Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Lorraine Lindsey. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Lorraine, thanks for taking the time to share your stories with us today Let’s kick things off with your mission – what is it and what’s the story behind why it’s your mission?

My mission revolves around mindset. I firmly believe that the ability to shift one’s perspective can catalyze profound change in one’s life. This belief is deeply personal to me. As a child, I spent time in a homeless shelter for battered women and children. By the age of 10, I had lost a parent to suicide, which led to severe depression in my other parent. During this tumultuous period, I often found myself responsible for caring for my younger siblings. At 16, I became pregnant and made the decision to leave home, ultimately giving birth to my son at 17. This pivotal moment marked the beginning of a significant shift in my mindset. Despite facing discouragement from others who doubted my ability to succeed, I refused to accept their narrative. Instead, I chose to redefine what was possible for myself and my son. I reflected on the sacrifices necessary to defy the odds and avoid becoming a statistic. This shift in mindset profoundly altered the trajectory of my life. Now, 26 years later, armed with coaching experience and training, I have synthesized the strategies that enabled me to transform my own life. My goal is to empower others to embark on similar journeys of self-discovery and change.

Lorraine, love having you share your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions, maybe you can take a moment to introduce yourself to our readers who might have missed our earlier conversations?

I stumbled upon life coaching during a challenging period in my life. At the time, I was working as an EMT for a local ambulance company, with aspirations of furthering my education to become a registered nurse. I deeply believed in my ability to help and heal others, viewing nursing as the natural career path for me. However, despite my passion and dedication, I encountered numerous setbacks, some of which were beyond my control. As these obstacles mounted, I found myself sinking into a profound sense of despair, questioning why my path seemed obstructed despite feeling a strong calling toward nursing.

During this tumultuous period, a colleague of mine, who exuded a natural teaching aura, shared insights about her own journey. When I asked her why she hadn’t pursued teaching as a career, she responded, “I was a teacher, and I hated it… Just because you have a gift doesn’t mean you have to express it in a specific way.” Her words resonated deeply with me, sparking a realization that there are multiple avenues through which to share one’s gifts with the world.

Motivated by this revelation, I embarked on a quest to explore alternative ways of utilizing my talents. It was during this exploration that I discovered the field of life coaching. As a life coach, I guide individuals on a journey of self-discovery, helping them uncover their core essence and explore the myriad ways they can express it in their lives. My mission is to empower others to tap into their authentic selves and manifest their unique gifts in diverse and meaningful ways.

How about pivoting – can you share the story of a time you’ve had to pivot?

At one point in my life, I faced a significant career pivot. I’ve lived through several chapters, transitioning from roles like a 911 call taker to an EMT, and eventually ascending to a top executive position in a Fortune 500 casino. Over nearly two decades, I climbed the ranks in a glamorous and exhilarating environment. My job entailed jet-setting across the globe to court high-stakes gamblers, forging connections with celebrities, athletes, sheiks, corporate tycoons, and billionaire CEOs. It was a thrilling time, filled with glitz and excitement, until it wasn’t.

Despite the allure of my role, I grappled with an underlying sense of emptiness. While the job had its glamorous façade, it lacked the depth and meaning I craved. Witnessing individuals lose fortunes and exposing their vulnerable sides took a toll on me emotionally. I realized that I was caught in the trap of “golden handcuffs,” where financial security overshadowed personal fulfillment. A pivotal moment occurred when a customer lost $10 million in just four hours, eliciting celebration from my colleagues but stirring only misery within me.

In that moment, I made a resolute decision to transition from a life focused on provision to one centered on purpose. I meticulously planned my departure and eventually bid farewell to the trappings of my former life. It was a bold leap, but one that I knew was essential for my well-being and sense of fulfillment.

Learning and unlearning are both critical parts of growth – can you share a story of a time when you had to unlearn a lesson?

One of the most profound lessons I’ve had to unlearn in life revolves around the story I told myself about my father’s suicide. I was just 10 years old when he passed away, and the memories of our last moments together still linger vividly in my mind. The weekend before his death, I had a troubling dream in which I saw him die, and I shared this with him. Despite my fears, he reassured me, swinging me high on the swing set and promising to always protect me.

Tragically, the following weekend, he took his own life. In the aftermath of his death, I began to construct narratives in my mind, attempting to rationalize why he would choose to end his life. Blaming myself became an insidious thought pattern—I convinced myself that it was my fault, that my actions somehow drove him to this unimaginable act. This belief burrowed deep into my subconscious, fostering a sense of inadequacy and self-doubt. I struggled with the notion that I wasn’t enough, that I failed to prevent his demise.

However, through introspection and growth, I gradually dismantled this harmful belief. I came to understand that it wasn’t a deficiency within myself that led to my father’s tragic decision; rather, it was his own inner turmoil and struggles that ultimately consumed him. This realization was transformative—it shifted my perspective on adversity and challenged me to find empowering meanings in life’s challenges.

Now, when faced with difficult circumstances, I remind myself of the power of interpretation. I consciously choose to imbue events with meanings that empower me, rather than leave me feeling powerless. This shift in mindset has been pivotal in my journey of healing and self-discovery.

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