We were lucky to catch up with Jessy Pearson-Cheney recently and have shared our conversation below.
Alright, Jessy thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. If you had a defining moment that you feel really changed the trajectory of your career, we’d love to hear the story and details.
In April 2023, I had the privilege of attending a transformative business retreat alongside my business mastermind, Women of Woo. While I entered this retreat with a glimmer of hope for a breakthrough, I harbored lingering doubts about my ability to achieve the desired outcome. Determined to embrace growth, I devoted three days to immersing myself in a mindset of openness and coachability, venturing into uncharted territory in my self-reflection and business contemplation.
A pivotal moment occurred during an inner child healing meditation, where I unearthed fragments of my past that had been steeped in profound pain. I discovered that these deeply wounded experiences had become the source of my self-sabotage, acting as a misguided shield to protect those fragile spaces within me. This newfound awareness of my lingering pain, coupled with a resolute decision to release the trapped energy associated with it, paved the way for unprecedented levels of success.
Previously ingrained blocks that hindered my ability to book client calls and secure new clients were finally released. In a remarkable turn of events, within a mere 30 days, my calendar was brimming with appointments, necessitating the creation of a waiting list. This profound experience served as a timely reminder that our personal growth journey knows no bounds. If we remain receptive to the necessary inner work and embrace the support available to us, we will continuously unearth new realms of expansion within ourselves.
This invaluable experience has reinforced my unwavering belief that there is always untapped potential waiting to be explored within us. It serves as a powerful testament to the importance of being open to personal growth and exploring the trapped emotions that are holding us back.
Jessy , love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?
18 months ago, I found myself facing my second set of divorce papers. As a new, first-time stay-at-home mom with a toddler, I was completely unprepared and traumatized. Lying in bed next to my child, I felt like the ultimate failure. How did I end up in this place, the very place I vowed never to be?
Growing up in two homes, one affected by alcoholism and the other plagued by domestic violence, I had made a promise to myself that my children would never experience a broken home. Yet, here I was, feeling like I had failed. In that moment, I believed I would never recover from the surrounding destruction.
The following weeks were filled with terror and sleepless nights. I was consumed by the desire to understand what had gone wrong. I felt like a victim, and my own responsibility in the situation seemed insignificant compared to what was being done to me. I felt completely out of control and vulnerable, unsure of how to navigate life as a single mom without a job or family nearby.
During one of those sleepless nights, as I scrolled through Hoopla searching for a novel to distract me, the Emotion Code by Dr. Bradley Nelson caught my attention. Intrigued, I downloaded the title and listened to the first chapter. Within ten minutes, I was hooked, and I stayed up for hours, knowing that this was going to change my life.
Dr. Nelson presented a compelling argument about how unprocessed trauma creates trapped energy in the body, leading to dis-ease and dysfunction in our physical and emotional well-being. Realizing that my past had left an intense amount of unresolved negative energy within me, I learned the process of releasing this energy that had been causing self-doubt, low self-worth, and self-sabotage in my daily life.
The effects I experienced were profound. I became more open and able to address my trauma and negative beliefs in therapy. I found myself less triggered by my ex, which allowed me to be a better co-parent and make wiser choices throughout our divorce. I embraced receiving support and became creative in building a secure future for myself and my son. The more I worked with the Emotion Code, the more I understood the reasons behind my thoughts and behaviors. I could now respond and make decisions that served me, rather than sabotaged me.
My journey with the Emotion Code over the past year has been incredibly powerful and transformational. I have reclaimed self-trust and compassion. I have let go of judgment towards myself and others. I am now able to feel and process emotions in real-time, without the need to suppress or ignore them. Most importantly, I have gained a newfound confidence rooted in a deep understanding and love for who I truly am.
Today, as a certified Emotion Code practitioner, I am dedicated to working with women who are ready to embark on a profound journey towards healing and inner transformation through a series of 1-1 personal sessions that help them unearth the past, release unresolved trauma, and create space for the life the desperately wish they were living.
How about pivoting – can you share the story of a time you’ve had to pivot?
Three years ago, I made a firm commitment to cultivating a highly successful team within a direct sales business. The product itself was something I held a genuine passion for, and witnessing the dedication and growth mindset displayed by the women in my network was truly inspiring. Their path to sales and accomplishment became my own, as I immersed myself in their training and embraced the profound connection we shared.
Over the course of the following eighteen months, I poured an immense amount of time and energy into executing this plan. While I did experience some financial gains and team expansion, it became apparent that I was far from achieving the level of success I aspired to. Beyond the act of selling products, I was silently grappling with the weight of severe Postpartum Depression, coupled with a lack of support from my partner, who failed to understand and endorse the vision I had meticulously crafted.
The turning point arrived at the beginning of 2022, when I returned from a business retreat only to be confronted with unexpected divorce papers from my husband. The foundation of my perception about life and my own capabilities was shattered, leaving me petrified of what the future held. It seemed inconceivable that I could continue devoting myself to the company I represented or sustain myself with the income I was receiving. For the following six months, I merely existed, caught in a state of sheer survival.
It was during this tumultuous period that I stumbled upon the Emotion Code, a healing modality that allowed me to address and overcome my own emotional traumas, propelling me into a new chapter of my life as a single mother with unprecedented ease and confidence. As I witnessed the profound transformation within myself, I gradually regained faith in my own abilities and realized the value of my skillset, recognizing its potential to empower other women while supporting my redefined version of family.
With this newfound conviction, I made a pivotal decision to transition into full-time energy work. I sought the guidance of a business coach, delved into further educational pursuits, and established a practice that now generates a tremendous impact on the lives of women while providing the necessary support for my son and me.
Other than training/knowledge, what do you think is most helpful for succeeding in your field?
To thrive as a healing practitioner, it is essential to adopt a mindset of service. The nature of this profession makes it easy to veer off course, as you encounter a multitude of influences from your clients and navigate the sacred spaces within their lives. Should you become entangled in the pursuit of outcomes, monetary gains, or your personal traumas, you will swiftly realize that your clients become dissatisfied, and the desired results elude both of you.
Remaining dedicated to the path of service necessitates safeguarding yourself from negative energy, establishing daily grounding and protective practices, and actively seeking your own healing. By doing so, you can maintain a healthy separation between yourself and your clients, enabling them to flourish and reach new levels of personal expansion.
Remember, the ego is incredibly tricky and often when you feel that you are showing up in service, it may be a well hidden habit of self-sabotage. Your primary focus should be on creating an environment that supports the growth and well-being of those you serve. By maintaining clarity, prioritizing self-care, and continuously nurturing your own healing journey, you can better facilitate the transformation your clients seek and elevate the overall quality of your practice.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://pocketsuite.io/link/jessy-pearson
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