We were lucky to catch up with Amanda Vilar recently and have shared our conversation below.

Amanda, looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. Setting up an independent practice is a daunting endeavor. Can you talk to us about what it was like for you – what were some of the main steps, challenges, etc.

We all experienced COVID in our unique ways. If you break it down, the word “COVID” can be seen as: CO (together) and VID (to watch). For me and many others, it turned out to be one of the most transformative periods of our lives. Being stuck at home felt like we were all in a cocoon, really focusing on what truly matters and finally having the time and space to make real changes.

I watched many people start rethinking their careers, friendships, and taking the leap toward the life they’d always dreamed of. As for me, even though I loved being a coach, having my three second graders at home all day long made me realize there were parts of my parenting that needed some TLC. So, I decided to pause my coaching practice and dive into learning more about parent coaching. This included everything from nervous system regulation and developmental benchmarks for different age groups to attachment styles and effective communication. I quickly grasped the basics and got hands-on practice (times three!) immediately.

It was a lot to take in, but I’m the kind of person who goes all in—120% or nothing. What I really wanted was to teach. I yearned for community, the missing link. As I connected with more holistically minded providers, I realized the final step in supporting our local moms was community. Providers who resonated with our mission joined in, sharing their knowledge. Some began teaching, while others helped organize events. I created a virtual community space as well as in-person gatherings to support moms of all phases and stages in receiving the care and community we all deserve.

As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?

Whether you’re a first-time mom or a seasoned pro, The Modern Moms Village is a virtual community space meant to provide a nurturing and inclusive community for all. We understand the challenges and joys that come with motherhood, and we believe in the power of coming together to uplift and inspire one another.

In our village, you’ll find a diverse group of moms from all walks of life, each with their own unique experiences and perspectives. We encourage open and honest conversations, where you can freely share your thoughts, concerns, and experiences without judgment. This is a safe space where you can be your authentic self, knowing that you’ll be met with understanding and support.

One of the highlights of our village is the wealth of knowledge and expertise offered by our holistic practitioners. Whether you’re seeking advice on parenting techniques, looking for natural remedies, or simply want to explore alternative approaches to wellness, our practitioners are here to guide you. From parenting coaches who can provide valuable insights to chiropractors who can help with postpartum recovery, we have a wide range of professionals ready to assist you on your journey and educate you along the way!

But it’s not just about professional support – it’s about building connections and forming lasting friendships. We believe that motherhood is a shared experience, and by connecting with other moms, you’ll find a sense of connection and understanding that can be truly transformative. Whether you’re looking for playdate buddies, workout partners, or simply someone to vent to during those challenging moments, our village is here to connect you with like-minded moms who are on a similar path.

Any stories or insights that might help us understand how you’ve built such a strong reputation?

This whole journey has been totally heart-driven. No icky sales tactics or marketing tricks here. I believe when you start a business, it’s about filling a real need in the community, and every step is a learning curve. Sometimes we find out we need to set better boundaries, other times we realize our own worth, and occasionally we need to pivot because we’re unintentionally mirroring someone else’s path. Our professional journey usually reflects our personal growth—slow and steady wins the race, right?

In our community, we’ve got amazing women practitioners and providers who do business in their own unique way. We support each other, lift each other up, and create genuine, heart-centered connections. We don’t do competition; we collaborate and grow together.

What’s been the most effective strategy for growing your clientele?

Authenticity. Honestly, the most effective strategy for growing our village has been all about building genuine connections and community. We’ve focused on creating a space where moms feel supported and heard, both online and in person. It’s all about collaboration instead of competition—we work with amazing women practitioners and providers who share our heart-centered approach. Word of mouth has been huge for us too; when moms find value in our community, they naturally spread the word. Keeping things real and centered on shared experiences has really helped us grow and serve.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.themodernmomsvillage.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmomsvillage
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themodernmomsvillage

Image Credits

Our group photos were all taken by me.

Headshot: taken by Taylor Cotilla: https://www.instagram.com/taylorcotillaphotography/