We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Carol Grant. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Carol below.
Carol , thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today Was there a moment in your career that meaningfully altered your trajectory? If so, we’d love to hear the backstory.
For the most considerable part of my life, I was heavily reliant on others’ approval. As a young girl, I was constantly consumed by the notion that nothing I did was good enough. This mindset, unfortunately, led me on a path where I married someone who further diminished my self-esteem to an almost non-existent point.
However, a significant turning point in my life was a moment of epiphany where I realized that nobody could control me. The world suddenly seemed to be filled with endless possibilities. It was as if I had been granted a new lease of life, a life where I could genuinely LIVE. I decided to step up, drop the rope, and start living for myself.
This decision transformed me into a confident, happy, and independent woman and redefined my perspective towards my children. Being a single mother to three wonderful boys – Jackson, Jesse, and Jameson, I am now not merely driven by them, but also enlightened by the fact that they are unique individuals. I am determined to honor their individuality and guide them to grow into kind gentlemen.
Sharing this part of my journey is an attempt to reach out to those who might be going through similar experiences. It’s a reminder that you are your person and have the power to transform your life. Remember, the world can indeed be your oyster if you choose to seize it.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
I currently serve as the Director of Association Partnerships at Aurora Payments, a credit card processing company. Over the years, my role has granted me numerous opportunities to travel, meet amazing people, and immerse myself in a rapidly evolving industry. The challenges and endless possibilities this role provides are truly invigorating.
However, as much as I cherish my work, my greatest source of motivation comes from being a mother. My children have always been my driving force, inspiring me to strive for more, not only for myself but also for them.
Aside from my professional life and motherhood, I am passionately committed to nutrition and fitness. I believe in the importance of self-care, not just for the physical benefits but also for the confidence and well-being it fosters. For me, fitness isn’t merely about looking good, it’s about setting myself apart, maintaining discipline, and promoting a lifestyle that I truly respect.
Having studied holistic nutrition since a young age, I understand the value of balance in all facets of life.
As I embark on my own journey, I am excited about the opportunities that lie ahead and the chance to continue growing both personally and professionally. I look forward to remaining in the state I love while exploring a new city that offers fresh experiences and challenges.
Another thing that I find worth celebrating is my ability to create healthy boundaries. It’s an important aspect of self-care that I have learned over time. I am proud that I can now distance myself from situations or individuals that don’t contribute positively to my life. It’s not always an easy choice to make, but it’s a crucial one for maintaining my well-being.
Lastly, I cherish the kindness that resides in my heart. It may sound unconventional to some, but it’s an integral part of who I am. I strive to be kind-hearted and loving, believing that kindness is a strength, not a weakness. It’s an attribute I am proud of and aim to cultivate further.
If you could go back, would you choose the same profession, specialty, etc.?
In my envisioned world, I would have had a facility where individuals, both women and men, could come for rejuvenation. Not only would I administer aesthetic treatments and procedures, but I would also provide guidance on proper diet and nutrition. It would be important for me to offer a comprehensive approach to health and wellness, addressing both external and internal aspects of well-being.
Despite this path not being the one I ultimately took; I still find myself daydreaming about it from time to time. I can’t help but wonder if such a place exists today where aesthetic nursing, diet guidance, and mental health support are all combined under one roof. If it does, I believe it would provide a fantastic service.
Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?
Recently, I’ve been doing a lot of introspection about the relationships in my life, particularly within my family. I’ve always believed in the importance of family bonds, respect, and enduring love, irrespective of any differences. However, I’ve come to realize that this philosophy may have led me to accept certain behaviors that aren’t conducive to my mental and emotional well-being.
Although it is hard for me to admit, I have experienced unkindness and judgment from some family members, including instances where my aspirations and identity were not respected. These experiences have left me feeling unsupported and even diminished. I have always tried to accommodate the desires of others, often at the expense of my own happiness and personal growth.
However, I have consciously decided to unlearn this habit. I now strongly believe that love, respect, and support should be the foundation of any relationship, including familial ones. This doesn’t imply that I am shutting anyone out, rather I am setting boundaries to protect my self-worth and mental well-being.
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