Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Selena Stamm. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Hi Selena, thanks for joining us today. One of the things we most admire about small businesses is their ability to diverge from the corporate/industry standard. Is there something that you or your brand do that differs from the industry standard? We’d love to hear about it as well as any stories you might have that illustrate how or why this difference matters.

At Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., we stand apart from industry norms by prioritizing personalization and relationships over a one-size-fits-all approach. In the typical industry model, families often receive a house manager or service provider based solely on availability or generalized qualifications. But we know that a household is a deeply personal space, and success comes from more than just completing tasks—it’s about creating trust, harmony, and a true partnership.

Our process is tailored to each client. We don’t just assign someone; we take the time to understand the unique dynamics of a household, from daily routines to personal values, and match families with a house manager who complements their lifestyle. This isn’t just about skills—it’s about personality, approach, and the ability to integrate seamlessly into the home.

For example, while other services might focus on “filling a role,” we ensure that the house manager we place becomes a calming and reliable presence. Families have told us that this personal touch not only meets their needs but often exceeds their expectations, creating a long-lasting relationship instead of a transactional experience.

This difference matters because it transforms our clients’ lives. Instead of merely outsourcing tasks, families feel supported and cared for in a way that brings them more time, less stress, and a greater sense of peace—something cookie-cutter industry solutions simply can’t provide.

Selena, before we move on to more of these sorts of questions, can you take some time to bring our readers up to speed on you and what you do?

I’m Selena Stamm, owner of Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., and like most people, I’ve experienced the chaos of trying to keep all the plates spinning in life—family, work, and everything in between. As a mom, military spouse, and business owner. I’ve had my fair share of “How am I supposed to do all of this?!” moments, and that’s exactly why I started this business: to help others lighten the load and find a little breathing room.

At Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., we offer a range of services to make life easier. Whether it’s meal prep, laundry, file organization, personal shopping, event setup, or placing the perfect house manager into your home, we’ve got it covered. We also help with packing and unpacking for moves, because let’s face it, no one has ever said, “I just love dealing with cardboard boxes!”

What makes us different? We’re not just task-doers—we’re problem solvers with a knack for turning overwhelming situations into manageable ones. I like to think of us as “chaos coordinators,” here to take life’s mess and give it a good dose of order (and maybe even a little sparkle).

One of my favorite moments was helping a family with a stressful move. They were juggling work, kids, and a mountain of packing, feeling like they’d never get it done. We stepped in, handled the packing and unpacking, and turned their new house into a functional home before they even knew where their coffee maker was. The look of pure relief on their faces was priceless—and yes, the coffee maker was on the counter, ready to go.

At Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., our mission is simple: to make your life a little lighter, your days a little easier, and your home a place where you can truly relax. Whether it’s tackling the every day or helping you through major transitions, we’re here so you can focus on what really matters—and maybe even enjoy a moment of calm in the Tampa sunshine.

Have you ever had to pivot?

I’ve had my share of pivots in both my career and personal life. One of the most significant changes came when I was working as a realtor. I loved helping people find their dream homes, but after 12 years I realized it just wasn’t the right fit for me anymore. The constant hustle, the high demands, and the pressure of the market were taking a toll, and I was feeling burnt out. Major burnout. It was during this burnout that I had the realization: there had to be a way to help people without constantly feeling like I was chasing my next sale. I needed something that brought me joy.

As I worked with clients, I began noticing the struggles they faced beyond just finding a house. Many were overwhelmed by the logistics of their move, juggling household responsibilities, and simply didn’t have the time or energy to manage it all. I recognized a real need for services that could help families navigate these challenges and organize their lives more efficiently. That’s when the idea for Tampa Lifestyle Management Co. was born.

Leaving real estate wasn’t easy, especially when I had a steady book of clientele and no guaranteed income ahead. But I knew that stepping away was the right decision for me and for the people I wanted to help. I took the leap and started my business, focused on offering personalized, reliable support for busy families and professionals. Whether it was meal prep, laundry, decluttering. running errands, or organizing moves. I knew this was the work that truly resonated with me.

It wasn’t easy in the beginning, but seeing how our services have made a meaningful difference in our clients’ lives has been incredibly rewarding. Starting a business from scratch without a steady income was a big risk, but it was the best decision I ever made. It’s a reminder that sometimes, a pivot can lead you exactly where you’re meant to be.

I’m truly thankful that there’s a growing need for house managers in the lives of busy families and professionals. It’s a reminder that, in a world full of endless to-do lists, people are realizing it’s okay to ask for help—and sometimes, even a little bit of sanity-saving organization. I’m so happy that Tampa sees the value in this too. It’s reassuring to know that in a city as vibrant and fast-paced as this, people are embracing the idea that they don’t have to do it all themselves. We’re here to step in, so you can focus on the things that matter most—without feeling like you’re about to pull your hair out trying to keep up with it all.

What’s been the most effective strategy for growing your clientele?

My strategy for growing my clientele is simple: I create relationships. It’s like talking to a friend—getting to know people, understanding their needs, and offering support that makes their lives easier. It’s not just about getting things done; it’s about making sure my clients feel valued, understood, and truly supported every step of the way.

I’ve found that when you show up consistently and go the extra mile, people not only trust you, but they also feel confident recommending you to others. Word-of-mouth referrals have been key in growing my business because when people have a positive experience, they want to share it.

Social media has also played a huge role in raising awareness about what house managers do. Some people may not even realize they need the help we offer or aren’t sure who to call for support—especially when it comes to managing life’s everyday chaos. Through social media, potential clients can see that we’re here, we exist, and we’re real people who care. It helps bridge the gap for those who need our services but didn’t know we were an option. It’s been a great tool for building trust and showing people that help is available when they need it most.

Additionally, being active and involved in the community has been an essential part of growing our client base. I’ve volunteered for local nonprofits and, for years, my family has organized a Veterans Day bike ride to support those who have served. Being a visible part of the Tampa community has helped strengthen connections and show that we’re not just another business—we’re people who care about giving back and making a difference. It’s these personal connections that make all the difference, both in business and in life.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://tampalifestyle.co/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tampa_lifestylemanagementco/?hl=en
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tampalifestylemanagementco/
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/selenastamm/

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