We were lucky to catch up with Mindy Kaya recently and have shared our conversation below.
Mindy , appreciate you joining us today. We’re complete cheeseballs and so we love asking folks to share the most heartwarming moment from their career – do you have a touching moment you can share with us?
I have had a client that sees me consistently over the course of 3 years. I originally started seeing them due to postpartum anxiety that had rendered them in a lot of fear as a first time mother and showed up more in physical symptoms. Throughout our time together she conquered many battles from learning how to speak her truth, set clear boundaries, process deep inner childhood trauma, and trauma from her previous fertility path to conceive their current little one. As I witnessed her step more and more into her power owning her light and learning to value herself in many ways I have found myself in immense moments of pride and pure gratitude for her continuous strength and courage to show up for herself and her family.
The most heartwarming moment is when her and her husband were struggling through fertility for their second child, they experienced many challenges during there path of which included a loss and through these challenges it created a deeper separation between them. I had mentioned doing a couples session to assist each of them in healing there connection and the pain that had occurred during there journey. I had seen her partner individually once and understood his areas of pain and needs but more specifically I understood my treatment of couples sessions is far different from a traditional therapy session and it would help them heal on a much deeper level. One of my gifts I was blessed with is the ability to connect to the soul of the unborn child, this helps each family understand why that soul has chosen them, what they may need from each family member in order to be born and their purpose together. Once I connect the family to their unborn child’s soul it is then a healing around whatever the blocks may be to receive their beautiful bundle of love. I had connected the wife during a few of our sessions throughout our time together but felt it was time to work on their healing together and this was one of the blocks that was preventing forward movement in welcoming their little one to the world.
I was able to get each of them to agree to a couples session, of which we had two sessions the first was more to address issues in the relationship and second to address the separation that occurred during the last round of fertility treatments. I must say I left each session with an overwhelming feeling of love, joy and happiness knowing this is exactly why I do this. Why it is my calling, the pure bliss I receive from it.
In the session I had them each ground their energy, then while standing I had each of them connect to their partners heart chakra while breathing and setting an intention for the session bringing forward the healing that is for their highest good and to create more clarity and compassion between the two. I then guided them while lying down and holding hands in a meditation, this meditation held millions of light codes and created a safe space for each of their heart centers to connect and express their feelings and areas of disconnect. Each partner held space for each other and validated their own process and emotions through their intuitive guidance and then after some deep cleansing I did through energy work and the healing of light codes and the healing of water energy. I ensured each of them felt ready and open to meet their little one that they are trying to bring into the world. After each agreed through a visualization I called in the soul of their unborn child and each of them understood the path they were on, how each of them were healing, and what steps they needed to do to continue. At the end of the meditation we closed the space and processed while each of them looked into each others eyes. It was like seeing them see each other for the first time. There souls acknowledged each other and the love was lifted back up.
I say this because they have only had 2 sessions with me as a couple and the the growth I have seen in their connection is exponential. They went from not having intimacy, and arguing often, or not openly discussing topics of tension. To each of them being aware of how there behaviors impact each other, over time working on these behaviors, and having more awareness of each other, more connection, more intimacy and choosing to grow together. I also know their little one is coming and with much more ease. They each heard one another and took action to heal and mend it within themselves and in their connections. They each understood what the soul of their unborn child was asking of them and choose to raise their vibration to match what they needed.
They inspire me because each partner must be open to healing, have a desire for self awareness for growth. They each chose to have the courage to embrace the truth and accept areas within themselves that needed to heal and shift. I also share this because so often in my practice I hear Women thinking fertility and other issues in the home is their fault, their bodies failing them etc.. But the reality is it isn’t their fault. when you marry someone this is a energetic joining of two souls, two energies, two paths creating an overall unit. If only one family member works on themselves, this may help to a certain degree but it is the responsibility of each member to uplift the family unit and create what the incoming soul needs of the family. When a child is blessed into the family it is raising the vibration of the family unit, which requires all members to shift and raise their frequency. It is truly a blessing to witness such miracles each day and to hold couples and individuals in their greatest time of need.
Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Integrative Coach and Energy Healer. Throughout the 12+ years I have been in the field, the development of my business has shifted in many ways over time, from a more traditional mental health practice, to slowly building its way to a holistic practice, where I focus on guiding individuals and couples going through fertility, pregnancy or postpartum. My holistic practice consist of utilizing guided meditations, energy healing and sound bowls to assist clients to heal and find their internal compass within.
My Mission is to create a Comprehensive Holistic Care Approach for Couples in the next phase of their life, wanting to grow their family. Supporting you from the point of discussion around conception to the path of fertility, throughout pregnancy, postpartum, and into parenthood. An environment that helps each of you thrive, guiding you and your partner on a path that unifies. Opening doors of conversation, providing healing, and tools around each stage, to ensure you and your partner are prepared, and connected to truth in yourselves, in your marriage, and in your own mission as a growing family. Creating an environment that holds truth, compassion, and pure love. A place where you will feel safe to explore who you are in this next chapter. I am here to guide you both on your journey and assist you in connecting to your deeper intuition while you navigate this new path. I intend to create a warmth of overflowing love while you understand the shifts that are occurring inside, around you and as a couple. To teach you how to honor your gifts, and transcend with love not fear. To ensure you will leave every time with a little piece of yourself given back to you healed and cleared. Creating a welcoming home that embraces the soul of your child and honors your family’s purpose together.
