We were lucky to catch up with Turic Baptiste recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Turic , thanks for joining us today. We’d love to hear about the things you feel your parents did right and how those things have impacted your career and life.

Our childhood growth and development significantly shape our behaviors and ways of thinking as adults. While it’s easy to dwell on what our parents did wrong, it’s equally important to recognize the positive lessons they imparted, which often go unnoticed until later in life.

One poignant example from my childhood involves my mother’s lesson on the importance of timeliness and communication. She instilled this value through a memorable experience related to my weekly allowance. My siblings and I received a small allowance based on our adherence to household rules, primarily around being timely and communicating our whereabouts. I usually saved this money for a big purchase at the end of the month, such as a coveted pair of sneakers.

One week, I decided to hang out with friends after school without informing my mother. Although I didn’t break curfew, my absence for over three hours without any communication worried her. When I returned home, my mother calmly informed me that I would lose my allowance for the next two weeks. At the time, I felt it was harsh, but as I grew older, I realized the profound lesson in that incident. It taught me the value of communication and how a lack thereof could disrupt plans and impede progress. This lesson has been invaluable in my personal and professional life, where clear and consistent communication is key to achieving goals and maintaining relationships.

My father, on the other hand, instilled in me the importance of grooming and presenting oneself well. Before he became ill during my teenage years, he would often emphasize, “When you’re clean and look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you are good.” This mantra taught me the significance of self value and self worth. Presenting oneself well is not merely about appearances, it’s a reflection of self-respect and confidence. This lesson has profoundly impacted my career, as I have always strived to put my best foot forward in every professional setting, understanding that how I present myself can influence my opportunities and interactions.

In essence, the lessons my parents taught me about communication, timeliness, and self-presentation have been cornerstones in my journey. These values have guided me through various challenges and successes, shaping me into the person I am today. Their wisdom has had a lasting impact, illustrating that the right guidance in childhood can foster resilience and growth in adulthood.

As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights and we’ve got a few more questions for you, but before we get to all of that can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your back background and context?

One of the things that connects us all is our life experiences. Regardless of race, age, religious beliefs, or social status, everyone faces challenges. While these factors can influence the nature and structure of those challenges, they do not exempt anyone from encountering difficulties. In sharing our experiences, we can all relate to moments when things didn’t go as planned.

I believe that examining the core of our issues allows us to develop better methods for addressing them. My objective, fueled by my love for people both near and far, is to offer a different perspective. My journey through ever-unfolding life experiences has shaped and cultivated my awareness of energy, spirituality, business, and my overall way of being. As a published author, I know the importance of every individual’s story and how dissecting that story is key to understanding each individual.

I am a certified Life Coach and Neuro-Linguistics Programming (NLP) Practitioner with the American Union of Neuro-Linguistics Programming. My expertise in growth and development is vast and all-encompassing using methods in connotation to create new neural pathways. Additionally, I am a certified Herbalist with deep ties to herbalism and herbal healing. I share strategies that have helped me navigate through life experiences to help others vibrate higher. I’m currently pursuing starting a non-profit organization

The journey through life is rarely easy, but it becomes clearer when you know who you are. I have over 40 clients worldwide with whom I work as a Spiritual Advisor (providing intuitive and medium insights, tarot, meditation, and deep breathing), Lifestyle Coach (helping clients transition to a better self-view, meditation, and deep breathing), and Energy & Astro (Cosmic) practitioner for those on the path of self-discovery and awareness.

I dabble in music as a singer, writer, and producer…

I am a highly innovative and refreshing spiritual advisor and lifestyle coach, focusing on growth, development, and awareness. I offer unique perspectives and ideas for progress in all aspects of life. As a published author, public speaker, and certified professional in Life Coaching, Herbalism, and Neuro-Linguistics Programming, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise. With over 15 years of experience as a spiritual advisor, my intuitive accuracy is renowned globally, and my work transcends cultural boundaries with diverse functionality.

