We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Patricia Willis . We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Patricia below.
Patricia , looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. It’s always helpful to hear about times when someone’s had to take a risk – how did they think through the decision, why did they take the risk, and what ended up happening. We’d love to hear about a risk you’ve taken.
I was in a very toxic and abusive relationship. I was a single mom church going girl , living in the East Los Angeles project with a very loving family trying to find my way in today’s society. But growing up has a child I was taught how to love care and forgive anyone that may bring harm into my life, if it’s safe too say having family values was our household motto. As I grew up I wanted to make an impact on others so I went to college and there I met my children father. Dating was great until I took the risk on dating someone out of prison and I didn’t know his past until the abuse began. Fast forward it continued for the Next 10 years of my life and didn’t tell no one because he has threatened to kill my family if this secret was revealed. I sung professional gospel music with 80% of my Body badly covered in red and black and purple marks from my neck down to the lowered park of my back. As I was in stage singing.. I was in tremendous pain and agony, so hard trying to remember the words to each song and holding back the tears that I’m feeling inside. Fast forward.. he has gotten shot and killed by the police, in a high speed chase and left me to raise 2 small children at that time they were my son 5 years and my daughter was 8 months
I told God if he spared my life.. that I will inspire and try to make a impact on the world..
So I started my wine brand called Vondor Wine and it’s named after my children, and the Motto is Take 1 Sip and Take Your Power Back
And I became a Relationship coach to educate women and men to believe that All things Are Possible
Patricia , before we move on to more of these sorts of questions, can you take some time to bring our readers up to speed on you and what you do?
The reason why I became a Certified Relationship Coach, because I deal with real time, and real situation I don’t stick to the rules because life and love is so delicate, when taping into someone heart can be very sensitive and can leave a long lasting impression on them and it will create an unbalanced force within their mind and create some serious mental issues in the future. I created this platform called Eargasm it is an virtual event that singles and married individuals appear on zoom with the camera off and using a fake name so that they are willing to express themselves with feelings of being pressured on talking about real life issues and problems which are happening In The Now!!! But later I create a safe environment that they can meet and greet to reveal themselves… and that makes the anticipation greater.. and all they had to do is give me their email address Which is kept private for the creator use only. and there’s a small donation for the meet n greet event after. I also render Stress management services which they have an 1h councils intake then we will go out and punch out stress bags so they can fully take out the frustration out by hitting a tall boxing bag to help them take out any hidden anger emotions that might be hidden away by past mental issues and childhood emotional secrets. This technique is done so they will not resorted to drugs or alcohol in my opinion. It works!
How about pivoting – can you share the story of a time you’ve had to pivot?
I have always love helping others. So I went To Cal State Dominguez Hills College and graduated as as Meeting and Marketing Event Planner.. So I plan coordinate and officiant Weddings and host Events. To fund my business and brand my wine brand, I volunteered at local events for several years until they decided to compensate me, but I also cleaned houses for the elderly and disabled to funds my adventures and put aside what I was doing and take odd jobs to keep my dream flowing because I’m all by myself trying to make my dream manifest and provide a decent life for my 2 children.
How’d you build such a strong reputation within your market?
My self worth and My real life experience.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: Vondor wine Instagram
- Facebook: Patricia thickisin Willis
- Youtube: Miss Thick Is In Pat
- Other: Missthick43 Instagram