We were lucky to catch up with Victoria Pittman recently and have shared our conversation below.
Victoria, appreciate you joining us today. Let’s talk legacy – what sort of legacy do you hope to build?
As I ponder my legacy, I envision a trifecta of love, wisdom, and acceptance. I long to leave an indelible mark on the lives of those I cherish, starting with my family and friends. I want them to know, without a shadow of doubt, that they were deeply loved and valued by me.
My journey of studying relationships stems from a desire to love more intentionally and abundantly. I believe that strong, loving relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling life. When God wanted to accomplish great things, He often started with a family. This inspired me to nurture meaningful connections with my loved ones, including my incredible sister, Allison, who’s been my rock since childhood.
Through my experiences, I’ve learned the importance of healing our inner wounds to love others more fully. I aspire to create a ripple effect of love, where my family and friends feel seen, heard, and cared for.
Wisdom is another vital aspect of my legacy, and it’s deeply intertwined with acceptance. I’m passionate about sharing insights on self-discovery, interpersonal skills, and building healthy relationships. I believe that when women tap into their inner strength, they’ll thrive in all areas of life, including love.
This, in turn, will positively impact their families, communities, and the world at large. By embracing acceptance, I strive to create an environment where everyone feels welcome, valued, and loved. In a world where many people struggle with feelings of inadequacy, I want to be a beacon of hope and acceptance.
My message is one of fulfillment – that life is rich, juicy, and worth savoring. I want women to know that they can have it all: a life that’s true to who they are, meaningful relationships, and a deep sense of purpose. It’s never too late to start building the life you desire, and I’m committed to sharing my blueprint with women everywhere.
Ultimately, I hope to impact generations to come, leaving a lasting legacy that inspires future generations to live with intention, love, and wisdom.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
Imagine having the power to transform your life and relationships, unlocking a world of limitless possibility and potential. For over a decade, I’ve been passionate about empowering women to break free from limitations and create their dream lives.
I know firsthand the feeling of being stuck in a rut, wondering if this is all there is to life. But I also know the thrill of discovering your true potential, of unlocking the doors to a life that’s authentic, fulfilling, and overflowing with love.
That’s why I recently created The Vibrant Society LLC, a coaching business dedicated to guiding women on their journey to love, growth, and fulfillment. As a dating and relationship coach, I specialize in helping high-achieving women create their dream lives and get into relationships with their dream man.
With over 20 years of experience in banking, project management, and Christian leadership, combined with my certification as a Life Coach, I’ve developed a unique approach that fosters a supportive atmosphere of empathy, strategy, and spiritual insight for my clients.
My coaching journey began with a passion for understanding women’s stories, relationships, and the skills needed to build meaningful connections. To equip myself with the necessary tools, I pursued certification in coaching and hired a business coach, Pamala Lue-Hing, who helped me build a business structure around my passions.
Unlock Your Full Potential
At The Vibrant Society LLC, our mission is to empower women to Dream Big, Discover You, and Find Love. We achieve this through our unique threefold approach, which encompasses transformation, self-discovery, and dating/relationship insights.
Transform Your Life
Our signature program, ‘Dream Big, Love Bigger: Keys to Unlocking Your Dream Life and Dream Man,’ is a transformative 12-week virtual group coaching experience designed to help women unlock their full potential and confidence.
In this program, you’ll embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and transformation, becoming:
– The Visionary: A woman who builds her dreams through imagination, vision, and mindset transformation, discovering her purpose, passions, and values.
– The Queen: A woman who rules her life with confidence, intuition, and self-awareness, mastering her emotions, boundaries, and self-care.
– The Dream Girl: A woman who attracts and keeps high-caliber men, understanding the secrets of attraction, healthy communication, and meaningful connections.
Through this program, you’ll gain clarity, confidence, and skills needed to:
– Discover your true worth and value, and learn to own it with confidence
– Unlock the secrets to building meaningful connections and attracting your dream man
– Create your dream life, having vibrant dating experiences, and healthy relationships with men
You’ll Experience…
– A supportive community of like-minded women who uplift and inspire each other.
