We were lucky to catch up with Anastacia C.C. Davis Gilmore recently and have shared our conversation below.
Anastacia C.C. Davis, thanks for joining us, excited to have you contributing your stories and insights. Do you think your parents have had a meaningful impact on you and your journey?
My grandfather, Hilrie Kemp Jr. (my mother’s father) was an artist. He was an avid drawer. One day, his mother told him, “A Black man can’t make no money off of drawing, you need to get a real job.” My nana wasn’t trying to break my grandfather’s spirit, or even change who he was. She just wanted him to survive. My grandfather heeded her not-so-subtle advice and led a stable, “professional” life. He joined the military and managed to care for his young wife and their three children. One of those kids was my mother. I’ve been told my grandfather was only able to scratch his artistic itch by drawing illustrations on my grandmother’s bulletin boards during her tenure as an educator. Grandfather Hilrie was a pillar in the Tampa, Florida community and I would argue he lived a full life before passing away in 2021. My mother, father, sister, and I are artists in our respective fields. My sister, however, draws like my grandfather. Grandaddy told my mother not to repress me or my sister’s artistry. He recounted the dreary day our nana told him he couldn’t make a living with his craft. With one conversation, Grandaddy planted a seed in my mother that changed the entire trajectory of our lives.
My parents fostered a world where limits didn’t exist and cultivated a community where art could occur. They worked “traditional jobs”. My Father was a unionized construction worker in Chicago and my mother was a parole officer for the State of Illinois. Despite their demanding schedules, our parents carved out time, took out loans, and put us through multiple programs and experiences. We went through John Robert Powers Chicago (a performing arts academy), joined and performed with Books Brushes and Bands, sang in the church choir at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church, and acted in plays at Family Christian Center. My parents raised money so I could see the world. The summer before 8th grade, I traveled to Italy, France, and Greece with People to People Student Ambassadors through the Eisenhower Foundation. When I finally reached 8th grade, my dad sold candy apples to ensure I performed with my school choir at Disney World that Fall. The first indie film I acted in was alongside my mother, Rejected Seed. My father brought me with him to set for other indie projects. I was able to attend my first movie premiere in High School. One of my dad’s friends wrote and directed an LGBTQ film and Chicago showed up and showed out to support this independent filmmaker.
I was drenched in a sea of creativity guided and supported by my parents. They preached passion and purpose. They showed me and my sister the art of security and stability through the lives they led. I knew the arts were going to be an integral part of my life, but I had no idea how I would make a living pursuing them. Although there was no blueprint as to how I could make a living off my creativity, I’ve always had two parents willing and ready to venture into the great unknown with me and my sister. That support system, mentally, emotionally, and many times financially has been one of my greatest blessings in this life thus far. Our methods and moves may look crazy to those on the outside looking in, but I had a family in both the audience and wings and clapping, and screaming, bravaaaaaa.

Anastacia C.C. Davis, love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?
I am the daughter of two artists. My parents led careers featuring “normal jobs”. Nevertheless, performing arts permeated every facet of our lives. My mother is a writer, singer, poet, and walking billboard for fashion. My father is a builder, designer, inventor, music enthusiast, and an excellent chef. Both of my parents have a distinct knack for capturing the moment. My mother’s candid photos have served as a visual background for tens of obituaries. She’s often considered to be“the only one with a photo of…”. My father on the other hand left my pregnant mother at the hospital alone in labor. He soon returned with a video camera strapped to his hand. I often joke that I had no choice in being a filmmaker – I’ve been exposed to the camera since birth.
I am a director, writer, photographer, and content creator. I often use the terms artist or storyteller to describe myself. I cross-pollinate my love of the arts across multiple disciplines and industries. I’ve worked for Live Nation Chicago as a production runner, the NFL, Amazon Studios, AMC, Warner Bros, Refinery 29, HGTV, and more. I write & direct films, music videos, and experimental pieces. As a content creator, I share my likes, lifestyle, and a behind-the-scenes look into my profession. I have been able to create content for brands, influencers, and companies I love including Coca-Cola, Nest Fragrances NY, The Broad Museum, Khoi, and Lacie Tech. As a multi-hyphenate creative, my goal within the realm of storytelling never wavers. I am a self-declared beauty extractor. No matter how dark the storyline, how shy or insecure my client is, no matter the size of the brand I’m creating content for, I aim to draw out humanity. When I do that, the inevitable beauty within is revealed.
