We were lucky to catch up with Jacqueline Von Hardy recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Jacqueline , thanks for joining us today. What’s something crazy on unexpected that’s happened to you or your business

Hmmm…well….As a men’s dating coach, I guess I never expected to recieve so many text messages with pictures of cows giving birth (yes, really). Several of the men I work with are CEOs of multi 7-figure Dairy and Angus farms. I found myself fascinated but got more than I bargained for. It’s all good however, just don’t ask how they keep Steers from becoming big aggressive bulls… in fact don’t even google it, trust me on this.

On a brighter note, when grocery meat took a dive in quality and a jump in price, I soon had a big surprise delivery and a full freezer. I’m pretty sure they took one out to slaughter…I kinda feel bad about that.

Anyone want to come over for some BBQ?

Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers

I’ve been told I’m an intuitive empath, and some of that may be accurate, but I’m really just a girl who thrives off of seeing other people thrive. In love, in business, in life. I’ve been blessed with an incredible husband, wonderful children, fabulous friends, my dream home, the opportunity for extensive post-graduate education, and a thriving 7-figure business that is making a real impact on the world.

The core of my business has been Men’s date coaching. I have coached thousands of men, even more through my videos and trainings.

Our motto is “Nice Guys Finish FIRST.” I have seen repeately what happens to men that come out of Narcisstic relationships. Their kindness gets mistaken for weakness and can attract the most terrible of people. Ive shown them how to be a confident gentleman, without becoming a doormat or attracting the wrong women.

I also help men that haven’t dated in many years who suddenly find themselves single after divorce or loss of a spouse. It’s a new dating culture and it’s not easy. Dating is broken in America, and I’m on a mission to change that.

I respect men as natural leaders and believe the biggest impact I can make is to empower the good ones. I have an incredible team of beautiful, intelligent women, many with post-graduate and doctoral level education but what’s most important is they are more beautiful on the inside than the outside and incredible coaches.

I’m most proud of my clients (and so is my team), we have endless stories but one that really spoke to my heart was a gentleman (in his 50s) that was with the same woman since high school, and when she passed suddenly from cancer (found at stage 4) he was devastated both personally and financially. He even lost his home.

As expected he became depressed for some time, he even lost his job over it. Then he found me and decided to take a chance at coaching. Cranky at first but none the less a good student. Our process starts by turning the mirror on ourselves. In order to find the one, you must be the one. He rediscovered himself, found confidence, happiness and soon after, he found love. Within 6 months of working with us he went from jobless, homeless and loveless, to employed, a homeowner, and engaged!…to a roller-skate instructor no less! The new house even has a barn they put a rink in. (Yes, really!)

Can you tell us about a time you’ve had to pivot?

I’m going through transition now. Our infrastructure is solid and scalable but with the pandemic and elections impact on social media usage and demographics, we needed to stop and re-think. People are hungry for live human interaction. They’re sick on online guru’s and want something real. This was validated at a graduates weekend event I held recently. I found myself standing in a room full of clients who traveled thousdands of miles to see my team and I, begging me to do more in-person events… So we are! We are now in process shifting the business model. We also stared including business & executive coaching last year.

We’d love to hear the story of how you built up your social media audience?

Yes, 2 pieces of advice. First, don’t be afraid to spend money on Ads (and be sure to stay analytical rather than emotional about the day-to-day results.) So many people are focused on building organically, and the truth is it takes an incredible amount of time an effort…when you could be earning big in the meantime. If you’re committed to your business, invest in it.

Second, in a world full of business coaches and masterminds remember this: The best advice you’ll ever recieve is to look at the person giving the advice. I have seen many people invest tens of thousands into coaches that have no business coaching. They have no expereince, education or results, they are simply good at sales and making you feel excited.

Saying that will piss a lot of my peers off but hey…Sorry, not sorry. I wouldn’t be coaching on dating, life or business if I wasn’t personally seeing extraordinary outcomes in each, and unappologetically, I am. Would you take finance advice from a broke person? No.

Contact Info:

• Website: elevateyou.biz
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacquelinejvon/
• Other: https://www.elevateyou.biz/scottsdaleevent

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Basma Orgel