Areas I specialize in:
Individual/Couples
Fertility
Pregnancy
Postpartum
First Time Parents
Womb Healing
Soul Child Connection
What sets me apart from others is the tranquility you will feel in my sessions, my ability to guide you toward the answers within, and to see not only what you present in the space, but the information hidden in your energy. Connecting through the energetic field assisting in clearing old thought patterns, and seeing into your family system through the lens of where you are being asked to rise. I understand the whole picture by utilizing light codes, and the divine connection of love. My ultimate connection is through the energy of love of which you will feel every time we sit together. Compassion, and truly assisting you in what is for the highest good for the family, always ensuring you feel safe as we dive deeper to the root and go at your pace. I will never ask you to do something that you are not ready for or feels unsafe. I believe and support you to tell me what you need.
If you are seeking guidance on your path to having a child regardless of what stage you are at wanting to work through fears of becoming a parent and processing that next phase of life, finding the emotional ups and downs of fertility treatments to be isolating and overwhelming, finding anxiety and many questions or doubts occurring in pregnancy or navigating your identity as a parent and how to redefine your marriage I am here to support all couples and individuals on this path and will hold you in a time when you need strength and a safe place to go within and find clarity, and feel held through the many moments of this next phase of life.
Pricing:
Coaching Session $225.00 for 1 hour
Couples Session $225 for an 1.5 hours
Womb Healing Session $240 for 1 hour
Iridescent Breakthrough Healing Package Includes 4 Sessions $825
Family Starting Package Includes 15 Sessions ( 5 individual sessions for each partner, 5 couple sessions) for $3,111
What’s a lesson you had to unlearn and what’s the backstory?
In order to be the healer that is truly clear and fully present I had to unlearn what it means to hold space for others. The deeper I go into my own internal healing and awareness the more I understand about myself and my purpose of a healer. I have realized that each time I enter the space with a client regardless if it is our first session or 2oth session or even more, I must enter the space fully in surrender to whatever healing is for their highest good in that moment and allow my intuition, my higher source of light connect me with what needs healing.
I have found if I go in with an agenda, or a bias of any kind it may impact the healing that is necessary for where they are at in the moment. I must open my heart completely during the session, to align with the wisdom I need to share or guide them toward. If I come in with attachments to the outcome or ideas of how to guide them I will miss certain key elements that they need to pick up to heal. For example It is as if I am being given a map each time that is forever evolving, changing just like we are always shifting and evolving. If I go in thinking today we wanted to focus on my clients parents and do some inner child work around this but in my mind since I know the client and start piecing together the puzzle from the background I already know, this may misguide what true block must be lifted in order to in fact heal this pain from her parents or the underlining reason we wanted to explore healing with their parents to begin with.
It requires me to be 100% present, and with a full open heart to allow for what needs to be healed to come forward. In therapy especially during my years of graduate school. You are often taught to be unbiased but to have an agenda, a direct map of where you want to lead your clients each session, even through evidenced based practices. I do think the field of therapy is becoming more and more eastern medicine and learning to shift the old ways of thinking but I had to unlearn the structure and learn to tap into my intuition, my own higher power both in my own personal life and with clients. This was a deep unraveling over time, and took reflection on why I was attached and a releasing of my ego to trust that it isn’t about where I think they should be but about the souls journey and divine timing of how that path unfolds.
If you could go back in time, do you think you would have chosen a different profession or specialty?
Yes 1,000 times yes! It is literally my calling and It brings overflowing joy to my heart to help families in a time of there biggest transition from Individuals to Parenthood. It is a blessing to hold each of them in a time when they feel lost, overwhelmed and are trying to navigate their path. To comfort them, to help them find connection to the souls of their children, to help each person understand themselves as they shift into parenthood and grieve the loss that occurs of their identity in themselves and in their relationships with their partners and to join them back into a state of connection to themselves, to trusting their own inner guidance as a parent, to beginning to understand who they are in this new identity and reconnect them with their partners and this new community in a way that shines there brightest selves, leaving behind all the old patterns and truly leaning into who they are as a soul is a remarkable gift.
It is a blessing to know your path, and to help so many others find theirs it brings a feeling of love and freedom within me. I will say in my own path understanding I wanted to be a therapist at the age of 14 or so was rare and I don’t take this for granted, but the true awareness of what that path would grow into over time or the immense joy it would bring me or the true knowledge of how this would shape my life was quite a surprise to me. I was not aware at that young age where my path would lead, nor did I comprehend the true meaning of being a healer and the humbleness it would require, the healing I would have to undergo in order to be able to hold such a meaningful and clear space for my clients. The deep shedding of my old patterns, the awareness of my judgments, the healing of my traumas, the releasing of fear and attachments. The bravery of taking a path unknown and having the courage each day to step into the depths of my inner truth and lead a path that aligns with my soul and constantly leaping without always knowing where I am heading trusting the higher source, moving through the anxiety, and fear and surrendering to what is in divine light for me, my family, and the healing of others.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://mindykaya.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Mindykayaspiritualcoach/
- Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/mindy-kaya