As a multi-hyphenate creative, my goal within the realm of storytelling never wavers. I am a self-declared beauty extractor. No matter how dark the storyline, how shy or insecure my client, no matter the size of the brand I’m creating content for, I aim to draw out humanity. When I do that, the inevitable beauty within is revealed.
I am most proud of the opportunities I’ve had to amplify the voices of people of color. In 2020 during the year of pandemic and protest, I hosted a virtual Zoom event with Hilary Swank, Erin Gruwell, Richard LaGravenese, and the cast of the critically acclaimed 2007 film Freedom Writers. Politicians, student leaders, and over 200 viewers were online as we spoke about the Black Lives Matter movement and ways to be anti-racist. We discussed how life imitates art and how films can act as a form of bibliotherapy during the darkest of times.
On July 25, 2020, I joined hundreds of thousands of people who were prompted to film their lives in a day. In 2021 my footage premiered at Sundance as one of 325,000 entries hand-selected from 192 countries featured in Youtube & Ridley Scott’s time-encapsulating documentary, Life in A Day (2021). Millions of people from around the world saw me perform a Black cultural ritual – use a toothbrush to “lay my edges” (style my baby hair).
In 2021 I had the honor of representing my beloved alma mater, Alabama State University as the winner of the inaugural TBS #HBCUCashOutChallenge. I wrote and directed the piece, “Ode to Mother Dear – An Open Love Letter To My HBCU”. My one-minute short film won the grand prize of $25,000.
Afterward, I co-wrote and directed a short film trailer entitled Best For Last with my friends from undergrad and grad school. We represented our communities, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Alabama State University, and Full Sail University as first-place winners in the Netflix & Adobe The Great Untold competition.
In October 2022, I was able to campaign online with TBS and More From US for the second year of their #HBCUCashOutChallenge. I spent most of 2023 traveling the world, working for Live Nation Chicago, and photographing weddings & events. I also worked on commercials, documentaries, and indie projects during the writers & actors strike.
Fast forward a year later to October 2023, I was able to marry the love of my life in Lucca, Italy at the historic Villa Grababu. I worked with my planner Gina Rodriguez and her entire My Tuscan Wedding team. I believe it’s safe to say our wedding was a movie and it was my greatest directorial work to date!

What do you think is the goal or mission that drives your creative journey?
The following question is answered by my mother, author Valrie Kemp-Davis.
I purchased a small canvas bag for my youngest daughter at a prestigious black-owned bookstore in Chicago on Juneteenth 2021. The makeup-sized bag read in black ink with probably an Arial font the following, Art Should Disturb the Comfortable and Comfort the Disturbed. I knew I would be gifting it to my baby daughter for her skillful eyes commanded her hands to paint thought-provoking mini-stories on white blank canvases that moved mountains, mocked minions, and called out to the miniature and the mighty to arise. I hoped she would stuff a few sketching pencils, small paint brushes, and as many small plastic bottles of various colored acrylic and oil paints in it. I envision she would whip it out of her purse if the spirit hit her and she just had to create and create now! It would be like a life-response emergency kit. I hoped that if my vision was ever fulfilled, she’d always smile and think of me. I’d promised my dad, a closeted artist that I’d always encourage her dream. His mother who birthed a manchild in 1938 could not see where his aspirations to create in this manner would lead him to the promiseland. “Always support her in her drawing and painting!” my daddy said to me when I was once a young mother. I have been vigilant to keep my promise. I have birthed two content creators of the female kind who excel with the verse, stories landscaped in broad strokes on life’s canvases, finely nuanced through interchangeable lenses, lyrics, and lights. They are content creators with extremely unique and different approaches to the arts. It’s in their lineage but these two WILL go the distance. They are bold risk-takers, persistent, have a penchant for obscure and obtuse angles, and are unbothered by other’s conventional roadmaps and techniques. They are firestarters who have integrity and great character. And so honor and success will continue to be their portion and it can not be any other way. Yes, everything was intentional that Juneteenth day from where I celebrated with my family to what section of town we parlayed in, where our black dollars were spent, how they were spent, and for whom! Black