– A safe space to share your story, receive feedback, and gain new insights.
– A transformative journey that will leave you feeling empowered, confident, and ready to take on the world.
Join Our Community
I’m proud of the impact The Vibrant Society is having on women’s lives. Witnessing women break free from limitations, own their worth, and attract loving relationships is truly fulfilling. My mission is for women to know that love is for them, and our community is a safe space for women to grow, learn, and thrive together.
Who We Serve
I work with high-achieving women in their 30s and 40s who are tired of wasting time on the wrong men, refusing to settle for anything less than healthy, loving relationships. Women who desire to attract and choose their ideal partner and create a fulfilling life that aligns with their values and dreams.
Get Started
If you’re ready to transform your life, dating, and relationships, I invite you to book a free Discovery Call with me. Let’s explore how our coaching programs can help you unlock your full potential and create the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Stay Connected
To stay connected and learn more about our resources, tips, and events, join our community and follow us on social media @vibrantsocietysocialhub on Instagram and TikTok. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn.
Exclusive Updates
For exclusive updates, tips, and insights, join our mailing list at our website to receive our weekly newsletter.
Free Masterclass
As a special treat, join us for our FREE Dating Masterclass, ‘The Queen’s Blueprint: How to Choose Your King,’ held every Tuesday night at 7 pm CST over Zoom. Simply register on our website to receive the exclusive link and join us for an evening of insight, guidance, and fun!
We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?
As I look back on my journey, I realize that one of the most important lessons I’ve had to unlearn is the need to hide my authentic self. Growing up as an Black woman in Corporate America, I learned to be extremely professional, which meant suppressing parts of my personality. But this came at a cost.
I remember feeling exhausted trying to balance being myself with being accepted by others. When I would share a little bit about my personal life or be vulnerable, coworkers or management would use it against me. So, I learned to put on a mask, to be just enough myself to be accepted, but not enough to rock the boat.
But what’s even more surprising is that I struggled with this same need for conformity in the one place where I should have felt free to be myself: church. I felt like I had to conform to certain expectations of what it means to be a ‘good’ Christian woman. I had to suppress my personality, my humor, and even my questions and doubts. It was a heavy burden to carry, and it left me feeling like I wasn’t living my full life.
But now, as a business owner, I’m having to unlearn all those lessons that helped me succeed in those institutions. I’m realizing that I can be my whole self, without apology. I can be funny, wise, and authentic, without fear of judgment.
What I’m learning now is that I have the power to create my own environment, my own way. It’s scary, but it’s also exhilarating. I want women to know that it’s possible to be all that you are, to be successful, and to have love – without sacrificing your authenticity.
As I continue on this journey, I’m embracing my true self, flaws and all. I’m giving myself permission to show up as myself, even in client sessions and interviews. And I want to encourage you to do the same.
We’d love to hear about how you keep in touch with clients.
Building relationships with my clients and community is at the heart of everything I do. I believe in staying connected and fostering a sense of loyalty and trust. That’s why I’m committed to making personal connections with each and every one of you.
Whether it’s through my weekly newsletter, where I share bite-sized advice and free resources on relationship topics that resonate with you, or through personalized video messages via text, I want you to know that I’m invested in your journey. I care about your progress, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
I’ve also started doing live sessions on Instagram and TikTok, which has been amazing for connecting with a wider audience and having real-time conversations about dating and relationships.
My goal is to create multiple touchpoints over time, so that you know I’m here for you – not just when you need coaching, but whenever you need guidance or support. I want to be a positive voice in your life, reminding you that healthy, successful, and fulfilling relationships are possible.
It’s not just about giving advice or coaching – it’s about empowering you with the skills, mindset, and character to build strong, loving relationships that last. So, I invite you to join me on this journey. Subscribe to my newsletter, attend a live session, or reach out to me directly. Let’s build a community that supports and uplifts each other, every step of the way.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.thevibrantsociety.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vibrantsocietysocialhub/?hl=en
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoriapittman/
- Other: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@vibrantsocietysocialhub
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Camille Percy Branding