We were lucky to catch up with Breina LaTrice recently and have shared our conversation below.

Breina , looking forward to hearing all of your stories today. We’d love to have you retell us the story behind how you came up with the idea for your business, I think our audience would really enjoy hearing the backstory.

Imagine a young woman, just 28 years old, two years into her marriage, and completely blindsided by betrayal. That woman was me. The discovery that my husband had been unfaithful shattered my world, but what came next was even more devastating. With each revelation of his infidelity, it felt like a fresh wound, each cut deeper than the last. I remember the anguish of having to stop counting the women he had been with after the sixth one. It was too much to bear.

For the next five years every six months I would find out about another woman. I lived in a cycle of heartbreak and despair. The pain manifested physically, with hair loss and a drastic weight loss that left me a shadow of my former self. Depression became my constant companion, and I felt like I was drowning in a sea of despair.

But amidst the darkness, a glimmer of hope emerged when I connected with a life coach who helped me understand that my physical ailments were deeply connected to the brokenness in my heart. Through my own healing journey, I began to see that I wasn’t alone in my pain. So many other women were suffering in silence, grappling with emotions of anger, shame, and confusion after experiencing betrayal in their relationships.

The turning point came when I decided to share my story on social media. Despite having only a small following at the time, my post struck a chord and went mini-viral. The flood of responses I received showed me that my story was bigger than just my own pain—it was a beacon of hope for others who were struggling with similar experiences.

And so, Life After Infidelity was born. What started as a personal journey of healing evolved into something much greater—a ministry dedicated to helping brokenhearted women find solace and support as they navigate the complexities of betrayal and heartbreak. Unlike other support systems, Life After Infidelity doesn’t take sides. Instead, we offer compassion and understanding, empowering women to make the choices that are right for them, whether that means staying or leaving.

My mantra, “removing the shame of your decision to leave or stay,” encapsulates our approach. We recognize that both paths are incredibly difficult and offer unwavering support to help women navigate their journey toward healing and empowerment.

Life After Infidelity isn’t just a business—it’s a lifeline for those who feel lost and alone in their pain. And every day, I’m honored to walk alongside these incredible women as they reclaim their strength and find healing from within.

Great, appreciate you sharing that with us. Before we ask you to share more of your insights, can you take a moment to introduce yourself and how you got to where you are today to our readers.

As an affair recovery coach, my mission is deeply personal. I help women navigate the turbulent aftermath of infidelity, guiding them through the tangled web of emotions and decisions that follow betrayal. But my work goes beyond just offering guidance—I provide a safe space for women to heal, to reclaim their power, and to rewrite their own narratives of strength and resilience.

My journey into this field began with my own experience of infidelity. I know intimately the pain of feeling angry, confused, and shattered by betrayal. The sleepless nights, the endless tears, the obsessions over the other woman/women—I’ve lived through it all. But I also know what it’s like to emerge from the darkness, to find hope and healing on the other side.

What sets me apart as a coach is not only my personal experience but also my dedication to understanding the full spectrum of effects that infidelity has on women. I’ve immersed myself in studying the emotional, mental, and physical impacts of betrayal, so I can offer comprehensive support to my clients.

For those who choose to leave their relationships, I help them navigate the journey of rebuilding their lives with confidence and resilience. And for those who choose to stay, I provide guidance in assessing whether their partners are a good candidate to rebuild trust with.

But my proudest moments come from witnessing the transformation of my clients. To see women who once felt broken and defeated rediscover their strength, beauty, and take back control of their lives—it’s truly rewarding. I believe that every woman has the power to rewrite her own story, to create a future filled with love, joy, and fulfillment.

To anyone who has experienced the pain of infidelity, I want you to know that you are not alone. The doubts, the fears, the “setbacks”—they are all part of the journey toward healing. Closure isn’t something you receive from someone else—it comes from within. And while the relationship you once knew may be forever changed, you have the power to create a new beginning, one filled with possibility and hope.