books empower our community. A bookstore filled with black art, black rich thoughts, and influencers emboldens it! It was Juneteenth and we were hanging out on the Southside of Chicago not too far from the International Headquarters of my great sorority; Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. near Stony Island Avenue. My oldest daughter, an amazing aspiring filmmaker, propelled our family into a legacy of three generations of AKAs. My mom kicked it off, pledging in December 1959 at Knoxville College, an HBCU. This was a big feat and it didn’t escape me that though I was only a few blocks from my Sorority’s headquarters in this black-owned bookstore. I was quite cognizant of sacrifices made for ME to be in the place of The Great Migration with my melanted family. I was grateful to be living a successful life, pursuing Afrocentric merchandise and fingering through pages of great novelists and thought artists. My momma had put a lot of distance between patterns of poverty, and cycles of pain by being disciplined, educated, and ruminating on her own personal family history to keep her focused in order to obtain the prize. Her day-to-day choices from becoming a serious student who earned an academic scholarship, choosing the right mate, excelling in her profession of 40 years as an English and Spanish teacher, Chairperson of her English Department, earning a Masters degree in Administration and Supervision, being a stellar Christian Educator, while advocating for others through Community service and servant leadership. She evolved into a fine society woman who honed her skills as one the greatest, most clever, and engaging storytellers I know. That is Art…The Art of War! Words through poetry, essays, fiction, and facts burrowed between leather-bound and paperback books saved her life. WORDS became flesh and dwelled within her. What poured out of her was pressed organic oil and the overflow would be a healing salve for any who dare to glean from her concoctions and apply it to their wounds for the salvation of themselves.
Her way of dialoguing was compelling, amusing, and could be deep depending upon whatever atmosphere she was creating and the visual scene she was drawing you into. She was quite engaging. And yet she never wrote her story, not one chapter. She felt inept to do so requesting for me to write her story until her death at age 78. Between exercising her boombastic oral skills, keen analysis and interpretation of her life coupled with a personal library of books that still stands stellarly in my parent’s home though both of them have gone on into glory. How could I not appreciate the art of noise, these notes in the key of life called words that played in your face with life’s crescendos and poco retardos? Mom kept me close. She made it her business that I felt the gravity and weight of her past in order to be inspired to keep moving forward. I too would run life’s race with patience powering through because of her words. Lest I forget, she ensured I’d never forget. I am her Djeli and it is incumbent upon me that the Art of Victory through her and my dad’s choices, strategy, and tenacity be set before the fruit of my womb. They know through precept and example greater paths are expected to be pursued. They too are mandated to bring love and light to the universe for the purposes of healing the world. My mom came from humble beginnings, picked cotton on her grandfather’s farm, shucked peanuts, and planted gladiolus bulbs in the dirt next to my great-grandmother and the longstanding mistress of my great-grandmother’s husband..one of her closest friends. This same “other woman” would bear “7 heads” for my great-grandfather. My great-grandmother only birthed 3. Momma needed out of the madness so she was a serious student who “got her lesson”, and survived a house of violence towards her beloved mother by a father she greatly adored who died when she was 13 years old and he was in his early 30s. He was a faithful consumer of the very illegal moonshine he distilled and sold in “ the sticks of Marianna ” as momma would call her hometown. It was a rural, agricultural town in Florida where she got her roots. Her dad was a complex man, smart.. and academically astute despite the fact he did not get far in school. Children had to work the land, and no time for education. School was an unaffordable luxury. Momma said, “he knew big words”. I suspect he would have preferred an education if he had it his way. Mom learned early that there is a devil in the best of us. This same man who called her affectionately called his only daughter ”black gal” though she was paper sack brown, drew shotguns on my grandmother in a drunken rage and would “put peachtree limbs” across my uncle Elijah’s back stone cold sober to make him go to school. My momma said,” Daddy believed in education.”