My podcast, “Vibrational Wellness with Turic Baptiste,” explores self-worth, intimate and interpersonal relationships, and unpopular opinions, delving into the energies shaping our lives. That’s available where you listen to your podcasts.

Additionally, my radio show, “Vibrational Wellness with Turic Baptiste,” airs every Saturday and Sunday at 8 pm EST on 99.1 FM in the Atlanta metro area and online at wdjyfm.com.

For more information about my work and services, visit my website: TuricBaptiste.com

I am dedicated to helping individuals achieve greater self-awareness and personal growth through my unique approach to spiritual advisory, lifestyle coaching, and energy work. My goal is to empower others to live their best lives by tapping into their inner wisdom and potential.

Is there something you think non-creatives will struggle to understand about your journey as a creative?

As a creative, I’ve found that a 9-5 job can be your greatest ally. In today’s culture, there often seems to be an unspoken battle between entrepreneurs and those working traditional jobs. If your business or creative endeavors are not yet generating the revenue you need and you have the extra time, there’s no shame in working a 9-5.

I believe there’s a stigma among creatives that taking a 9-5 job signifies some form of defeat. However, my experience has taught me otherwise. I initially viewed a traditional job as a setback, but I soon realized its benefits. My 9-5 job became a critical source of funding for my creative projects until I reached a point where I no longer needed the job. This journey required discipline and resilience, qualities that have been essential to my success.

Some people may have an easier path, and we celebrate their success, but my journey involved a lot of hard work and perseverance. I had to work through many challenges to achieve my goals, and I deeply appreciate the grind it took to get here. Embracing a 9-5 while pursuing creative dreams is not a sign of defeat but a strategic move that can provide stability and resources, allowing your creativity to flourish.

Understanding this balance can be difficult for non-creatives, who might see the creative life as a constant flow of inspiration and success. The reality involves a lot of hard work, strategic planning, and sometimes, taking on a traditional job to support your dreams. This journey has taught me the value of hard work and the importance of using all available resources to achieve my goals.

So, for any creative out there who feels that working a 9-5 is a step backward, I encourage you to reconsider. It can be a stepping stone to greater things, providing the means to support and eventually fully transition to your creative career.

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

I like to refer to moments of unlearning as “deprogramming” because it involves our mind and emotions realizing that certain ideologies no longer serve our growth. A significant layer of my childhood development involved experiencing violence and witnessing violent acts committed against a parent. One of the many effects of these experiences was a profound lack of trust.

I had to reprogram myself from the need to control others’ behaviors or perceptions of me. This need for control was rooted in a fear of hurt and disappointment. I believed that if I could control others’ actions, I could prevent them from being unpredictable or from disappointing and hurting me. Letting go of this need for control was a critical step in my personal growth.

Another crucial lesson I had to unlearn was the idea that speaking well of myself was arrogant. Due to verbal and demeaning abuse during my childhood, I developed an extremely insecure and self-critical nature. I believed that praising myself automatically meant I was putting others down. This belief stunted my growth and suppressed my positive self-awareness.

Once I realized this, I took back my power by focusing on a confident and honest approach to self-expression. I learned that recognizing and speaking positively about my strengths does not diminish others. Embracing this new mindset has allowed me to grow in self-awareness and self-worth, ultimately leading to a more authentic and empowered life.

Unlearning these deeply ingrained patterns was challenging, but it was essential for my emotional and personal development. Through this process, I have become more resilient and self-assured, enabling me to navigate life with greater confidence and integrity.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.turicbaptiste.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/turicbaptiste/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/vibrationalwellnesstv/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dmstbe https://www.facebook.com/TuricBaptiste
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvyC6FOv9GHgB6LACZSQ3UQ
• Other: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vibrationalwellnesstv?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcApple Podcast Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1578759620Spotify Podcast Link: https://open.spotify.com/show/0ovIYl5fBuut5U83z1k2bbPodcast Weblink: https://vibrationalwellnesswithturicbaptiste.buzzsprout.com

  MY MUSIC LINKS:

  Apple: http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1749835290

  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/6oFGAzvAl0hDqMjcT2skFh