Today we’d like to introduce you to Erinn Hoel

Hi Erinn, it’s an honor to have you on the platform. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with us – to start maybe you can share some of your backstory with our readers?

The journey to get to where I am today wasn’t a straight shot, and let me tell you, it definitely wasn’t a walk in the park. Growing up, if you’d asked me what I wanted to be, ‘sex therapist’ and ‘sexual health and wellness coach’ weren’t exactly on the list—I didn’t even know those were jobs! My path to this field—and the purpose I’ve passionately claimed—was carved through a deep, often hilariously awkward quest for understanding. I found myself fascinated by the ‘whys’: Why is sex such a taboo? Why do differing desires cause such uproar in relationships? And why do so many women feel defective when their sex drive doesn’t sync with their partner’s? Here’s a newsflash: You’re not broken, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you!

I really began to find my footing when I started digging into my own experiences and realized I was far from alone. Countless women are out there wrestling with these same dilemmas, often quietly, hitting up Google at 3 a.m. asking, ‘Is it normal to not want sex?’ Spoiler: It totally is, and you’re in good company.

Intimacy isn’t just a part of a successful long-term relationship; it’s the foundation. And I’m here to empower women by showing them that better sex starts well before you get anywhere near the bedroom. I help them discover how their sex drive actually works, dial down stress so they actually feel like doing the no pants dance, and build rock-solid confidence and security in their relationships. I mean, who doesn’t want to go through life feeling like they’ve got it all figured out?

My role isn’t just a job—it’s a full-blown mission to transform women’s lives, one gloriously awkward conversation at a time. And honestly? I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Can you talk to us a bit about the challenges and lessons you’ve learned along the way. Looking back would you say it’s been easy or smooth in retrospect?

The road to where I am now wasn’t exactly smooth—far from it! Intimacy is like a complex dance with so many nuanced steps, and sex isn’t just some simple math equation. It took quite a bit of time, and let’s be honest, a fair share of tough conversations, to really understand my own sex drive, how it functions, and how to bring that knowledge into my relationship in a helpful way. But the real challenge? Reaching other women who were battling these issues in silence—those who felt broken, hopeless, and too often invisible in their own relationships.

And believe me, it’s tough to help someone who feels they have to hide because they were something wrong with them leading to so much shame, guilt, and embarrassment. Women often suffer quietly, scared they’re the problem in their relationship, and that’s a heavy burden to carry alone. I’ve walked that lonely road myself, and it’s no picnic. But let me tell you, deciding to ask for help and learning the skills I needed to jumpstart my sex drive? That didn’t just transform my life; it revolutionized my relationship.

Now, I’m on a mission—a real, heartfelt crusade—to help women emerge from the shadows of doubt and silence. By sharing what I’ve learned and teaching the strategies that worked for me, I aim to light a path for others. It’s not just about boosting sex drives; it’s about empowering women to reclaim their intimacy and rediscover joy with their partners. So yes, it’s been a journey with its fair share of bumps, but every step was worth it to get to where I am today: here with you, ready to make a difference, one candid conversation at a time.

Thanks – so what else should our readers know about Hoelistic Health and Hoelistic Health Coaching?

What really sets Hoelistic Health apart isn’t just our focus on firing up your sex drive—we go way beyond that. We’re all about the full spectrum of health. It’s not just about cranking up the libido; we’re here to dial down your stress, soothe that buzzing nervous system, and boost habits that will not only enhance your life today but sustain you for the long haul in your marriage. We tackle those sneaky barriers that block the path to deeper intimacy and a more enjoyable sex life. So, what we do isn’t just about sparking better sex; it’s about igniting a better life, stronger relationships, and overall wellbeing.

Now, let me tell you why I’m so pumped about my work. As women, we often find ourselves in the dark about how our sex-drive related hormones tick. We’re conditioned to put everyone else’s needs first and, honestly, who’s really teaching us how to talk about sex? Navigating these waters in a relationship can feel like you’re trying to sail a ship across the ocean with no navigational tools to guide you, and no wind to push you forward.

And the speed at which society labels women with ‘low desire’ when they’re not super fired up about sex? It often overlooks the real issue—it’s not about desire; it’s about pleasure. I mean, if you’re not having a blast in the bedroom, why would you keep showing up? Exactly, you wouldn’t!

This very frustration drove me to create the groundbreaking Online Signature Desire to Fire Program. I’m not kidding when I say I wish it had been around during my own struggles. This program is a game changer for any woman grappling with low desire, who’s tired of sex feeling like another chore. With my three-tiered approach, we’ll get those hormones harmonized, ramp up your sex drive, and arm you with the tools you need to handle the challenges with your partner like a pro. Because mastering your sex drive isn’t an innate talent—it’s a skill, and too many of us think we should magically have it figured out.

That’s why this program is a revelation. You’re not in this alone anymore. You get real accountability and crystal-clear guidance on how to reduce stress and jumpstart your sex drive without the guesswork. Trust me, it’s a life-changer.

We’d love to hear about any fond memories you have from when you were growing up?

Oh, my favorite childhood memories? They’re definitely of me exploring the woods behind my house. I’ve always been a nature girl—give me a mountain trail over a crowded city street any day of the week! From a young age, those adventures through the forest taught me the essential value of spending time outdoors, soaking up the sun, and breathing in that fresh air. It was there I learned the art of entertaining myself and the foundations of physical health, which, let’s be honest, are lifelong skills.

To this day, I still reap the benefits of nature daily, and I weave this into my work all the time. Why? Because hitting the great outdoors is one of the most straightforward, prescription-free ways to soothe your stressed-out system. No need to pop pills, revamp your entire diet, or flip your lifestyle on its head. Just step outside! I continue to get outside as often as I can, usually with my dog by my side—because, frankly, who makes a better hiking buddy than your furry friend?

So, yes, those childhood adventures weren’t just fun; they were foundational, and they’ve sculpted a lot of my approaches to health and well-being today. It’s amazing how those early experiences can shape us, isn’t it?

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.hoelistichealth.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erinnhoel/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hoelistichealth
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgAyCVYvnr0S7hAXcqh99fA
• Other: Lower Stress and Increase Desire For Women Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5682553211822147

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