When my grandad died my uncle Elijah dropped out of school at age 15, put on all his daddy’s pimped-out zoot suits, and ran in and out of married or committed women’s beds that were around the same age as his widowed mother. Uncle Elijah was called Junior. He was light bright, tall for his age, had hazel eyes, and curly hair, and freely partook in women, liquor, and spirits like his daddy. They say Junior looked like my granddaddy Elijah, a man I’d never met and who was long gone by the time I came into the world. And like my grandaddy, Elijah was a stone alcoholic. He too would die young. And at the age of 34 or perhaps 36, someone had it out for him. His drink was poisoned at one of those country bars he frequented. As he lay casket sharp his once fine frame sported a scar that he would positively take to his grave. He garnered this battle scar on his neck for stepping on his uncle’s girlfriend to holla. My enraged MARRIED great-uncle knocked out one of his sister’s son’s teeth and carved a permanent scar on his neck. When recounting this story My mother would shake her head and say with a sigh, “ It’s a wonder if someone didn’t get killed back then!” This particular story about my uncle and great uncle’s altercation always seemed to greatly disturb Mom and make her uncomfortable. Though not surprised by it, she remained disturbed by man’s inhumanity to man even though she created and garnered through the art of war the spoils of a comfortable lifestyle.
Both my parents were creatives in their own rights as influencers. They influenced the world around them in deeds and by their wisdom. They sought to have me stoked in culture and enmeshed me in the arts via piano, violin, and saxophone lessons, through marching bands, choirs, dramas, and plays they encouraged me to write and orate. I was a Debutante. My parents believed in me. But like them, I chose a path of certainty…my other passions being law, my people, my cross, and ministry. Poignant and profound stories were confessed to me while working as a counselor in the prison industrial complex. I collected these stories like orphans looking for new parents and a place to call home. I ran up and down the streets of Chicago as a senior parole agent going to and being exposed to live drama. I folded them all into the psyche of my collective unconsciousness. These were stories that were foreign to me but sometimes felt all too familiar, similar, sinister, sweet, and savory and held up 2 sided mirrors of those who survived or perished depending on the POV of the storyteller. Their nuances as human muse are the stuff that inspired the art and creativity of James Baldwin, James Brown, Jean Michele Basquiat, Jon Batiste, Matthew Henson and Zora Neal Hurston, Spike Lee, John Singleton, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Gordon Parks, Dr. Martin Luther King, Stevie Wonder, Ava Duevernay, James Weldon Johnson, Usain Bolt, Tupac, Viola Davis, Sidney Portier, Lorraine Hansberry, my mother, father, grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, siblings, our people to this world.
Motherhood inspired and motivated me to write stories of affirmations for my two brown girl children…Later, my art of war was to create clarity for the Children of the Diaspora. I realized I too must evolve beyond safety and safety nets. I chose vulnerability to give voice to my parent’s hopes and dreams, the orphaned stories told to me by the boxed-in and the voiceless. I’m humbled and privileged to be actualized through the sacredness of Art. Art and creativity is the modality of being and not just doing. God gave me two creative daughters and I decided a precept and example must begin with me. How can I tell them to believe in what yearns in them to be birthed if I believe art will starve them and that they labor in vain? To date, I have published 5 children’s books, created platforms centered around my brand, and secured a literary agent with my eldest daughter’s aid. I now work on projects with my children whether it be co-creating, consulting, or executive producing. And though both my parents are ancestors now, their indomitable spirits, stories, and art have been bequeathed to their two gifted granddaughters. How sacred is the circle of life and may this circle never be unbroken! They have negotiated well with God, The Uncreated Creator on how they are to express themselves as creatives and be conduits to bring stories to life for His glory. They should showcase man’s humanity of lack thereof as they raise awareness and incite solutions. For Art Should Disturb the Comfortable and Comfort the Disturbed. I recently saw the same canvas bag I’d gifted my youngest daughter as a Juneteenth present a few years earlier. I familiarized myself again with the aforementioned quote written on the side of it. It lay casually on the kitchen table. It was zipped up and its contents had it bulging at the seams. It had makeup stains on its exterior. Nosy and curious about the contents, I inquired about what was inside. She said it was makeup. I mused, thinking…Aww man, she”s reduced it to the obvious and mundane. This was not the