Have you ever had to pivot?

One pivotal moment in my entrepreneurial journey came when I faced the decision to pivot from my existing business focused on speaking and teaching about Impostor Syndrome to launching Life After Infidelity. Despite the success and recognition I had garnered in my previous venture, I found myself drawn to a new path after sharing my personal story of infidelity and witnessing the profound impact it had on others.

This decision wasn’t easy. I had invested considerable time and effort into building my Impostor Syndrome business, culminating in a TEDx talk and numerous speaking engagements. However, as I reflected on the responses to my story of infidelity and consulted with a business coach, I realized that my true passion lay in helping women navigate the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal.

The transition was daunting. I grappled with feelings of embarrassment and fear as I announced the closure of my previous business and embarked on the journey of building Life After Infidelity from the ground up. With no name or clear direction in mind, I faced uncertainty and insecurity about the road ahead.

Despite these challenges, I remained steadfast in my determination to move forward. I embraced the process of discovery, trusting in my purpose and seeking guidance from GOD. Through perseverance and a willingness to figure things out, the path to Life After Infidelity began to unfold before me.

Reflecting on this experience, I’ve learned valuable lessons about the nature of pivoting in business. It’s essential to assess the motivations behind such decisions, ensuring they stem from a place of purpose rather than fear. By trusting in GOD and maintaining a relentless spirit of determination, I navigated through uncertainty and emerged stronger on the other side.

Ultimately, I believe that pivoting in business is not about avoiding failure or making the right decision every time. It’s about embracing change, remaining faithful to your purpose, and never losing sight of the vision that drives you forward. With faith, purpose, and perseverance, even the most daunting pivots can lead to success and fulfillment in your entrepreneurial journey.

We often hear about learning lessons – but just as important is unlearning lessons. Have you ever had to unlearn a lesson?

One significant lesson I’ve had to unlearn—and continue to unlearn—is the mindset of lack when it comes to money. Growing up in a family that didn’t have much financially, I internalized the belief that there was a scarcity of resources, including financial ones. This mindset carried over into my adult life, particularly as I embarked on my journey with Life After Infidelity.

In the early stages of building my coaching services, I grappled with the belief that people wouldn’t have the financial means to invest in my offerings. This limiting belief stemmed from my upbringing and colored my perception of money and abundance. However, as I’ve continued to evolve and expand my business, I’ve come to realize that there is an infinite supply of wealth in the world.

Unlearning this mindset has required a deep examination of my relationship with money and a willingness to challenge my own beliefs and assumptions. It’s an ongoing process of shedding old paradigms and embracing a new understanding of abundance and prosperity.

Recognizing that my childhood experiences have shaped my views on money has been a crucial step in this journey. By understanding the roots of my limiting beliefs, I’ve been able to confront them head-on and cultivate a more empowered mindset around wealth.

Moving forward, I’m committed to reframing my relationship with money and embracing a mindset of abundance. I believe that by shifting my perspective and aligning my beliefs with the principles of abundance, I can create new opportunities for growth and success in both my personal and professional life

Contact Info:

• Website: www.lifeafterinfidelity.net
• Instagram: Life_After_Infidelity_
• Facebook: Life After Infidelity
• Twitter: life_after_infidelity
• Youtube: Life After Infidelity
• Other: Exciting Announcement! Get ready to embark on a transformative journey with my upcoming book, “Healing The Heart From Infidelity.” As someone who has experienced the pain of betrayal firsthand, I’ve poured my heart and soul into creating a devotional that offers hope, healing, and practical guidance for navigating the aftermath of infidelity. Whether you’re seeking solace for yourself or looking to support a loved one through this challenging time, “Healing The Heart From Infidelity” is a beacon of hope in the midst of darkness. Stay tuned for more updates and exclusive sneak peeks as we countdown to the release of this empowering book!

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