrate their individuality, and feel empowered in their own skin. By upholding our values of inclusivity, empowerment, and authenticity, we aspire to be a beacon of positivity and self-love in the realm of lingerie and sexual wellness.
Can you tell us about a time you’ve had to pivot?
During the pursuit of my advanced degree in mental health therapy, I faced a considerable health challenge that prompted a reassessment of my career trajectory. Despite the uncertainties and obstacles I confronted, my resolve to positively impact others persisted, leading me to seek alternative avenues through which to empower individuals in a manner that was less mentally and physically demanding.
As I navigated this pivotal moment, I discovered transformative practices like the 4 body fit method and JourneyDance, which helped me reconnect with a part of myself that I had suppressed. These experiences inspired me to explore new avenues of empowerment. However, COVID-19 had different plans as it shut the world down. I was faced with another pivotal moment that led to the creation of The Red Foxxx, an online platform and community offering empowering content and products for women.
As the world gradually reopened, I pivoted my aspirations, took a leap of faith, and expanded into a physical boutique despite my lack of retail experience. This pivot allowed me to provide a judgment-free space where women can explore, learn, and feel empowered in a comfortable and welcoming environment.
These experiences taught me the importance of adapting to challenges and seizing opportunities, even in unfamiliar territories. The modalities I encountered were not magical cures but meaningful experiences that reshaped my perspective and guided me toward a new path of empowerment and fulfillment.
We’d love to hear a story of resilience from your journey.
I believe my resilience shines through adapting to challenges, learning, and growing from each experience.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://ShopTheRedFoxxx.com
- Instagram: @shoptheredfox
Image Credits
Professional boudoir shoot by Dominique Lucia Photography