artist’s emergency kit I hoped she would use it for. I so wanted to incite a smile that reminded her of mommy’s love every time she whipped out a brush. I reveled in creating great and memorable moments for those I love. I thought the way she chose to use her bag was common, nondescript, and every day, nothing magical or special. Then boom, it dawned on me. The revelation caused ME to smile. You see, in addition to drawing in sketchbooks and painting on canvases, my daughter is a masterful makeup artist and she also has a creative flair to turn her face into a canvas. She has gone from fine lines to broad strokes and fashioned the universe, gardens, bubbles and elaborate masks on her face mesmerizing her social media audiences and or folks in the street. Her boldness to parade in public in this fashion is ARTISTRY. Her bag must be used as she sees fit for it is a vessel for her interpretation of how as a creative she will create. The tools she uses to express her creativity or the vessel she stores it in is an individual choice. She must decide how best to serve others based on her calling and preference. This third-generation crescendo is the buildup and swelling from poco retardo by way of my parents’ creative choices. Their methodology, level of exposure, or audience reach were as important as what my daughters and I are bringing to the universe. There is a certainty in the fact that the farther you go the farther you have gone. Art tethers or releases. It is the individuality of our humanness or barbarism of the collective whole that must be seen. A great artist can create and recreate with tools and techniques that make the blind see, motivate the villain to embrace the light, inveigle the angel to give grace to the reprobate and make the straddlers choose a definitive side of the fence. My motivation to create is to birth art. I literally did it twice (my daughters) and they say lightning doesn’t strike twice in the same place. As a 3 cord rope, individually and collectively we disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed. And if done right, our expressive longevity will outlive us the creators who tell tall tales by any means necessary wielding our choice of weapon. And in kind, we bless the universe for centuries to come!

What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?
The following question is answered by my little sister, actress, and influencer Tatiana “Lee Londyn” Davis.
The lesson I had to unlearn is that every opportunity isn’t a good opportunity. The summer of 2020 the two ladies from my content group Pretty Puff Girls and I were invited by a mutual friend from college to go down to Alabama to meet an “investor”. The girls and I worked extremely hard to make our brand a content group. We ate, slept, and breathed content. We’ll call the mutual friend, “Wayne’”. Wayne called me one day and said that he had this opportunity that would change our lives. Before I could decide if this was something I wanted to do or not he had already called my content partner. She decided she was going to go. Being that we were a group all three of us left the very next day. Before arriving Wayne told us that the “investor” had a hook-up for us for our sleeping accommodations. He said he had a connection in the hotel circuit so he told us to go to the Motel 6. Motel 6 is notorious for sex work and sex trafficking. In the Midwest where we reside, Motel 6 has been giving its brand a facelift. We thought that was true all over the United States but in Montgomery, Alabama that is not so. When we arrived at the Motel 6 in Montgomery the place resembled a place where dreams came to die and nightmare juice was fueled. We walked up to the desk and there was no one to be found. We decided right then and there that we didn’t care about the hook-up or how cheap it seemed. This place felt dangerous. As we were leaving we observed a man screaming from the balcony. He appeared to be on drugs. He insisted that we give him a ride as he began to run down the stairs towards us. We immediately pulled off in fear with car wheels peeling loudly as we exited the property. We ended up getting a hotel instead. Though it was more expensive, we were safe. The next morning Wayne sent us an address on where to meet him. We were expecting to go to a location that possibly was an office building or even a production space. We pulled up to a daycare. Our immediate thought was that we were at the wrong location. We called Wayne to reiterate the address. He insisted this was the right location. He met us outside and escorted us inside the location. Out the gate, we were all thrown off the building. It looked as if one day everyone got up and just left everything as is. Wayne gave us a tour. The building had a plethora of deep freezers. They were all empty. It gave us an eerie feeling and reminded us of Kenneka Jenkins’s story. Kenneka Jenkins was a 19-year-old woman who died in a Chicago area hotel’s walk-in freezer after attending a party back in 2017. Those freezers gave us the heebie jeebies and made us most uncomfortable. It was as if their ominous presence was a warning to