We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Alexina Graham. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Alexina below.
Alright, Alexina thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. We’d love to hear about the things you feel your parents did right and how those things have impacted your career and life.
My mother always made me feel like anything was possible, that whatever I put my mind to, dreams could come true. When this new path unfolded for me into the spiritual world, she was excited for me and very open to me sharing every moment that came along with it.
The first time that spirit came through to me in a public place was at a restaurant with many family members all sat around a table. All of a sudden I was hit with such a powerful surge of energy that It was hard to handle. When spirit want to bring a message forward they hit me with insane feelings in my body . The left side of my face goes tingly, my heart begins to beat faster and my left hand tingles. I was so nervous that other family members may see this. I had not told anyone about this new found path I was on, the only people that knew at the time about this side of me was my mother and sister. I looked over at my mother and she saw the tears in my eyes. I put my hand on my fast beating heart and mouthed a cross the table ‘ someone is here’. My mother knew immediately what I meant and asked what I needed.
At that moment she didn’t make me feel crazy, or weird about what was happening but she made me feel heard, seen and understood.
I took a 15 minute walk and shook the energy off by letting the spirit know that now was not the time and I would connect later through meditation. As I walked back to the restaurant I saw a grave yard on the opposite side of the road…. Argh now it made sense why I had picked up on so much energy of spirit.
That was the first part of this journey where I felt that maybe one day I could tell more people as this was pretty cool what was transpiring.
Alexina, love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?
I am a channeler. I provide spirit with a place to speak to those who want to have a deeper healing and understand their blueprint and path of life.
I connect with my clients higher self and guides in 60, 75 or 90 minute sessions to understand on a deeper level what they need help with, how to clear any blockages they may have and to understand their souls path that they set for themselves on earth. For the first 10 minutes of the session, I ask my client not to tell me anything personal, this is due to wanting the client to see that spirit knows them inside and out and will provide them with proof that this is all real. Due to my own skepticism when I was younger, I find this aspect important in my work and for my client to trust and feel happy with their session.
Spirit also provide me with future moments that the client has set for themselves. We can tap into their blueprint, find out their purpose and how the path they are walking is going. At times loved ones who have passed over may also come through to speak. I am not a medium but sometimes a loved one may have a message of hope and support, or they are a guide on my clients path. My work is all in the aim of healing and helping.
I love this work as I see the release it can give to so many. Heck, I see the release and help it gives to me. I tap into and speak to my own guides multiple times a day, It’s so helpful, confirming and releasing with having guidance of a higher plane in your life. The human world can be confusing and and hard at times,
I find out alot that we have so many blockages that can not be seen or felt on a human level, as they are from a past lives or from an ancestral line. We can bring these with us into our current life on earth, which internally is causing blockages for us and we don’t understand why.
I have seen clients have a deep healing and clarity with the work that I do, with multiple people using my sessions alongside a conventional Therpaist.
Can you share a story from your journey that illustrates your resilience?
In this line of work, its alot of trust base. Trust in what spirit is showing me, making me feel and how they are speaking to me. It took me about a year to really believe it all and have no doubt. For myself, I really saw that this was all real when I was shown future scenarios and then a few months down the line the scenario would come true. It really blew my mind and showed me that there is so much more out there that is bigger than just the human us.
Before this journey started, I myself had hit rock bottom. I felt that there was no other way than ending the pain by not being here anymore. That single moment when I had made the decision to step out in front of a bus was when my life totally changed for the better. I was lucky, I was pulled back by someone and I sank to my knees in shame that I was just about to end it all. But from that moment came the first time that my grandfather connected to me strongly with messages from ‘the other side’. My grandfather spoke to me, showed me visions that later came true and I felt at peace and ease when he came through to speak and comfort me on this new journey.
From this one moment then came many more, a spiritual awakening, psychic abilities, mediumship and connection to higher beings of love. They all come through to help in healing, receive clarity and understanding our lessons and how to truly love ourselves.
What do you think helped you build your reputation within your market?
Honesty and trust. The first time a new client comes to me I like to know nothing about them. For the first 15 minutes I ask that we just let spirit talk, so that I can show my client ititss not me, that I would not know these things about you.
All my life I had been a skeptic and as I connect to spirit, I ask them to show my client the depth in which I can speak about them personally without knowing anything about them. I have many clients who say, ‘I don’t know how you know that’ but I don’t know It, I am speaking to their higher self/their guides, who know everything and who are sharing to help aid in their soul healing and learning journey.
From here most of my clients have been from word of mouth. One client who has had an amazing experience, who has cleared something within them and felt a release, then go on to tell their friends and family. Who in turn reach out for a session with me.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://healyourinnerchild.net
- Instagram: heal_yourinnerchild
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