We were lucky to catch up with Aisha Griffin recently and have shared our conversation below.

Aisha, appreciate you joining us today. What’s the backstory behind how you came up with the idea for your business?

Having walked the path of domestic violence firsthand, I know the profound challenges and emotional scars that survivors face. The personal journey is not just a part of my story- it is the heart of my mission. I chose healing because I had to rebuild the pieces of myself that were shattered in silence. I chose freedom because I knew I was more than the weight of the fear and control that held me down. I chose me because I deserve to love and protect the person I am becoming, just as I protect my children. My survival wasn’t just about escaping—it was about rediscovering my strength, and I want others, especially those still living in the shadow of domestic violence, to know that there is light beyond the darkness. I stand as proof that hope can be real, and freedom is possible.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

At Survivor In Me Foundation Inc., we are not just another organization working to combat domestic violence; we are a beacon of hope and understanding forges from lived experience. Our founder, Aisha Griffin, is a survivor of domestic violence who has channeled personal journey into a powerful force for change. Having walked the path of domestic violence firsthand, Aisha Griffin knows the profound challenges and emotional scars that survivors face. Our approach is deeply rooted in compassion, understanding, and firsthand perspective sets us apart.

Our survivor-led approach means we not only offer support, but also empower survivors to find their own voices and strength. We believe in the transformative power of turning personal adversity into advocacy and leadership. Inspiring strength through survivor’s stories, our mission is to end domestic violence and empower others to reclaim their lives.

Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?

A powerful lesson I had to unlearn was that love equaled pain and sacrifice. Growing up with emotional gaps and struggles, I learned to associate love with survival—believing I had to endure suffering to be loved. This led me down a path of unhealthy relationships. As a single mother, I realized that to truly love my daughters and myself, I had to break this cycle. I had to unlearn that pain was a measure of love and replace it with a healthier understanding: that love is nurturing, empowering, and free from harm.”

Can you tell us about a time you’ve had to pivot?

I’m currently navigating a significant pivot in my life, as my oldest daughter has just returned home. She left two weeks after her 18th birthday, and now, two weeks before turning 20, she’s back. It’s been a big adjustment, not just for me, but for my other two daughters as well. We’ve all had to adapt to the changes in our routines, dynamics, and the way we share space. Bringing an adult child home after nearly two years away is a complex balancing act. It’s emotionally straining, as you’re navigating the delicate line between providing support and respecting their independence. You have to pivot constantly—between wanting to nurture them and allowing them to stand on their own. There’s the strain of managing expectations, both theirs and yours, while also adjusting to new dynamics. The time apart changes both of you, so the balance comes from understanding that your relationship has to evolve. It requires patience, communication, and a lot of emotional flexibility.”

Contact Info:

• Facebook: Survivor In Me Foundation
• Other: email: [email protected]
  phone: 404-981-3401