be on high alert. After the tour, we were introduced to all the other talent, who were here for the same “opportunity“. They had all kinds of girls and a few guys who were clearly talented but all appeared lost. They all had different but similar stories about how they were either escaping an abusive situation or were just looking for the next hot opportunity. The question now became, why had Wayne reached out to us? Through his eyes, how were we perceived? Did we look vulnerable, thirsty, overly fixated about “ making it!” After the introductions and the brief tour were completed, we honed in on the details of our surroundings. There was state-of-the-art equipment, instruments, and accessories everywhere. No expenses seemed spared for our entertainment or for us to hone our craft. There were portable Pac-Man games, high-tech cameras, and microphones. Instruments galore were in great abundance be it guitar or drums. There was even a stage. It was like a creative candy store. There was a peculiar man near the stage. It kept fiddling with the floor as if he were repairing it. He was doing more watching of the group than repairing. We girls begin to feel even more uneasy. Hours would pass going into the late afternoon before the man who allegedly could make our dreams come true would bother to greet us. This mysterious character presented himself to us as the Head Ninja in Charge. We will call him “Spade”. Spade was accompanied by this lady that we will call Miss Selena. Spade never introduced her. He moved presumptuously as if we should already know who he was. He began to tell us a tale of how he acquired his wealth. The story didn’t make much sense. He acquired his wealth at the age of 16 from bidding on a building of some sort yada yada yada. Something was just off!! While speaking about himself, he alternated between referring to himself in 1st and 3rd person. At times he would be the narrator as well. Miss Selena undermined everything he said. And for them to be business partners, it was evident that they were not on the same page. Miss Selena was slithering. She was the archetype of a snake or maybe of Eve herself. Her character seemed to love the taste of the forbidden fruit. Mind, you Spade, and Miss Salina were once married and were now “business partners”. Imagine a Black ex-married couple in their 60s in collaboration for dirt to prey on others. Spade had a devilish smile and Miss Selena had the mannerisms of a young fast girl. She would stick her tongue out and use her feminine wiles to make sexual gestures that weren’t appropriate for her age or for a woman of any change. We eventually transitioned into what I’ll call the meeting room, where Spade set us to sit in a circle and talked to us for hours. There were no bathroom breaks or food breaks. He just talked and talked and TALKED!! As he spoke, he periodically glanced over his shoulder. He continued to look out one of the few windows in the building. It was paranoid behavior. He would look out the window as if he was waiting for something or someone. It was highly unsettling. Outside of the window was a gated lawn that resembled a jail yard. Me and the girls jokingly talked amongst ourselves about creating and filming a jailbreak scene in the yard. As he spoke to us, he told us fantastical tales of his life. They seemed unbelievable. He didn’t care if people in the circle were falling asleep; he kept talking with no regard for social cues. It was as if he was trying to intentionally brainwash us. I’d nervously bump the girls from my content creator group to make sure they stayed up and didn’t fall asleep. I felt like everything Spade said was vital as clues for our survival. The incredulous deal that he presented to the entire group of everyone was that we could stay in this program. One would need to stay at the facility for three days and create. If we liked it we would discuss a future and what that looked like. If we weren’t creating, we were given strict instructions that we were not allowed to be on our phones. It was evident he was trying to limit our contact with “the free world”. Spade told us that we had to fund ourselves. The irony of this was he didn’t want us to work a job. He pompously stated, that when we ran out of money, he would take over and invest in us. He even offered to buy a house for all of us to live in. His diatribe included a promise to pay all the bills and provide all the food. The rub or catch-22 was that we had to run out of money first. If we had money, he would not help us. These syrupy and yet juxtaposed words were quite alarming. It sounded as if we were being baited into a financial trap for control and then he and Ms. Salina would go in for the kill. Spade was bad business. Though all the red flags were present, we decided to stay. The next day he wanted to have a talent display of some sort so everyone practiced their songs, oiled their fingers to play their instrument of choice and we performed. Everyone was extremely talented, but also extremely naïve. Out of all the young people there Pretty Puff Girls were the only ones with a solid counter-proposal. One of the ladies in my content creator group had just earned her degree in Entertainment Business. Ms. Selena slithered her way over to have one on one conversations with each of the girls in my content creator group. She attempted to sow seeds of discord by planting thoughts of individuality, and separateness and splitting up the group in our pretty little heads. She said to me “What if Spade needs to send you to the shoot(film) and have the other girls stay behind? You have to learn how to move separately. Don’t get so attached to the girls in your group for we might have to split you up.” I played along with her ideology of splitting up knowing full well I never planned on parting with the girls in my content creator group. I was just trying to play the game to stay under the radar on this second day. Spade took us into the back room individually and asked us what we wanted, what our dreams were, and how far we wanted to go. I said I want to act. Spade said “Think bigger.” I responded, “I want to have a production company space”. Spade retorted, “Think Bigger!” I clapped back, “I wanna own a network”. Spade smiled slickly, sickenly saying again, “Think bigger! After a while, I was just wondering how big I could get, how far I was willing to go, and what was expected of me and my giving. This was not a motivational speech. It felt nauseating, diabolical, and like a type of evil grooming. It was like the underline question was “Are you ready to sell your soul?” That day Spade said we would end early around 6 PM. We hatched an escape plan. One of the ladies from my content creator group had been summoned to speak with Spade; she must’ve been in conversation with him privately for a total of five hours. I have an extended family member who lives in Alabama who was expecting us to come visit. She attended one of the universities nearby and she was a criminal justice major. When my communication became scant she began to grow suspicious about why we hadn’t left the facility and arrived at her place yet. She had been given a few details about our discomfort and fears. When it hit midnight and our group member was still jaw-jacking and chopping it up with Spade, I put my fear aside and made a decision. I couldn’t wait any longer, I was going to put an end to the b.s. It was time to bounce. All the Talent was waiting to be dismissed formally by Spade for the evening. People were sleeping on the stage and resting on the table. Nobody was speaking up or had the wherewithal to say something was off. But I was. With a sense of urgency, I burst into his office without knocking. I saw my girl sitting directly across from Spade. It was as if they were having an intellectual showdown. I told him the meeting was adjourned and we were leaving. He aggressively yelled and said, “Don’t you ever interrupt me!” I told my group member and friend to get her things, and that we were getting out of there. Everyone started to gather their belongings and we were ready to leave. Wayne had invited us to come chill at his place for the past night. My family could not meet up with us until a little later. So we went to Wayne’s house. We all tried to figure out the mystery of Spade and Ms. Selena. That night we stayed pretty late out because our hotel booking had expired. We needed to book somewhere else. Wayne called Spade on our behalf. Spade again insisted on trying to get us to one of the hotels where he had connections. Wayne, Spade, and Selena were going back-and-forth back-and-forth trying to negotiate details of where we were going to stay. It was determined that Spade and Ms. Selena was going to meet us at the hotel of their choosing to pay for the room. We thought it was a bit odd for them to come out at that hour of the night because it was already past 1 AM. What kind of investor meets his clients late at night? It all seemed quite peculiar. As the night went on, we didn’t get any word other than them, suggesting the Red Roof Inn and Motel 6. We had already respectfully declined these offers. One of the girls from my content group had previously already overheard Ms. Salena, grooming, Wayne. She had heard her telling him that he had to get us to go to the motel that they had assigned to us. At that moment we said we were going to find our own accommodations. By this point, we were shaking and shook because we could not figure out why they would want us to stay in such a horrid place. Wayne told us that Spade had worked a deal for us to secure a room for five nights at $50. That was equivalent to $10 a night! The math was not mathing! Once we left Wayne’s house, the girls and I collectively decided that we were gonna get our things and drive back to Chicago. We had no interest in what Wayne, Spade, or Ms. Selena was offering. We were under the impression that they had ill intentions. We couldn’t prove it but it was an eerie feeling that caused us great anxiety and premonitions that we refuse to see become actualized. We proceeded to find a new place to stay. To say we were shook is an understatement. We called the Best Western motel and asked if they had any available rooms. They said yes and insisted that they only accept credit cards and not cash. Once we arrived at the Best Western the motel clerk commenced to ask us a handful of questions. When she was done asking the questions we asked her, was her questioning normal protocol for a potential guest to secure a room at this motel, and if so why? We wanted to know if we were going to be able to rent the room or not. She said no because we look like possible victims of sex trafficking. Immediately the world began to spin off its axis. She told us that the Motel 6 and Red Roof Inn were hotspots for sex traffickers. Remember these are two motels, Spade offered us respite for the night. The motel desk reservationist told us that these places had double-sided walls where they would snatch girls and they would never be found again. She said that pimps pay in cash to prevent money trails. Places like Best Western Motel prevented them from being able to have access to this particular establishment because they only accept credit cards now. She did break down and rent us a room after we explained our situation.From that point on everything was different. We clearly understood in an instant that the way we moved from here out must be wiser. Before settling in our rooms we walked across the street to the local Waffle House to grab a late dinner. It was closed. There was a group of officers chatting in the parking lot. We walked up to the officers and showed them the address of the daycare. We asked them if they were familiar with this address and was it on their radar. They told us clear as day that that was the location of a high-profile sex trafficking den. They asked us where we were friends and we said Yes. We told them we were from the Chicagoland area. They laughed and told us to go home to Chicago. I immediately called my mother who is now a retired Senior parole officer for the State of Illinois. Her beat was the Westside of Chicago. My mother told us to go back to the motel room, and not to let a soul in. She wanted me to give her the full scope of what happened and for me and my group to be able to speak freely with no one around us. She told us to tell her everything, every little detail that we can remember. She provided us with an escape plan. One of the girls in my Content group had left some of her equipment, and we had to make a plan to get her desktop along with whatever we had left. We could not leave any technology where we would be tracked upon our departure. We had to be smart, and proactive and to leave unscathed. This plan was going to be executed the next day. We wanted it to appear to be a typical day with us to Spade and Ms. Selena. They planned on making their “final offer” that night and we were making our exodus that day. Our cooler heads would prevail. My family member had come over the night before to the motel. She was terrified for us. She stayed with us throughout the night so that she could help us in the morning but we were all terrified of what was to come the next morning. Upon arrival back to the daycare, only one of my content creator partners went inside to retrieve everything so we could hit the road. They told Spade and Ms. Selena that one of our parents had come into town and wanted to take us to lunch. It was an excuse to escape, our smooth exit plan. They asked questions like what restaurant and what part of town. She kept everything ambiguous, “Oh we’ll figure it out while we’re out, they said. Miss Selena and Spade quickly scurried off and left the building. They seem nervous. Immediately once they left, we broke our silence. We begged Wayne to come with us. We told him that this was a sex trafficking den and that he would fall for being the recruiter. He promised us he knew nothing of what we were talking about, and would never put us in that situation. Our phones were going off back to back from my mom, my content partners, my sister, and my family who lived in that city. We ignored all the calls and continued to explain to Wayne that this wasn’t safe and that he would get arrested and be a fall guy. The phone calls continued. We eventually left. We couldn’t convince him any longer and we walked outside where he followed us. He pleaded with us to believe Him saying that he would never put us in a situation like that. He tried assuring us that he didn’t know what we were talking about. My other content creator and partner got out of the car and with great ferocity screamed for us to stop fraternizing with him. “ We have to LEAVE before Spade and Ms. Selena come back!” Time was of the essence. We left and never turned back. The moral of the story is this. Sometimes to advance yourself, YOU have to create your opportunities in life. Furthermore, every opportunity presented to you might not have your best interest in mind. Ladies, Fellas be vigilant with whom you conduct business. Do your research. Listen to your intuition. Trust your gut. Don’t be so hasty to run up into a situation with scantily clad details especially when it is unfamiliar territory. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

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